Contrary to what you might think,
most guys aren't looking for a
supermodel. They're just looking for
their perfect match: a woman who's
down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive
to his needs.
Here are ten attractive traits that every
man keeps in mind when deciding if
the woman (i.e. you) sitting across
the dinner table from him at that first
date is girlfriend material.

1. Confidence
Take it from the guys, nothing is
sexier than a woman who's
comfortable in her own skin. If you're
guilty of meekly asking lines like:
"Does this skirt make my thighs look
fat?" …stop asking. If you're
constantly needing his reassurance
that you're beautiful, he may start
asking questions himself.

2. Intelligence
Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty
to men after high school. What men
want in a girlfriend is a woman who
can stand as his equal. So be the
smart, savvy woman you are! To him,
it's a total turn-on.

3. Unmaterialistic
Yes, he wants to be your knight in
shining armor. And yes, he wants to
treat you like the princess you are …
but that doesn't give you license to
act like one. Allow him the luxury of
treating you with romantic dinners
and surprise baubles without having
to demand them of him. He'll be
relieved that he doesn't have to try so
hard and surprisingly, this will inspire
him to rise to the occasion when he
doesn't have to dedicate his whole
paycheck to lavish tokens of his love
for you.

4. Spontaneity
One of the first things to go in a
relationship is the spontaneity. You
get stuck in your Friday night dinner
dates and you lose that spark you had
when you first started dating each
other. Don't lose it! Men love a
woman who can do things spur-of-
the-moment.

5. Laid-Back
What's one of the best things you can
do for your relationship with him?
Relax. Just relax. When you come
home from a long, hard day at work
and see those dishes piling up in the
sink, we know you have the urge to
lash out at him. Instead, try to let it
go for the night. No man likes a nag
and every man likes a woman who can
let her hair down and doesn't sweat
the small stuff. We're not saying to
just kick back and bro out with him,
but a relationship is solid when
you're able to relax with each other.

6. Playfulness
Guys like a girl who laugh at their
jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't
always serious about everything. Just
as we mentioned that men like a
woman who can forgo nagging him
about the dishes, they like a woman
who can joke about the dishes too.
Biting remarks and snappy
comebacks are just the witty repartee
to keep the spark between you in your
relationship. And hey, isn't laughter
the best aphrodisiac?

7. Sensuality
We've already mentioned before that
it's not all about your looks (albeit,
that's a good motivator for some men)
— it's more about an air of sexiness
and confidence that will draw his eyes
to you when you enter the room.
Embrace your femininity. Ditch the
sweatpants for date night and take the
extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from
the back of your closet. You
shouldn't feel pressured to strut
around the bedroom in lingerie and
high heels like a Victoria's Secret
angel every night, but you should feel
comfortable in your own sexuality…
and expressing that sensually to your
man.

8. Honesty
If he can't trust you — how can he
ever see you as his girlfriend … and
eventual spouse? Keep things open
and honest in your relationship. A
little white lie over flirty texts with an
old guy friend from college can spiral
out of control very quickly into a full-
blown fight … and breakup.

9. Independence
Dating a driven, passionate woman?
So hot. Babysitting a stage five
clinger? Not so much. No man wants
a girlfriend they have to reassuringly
text, call or visit every five minutes.
Give him his poker night with the
boys. Let him go golfing on a
weekend. Learn to give your guy his
space — or he may break up with you
to get it.

10. Supportive
As clichéd as it is, some men want to
be caretakers … but even the
strongest of men want a soft place to
fall. He wants to know that you'll
support him and stand by him in his
life choices, whether it's changing
careers or moving to a new city. Show
your support in small gestures with a
quick "I love you" text when he heads
off for his morning commute and
listen to him after a hard day's work.
Be supportive — but not suffocating.
The last thing you want is to remind
him too much of his mother.

ryt on track

The list cannot be complete without No 10.
Op..ope ur saturated with the aforelisted facts?
Very good writeup and observation.

To me, number 8 is very important.

Mathematical:
REALLY?

hello, you look good ooo

Gbabe, u ar on point

V

Mathematical:
REALLY?

I just 'like' ur profile picture...... Remember, i told u i like calm face......

She must be very UNDERSTANDING too, lots of women lack dis trait & dis has lead to many failed relationship.

90% right just that you miss something.... God Fearing spiritually lifted woman.... I will advice you to go read this book "the power of a praying wife"

Issorait

Why do I have this feeling that I have read this somewhere?
Op, where is the source?

OP, I agree with your list especially no 2 and 8m. Lemme add mine

11. Commitment
I don't think there is any guy that wish to have a girl who is not committed to the relationship. #say no to cheaters

12. Respect
This is very important. Many girls disrespect their guys even in public! Some can even hit d guy in anger. Mehn, we can't tolerate these kinda girls unless we just wanna play wit dem.

13. Hygiene
My God, I don't need to elaborate on this. Some girls can be freaking dirty. Too bad
We also don't like girls that like to play our role,command us etc

lyk cwiously?hummm..

One man's food is another man's poison. One guy's turn on is another's turn off.
Some guys like you cold while others may like you hot. Bottomline, just be whom you are. , you maybe surprised that that your hotheadedness is actually what the next guy is looking for in a lady.
So, op stop the generalization.

Life is not one-sided.

EroticAngelina:

2. Intelligence
Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty
to men after high school. What men
want in a girlfriend is a woman who
can stand as his equal. So be the
smart, savvy woman you are! To him,
it's a total turn-on.

I agree with all except this.
If you stand as my equal then you'll eventually act as my equal and I will practically show you that we ain't equal.

Yea don't be a dullard but sit when he says so even though both of you know you can stand..

xo

i agree no 2 n 8 especially
eroticangelina where hv u been since...hapi nw yr in advance

cutieberie1:
i agree no 2 n 8 especially
eroticangelina where hv u been since...hapi nw yr in advance

ive been arnd, just havent been cumin onlyn frequently like b4.
Happy new year to u too dear!!!

I've always wanted to ask u EroticAngelina, is it just a name or u really r ero.tic n if u r erot.ic, is it just in ur mind or u physically do erotic things?
that list makes sense but u can hardly find a woman with all these qualities

Prixus:
I've always wanted to ask u EroticAngelina, is it just a name or u really r ero.tic n if u r erot.ic, is it just in ur mind or u physically do erotic things?
that list makes sense but u can hardly find a woman with all these qualities

hmmm im nt eroticc physically neither do i do erotiic things. I just luv the name.

EroticAngelina:
hmmm im nt eroticc physically neither do i do erotiic things. I just luv the name.

aite dear. thanks for answering. have a wonderful yuletide...

EroticAngelina:
ive been arnd, just havent been cumin onlyn frequently like b4.
Happy new year to u too dear!!!

oh ok...i lov ur posts...wil b expectin odas