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Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by dechandel(f): 8:15pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
okotv:Lol What does it look like? |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by anthoniaz(f): 8:18pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Adaobi12:Hahahaha.Oga went out then so I decided to nairaland .We are still chopping the honey in the moon oo. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Hanibal(m): 8:23pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Two weeks and still waiting, its a marriage proposal sha. I don't do dating |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Lilimax(f): 8:25pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
idu1:Read it again |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Homguy(m): 8:41pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Lukmanraji:wtf! you want her to leave her current bf for you? dude! get another life, besides there are so !many ladies out there to choose from, why fetch water into a basket? 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ximarro(m): 8:56pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Faddd:u d mad ni? 2 yrs? Dem rumple ur head? Mtcheeeeeeew |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ximarro(m): 9:00pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
OLUJOSHINS:stay de u hear. make dem d press ur mumu botton. Yrs...for woman. if say u near me, na blow u for chop |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Olutola88(m): 9:01pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
mikaj:Na joke I dey na! I'm no jew bro. After all, you saw where I wrote that I didn't woo my first Girlfriend. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by okotv(m): 9:02pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
dechandel:you aren't married. Still in your parents house. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Olutola88(m): 9:03pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
PrettyGaby:Pissed? Not at all! I'm having real fun. Just that there are times I get tired of the Friends With Benefits thing. But the thing sweet sha |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ssuccess(m): 9:06pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Olutola88:That's the shoes I'm in right now. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Dammyrosky(m): 9:09pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
My case is somaw related 2 dis op topic, i av female frnd, who as bin my frnd since dec last year, i asked her 2 be my girlfriend, the response she gav me was dat am nt d only 1, dat dere lot of guys disturbin her bt she already hav a husband nt even a boy friend, dat i should also put it into prayer dat d 1 she has chosen shld b d rite person 4 her. I was jst quiet dat dai bt d only tin i told her was dat all is well, bt afta a mnth she do call, visit me than before, wich i leta study dat she nw has feelings 4 me, bt i did'nt gve her any response till nw, am still single, wat shld i do? 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by franzis(m): 9:11pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
too busy chasing money to be chasing women... I need to take my mama out of the hood 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Gboskee(m): 9:17pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Olutola88:[quote author=Olutola88 post=29349351]It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get. Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”. I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first). I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far. I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months. I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my sness? Nevertheless, I feel I've 10,000 B.c 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by LewisO: 9:21pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Lukmanraji:Guy! am quoting u becoz I can feel your pain, that girl is a semi final of a gold digging trophy, she goes out with u spend your money together, oh boy wise up, that girl has no inch feelings for u just wanna eat your money and dump u, the reason she's not picking your calls is that believe u have celebrated foolishly for her so she has no business with u anymore, or u didn't spend enough of what she expected! I rest my comment there... 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
franklynx:Oga, u can give her a chance. The fact that she made the first move shouldn't be too much of a concern. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ssuccess(m): 9:44pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
funshybam:what of Ngozi and Simbi....#StoryForTheGods |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by FAVOUR13: 9:45pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Rapsodee: You're on point my brother. I'm having similar experience right now. I felt I'm just too sincere with her. Perhaps they want it the other way round. Just that I always feel I shouldn't cheat on any lady 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ayomidearo(m): 9:46pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
2 years 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Rapsodee(m): 9:48pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
smaallsz:so u expect me to move on immediately just coz of dat?...if u continue dat way,you may turn out to be unlucky with girls,I asked her d 2nd time to know my stand before I move on. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by profeoo(m): 10:13pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
It's been 3 months now and she is yet to say yes to me. I luv her so much and I kw she luvs me too jst that she was scared of long distance relationship. I have tried convincing her that we can make it work inspite of distances if only we want to. But its 3months now and I'm loosing patience because my ex is pressuring to come back,plus I rilli dnt like gals staying dis long before saying either a yes or no...... I really want her to decide so I can conc on my NYSC |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by vislabraye(m): 10:33pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Babes must play hard 2 get. I dont usually ask out. If its the babe U are quite farmilar with, just ask for her number. Take her unawares by taking her for a date. |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by mbzz: 11:32pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Faddd:. I can't laff |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by neutrotoba(m): 11:40pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
I have been waiting two years, and I think she's the one.... but at a time, one can get tired of trying and having to wait, it's funny dz topic popped up 2day coz I jez recorded a song about it yestrday... waiting can be hell...... btw if anyone z interested in d song herez the download link http://www.tindeck.com/dl/gboi title is #TIRED 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by TOOTSIEPOOPSIE(m): 11:51pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by ugwum007(m): 1:32am On Jan 01, 2015 |
she actually got dis sms from me ....thats for being part of 2014.....y will I waste my time on a girl? |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by piagetskinner(m): 1:49am On Jan 01, 2015 |
I asked my very close friend out nd she said she didn't want any r/ship to ruin our friendship#i felt bad,cos I didn't expect such answer,since then, I'v pushed askin anyone out, off my mind |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by filani(m): 1:50am On Jan 01, 2015 |
chic2pimp: Now this Guy right here has something that a lot of us guys need more of ... It's called SELF RESPECT !!! He refuses to come to the relationship table with a beggarly mindset, he values himself too much to let one funny gal waste his TIME and ENERGY. I can't believe some male posters on this thread! Waiting 3 months, 6 months , 1 year plus !!! Don't even get me started about that guy that was spending on the Gal like ATM. Jeeeezus ! I don't know if I should laugh or cry for these guys. If I have said it once then I've said it a thousand times to my Nairaland brothers . RECIPROCITY is key, if you are doing all the work(chasing) and she's catching all the fun then you have missed it from the get go. Relationship is a two way street , if I'm putting in effort to be with a Gal you better believe I expect her to put in effort to be with Me as well, I don't give myself CHEAPLY to any Gal 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by holysaint1(m): 1:54am On Jan 01, 2015 |
dovelike: my sista, we re not talking about transformer here... U can visit d nearest nepa office for more info.. :/ |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by Etetejake(m): 2:20am On Jan 01, 2015 |
It's 8years and counting, she is yet to say Yx. Don't blame me. It's just that I will b her first and her last if she say Yx. Good thing don't come easy. I am willing to add two more yrs after wich I quit if she no say Yx. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by TijaniShakiru(m): 2:32am On Jan 01, 2015 |
Girls are d ones even asking me out, me sef go cme dey do hard to get.# no b my fault oo# |
Re: How Long Did You Wait Before She Gave You A “YES”? by lockupman(m): 3:46am On Jan 01, 2015 |
Don't be glad she finally accepted. During that one year, she may have been f*ckkd and dumped by some guys may not be up to you. On the other way, she might just be a decent girl who didn't f**k all those period (very rare to find such babes even on 'Maryamaka' skirt) aprilwise: |
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