emusmith:


Missmossy, when work resume naa, I'll go dey scarce like diamond ...I'm seizing the moment... lol

Hehehe I understand perfectly

Have fun while it lasts

Missmossy:

Hehehe I understand perfectly

Have fun while it lasts

Thanks dearie...

VickyyB:

Vickyyb, your worst nightmare.

LOL

VickyyB:

Vickyyb, your worst nightmare.

lol...I expected that... I used that line when I was a teenager... don't worry, you'll outgrow it...

emusmith:


I like many other things...

ok

cutieberie1:


ok

How's your relationship with him?

you are correct because u used 'some ladies '

dorlapoh20:
you are correct because u used 'some ladies '

Yea...I know you'll understand

emusmith:


Yea...I know you'll understand

emusmith:


How's your relationship with him?

lol...which relationship....nd him u re referin to....??

cutieberie1:


lol...which relationship....nd him u re referin to....??

I am trying not to do mentions... I said you looked alike

emusmith:


lol...I expected that... I used that line when I was a teenager... don't worry, you'll outgrow it...

Meaning

emusmith:


I am trying not to do mentions... I said you looked alike

oh ok bt y did u say relationship....evrytin z ok tho..

ALKARULEZZ:
Heaven is sure?

bajebaje

emusmith:


I am trying not to do mentions... I said you looked alike

it was just a joke o....

jingh:
bajebaje

prove it

Oh my. Counter to my thread. Oga o

tattesco:
Oh my. Counter to my thread. Oga o

Yes o, lol

cutieberie1:


it was just a joke o....

Hmmm... Nice hair! For Yuletide season I guess...##

emusmith:


Yes o, lol

u are funny o. Jealousy 4 nairaland

tattesco:
hmmmm. Jealousy 4 ebiag

Hmm...that's right...

tattesco:
u are funny o. Jealousy 4 nairaland

Nah... In real life situations, and of course, It does happen here in NL.
.yea...

emusmith:
hahaha...Newton's 3rd Law states: To every Action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

In our case, To every thread on a particular gender, there is an equal and opposite thread on the other gender, of course.

So, This is a Counter Attack to the other thread, 8 male behaviors that annoy women.

Men too have what annoys them...


Below are some:


1. Disobedience To Instructions:

This trait is as old as Adam. Eve introduced it and see where we are today.
He tells you, buy food items with this money, on her way to the market, she sees shoes, and spends the money on it. Simple Instruction Neglected (SIN)


2. Negligence

Some ladies are so carefree and negligent. They have the whole day(during weekends) to clean the house but it's when they see the hobby's car coming in that they remember to start cleaning. Neglecting to watch what their kids bring back from school is very costly. Neglecting to really have a tet-a-tet chat with their teenage daughter have negative consequence.


3. Laziness

This is normal. But being too lazy isn't! I believe women that knows they're lazy should at least get a house help or something. You see a well dressed mum walking with dirty children, and you wonder! Or enter the house and begin to feel like leaving the next minute.


4. Flippancy

The way some ladies/ women talk sometimes, it is as if there is an award if
you win the argument...lol...
I asked a girl once, How's your day? I sat there for the next 45 minutes... lol...this is lovely if Only you love the person sha....... But some women can talk oooo!


5. Over Estimation Of Self

This has more to do with ladies. Some of them think they're just OKAY and don't need any adjustment, even if they need, it won't come from you! So get into husby's house with that and they're "humbled"...You read their PM, "I am okay the way I am."
I believe in adjustment even as I love to learn new things...This attitude in these set of ladies stem from their LOW SELF esteem personality. (To find them? Those that'll quote me on this )


6. Pessimism

Some ladies find it fun to say words like this , OMG, I'm so dead or It's over for me...I know guys do it too...but if you notice, ladies do it more when with a guy to get Pity or Petting.
This is not good as there will be times when the man will need you to be optimistic. Two wrongs can't make a right!


7. Gossip

Hehehehe! It's like this is the main one. Most Ladies are naturally inclined to gossip. It's like food to them... Do you know Linda Ikeji or Wendy (In the US), it's plain modernised version of gossips!
They gossip everything that walks by...


8. Sarcasm

Don't take to heart everything a lady says... most times she says things she doesn't really mean outa emotions... Ladies are good at sarcasm. They say things and want you to guess it out...Not all guys are good at guesses... They like you but frown at you or ignore you as if they hate you...That's Sarcasm.
Guys don't like it, ladies.

I hope I've been lenient enough in this list...

Guys, open up, Air your views...

@Op dis post shud b titled "WHAT GIRLS DO dat dia fathers do not like"
1.Disobedience to instructions.You giv instructions to babies not grown adults because they ar women mayb u shud just use som oda word.U sound like a guy dat would maintain d master servant relationship wen married.d example u gave is a good one but if u carry dat mindset dat she "must OBEY every of ur "instructions" hmmmm Master u wll b so disapointed and frustrated.B a husband not a RULER.

Mrsfaithhh:

@Op dis post shud b titled "WHAT GIRLS DO dat dia fathers do not like"
1.Disobedience to instructions.You giv instructions to babies not grown adults because they ar women mayb u shud just use som oda word.U sound like a guy dat would maintain d master servant relationship wen married.d example u gave is a good one but if u carry dat mindset dat she "must OBEY every of ur "instructions" hmmmm Master u wll b so disapointed and frustrated.B a husband not a RULER.

I'm not a control freak. Nada! No violent bone in me!

Let me ask you: Does your husband "lovingly" give you instructions Yes or No?

emusmith:


Nah... In real life situations, and of course, It does happen here in NL.
.yea...

funny

tattesco:
funny

Yea bro.

emusmith:


I'm not a control freak. Nada! No violent bone in me!

Let me ask you: Does your husband "lovingly" give you instructions Yes or No?

Mayb u shudnt use "instruction" sounds like a master to surbordinate relationship.
Lemmi ask u.Ur wife is ur partner,ur equal do u give ur male frends instructions?or u ask dem lovingly /friendly to help u do somtin? My point is "Disobedience" of "instruction" which u listed there is not being real, it means u want her to "Always" "Obey" ur "instructions".I mite not just hav d rite word to use in place of instruction but d word sounds like one Oga to subordinate kinda tin.Summary there wl b times wen she won't "Obey ur instructions "oga.

Mrsfaithhh:

Mayb u shudnt use "instruction" sounds like a master to surbordinate relationship.
Lemmi ask u.Ur wife is ur partner,ur equal do u give ur male frends instructions?or u ask dem lovingly /friendly to help u do somtin? My point is "Disobedience" of "instruction" which u listed there is not being real, it means u want her to "Always" "Obey" ur "instructions".I mite not just hav d rite word to use in place of instruction but d word sounds like one Oga to subordinate kinda tin.Summary there wl b times wen she won't "Obey ur instructions "oga.

I get your point.

emusmith:


Hmmm... Nice hair! For Yuletide season I guess...##

thanks...lol...its not necessarily cos of d yuletide season

cutieberie1:


thanks...lol...its not necessarily cos of d yuletide season

Okay... Cool

emusmith:


1. Disobedience To Instructions:

This trait is as old as Adam. Eve introduced it and see where we are today.
He tells you, buy food items with this money, on her way to the market, she sees shoes, and spends the money on it. Simple Instruction Neglected (SIN)

Disobeying instructions?? Sounds more like a teacher and student relationship.

I don't believe in dishing out instructions to someone I choose to have a relationship with. I don't think that gives room for effective communication.

emusmith:
2. Negligence

Some ladies are so carefree and negligent. They have the whole day(during weekends) to clean the house but it's when they see the hobby's car coming in that they remember to start cleaning. Neglecting to watch what their kids bring back from school is very costly. Neglecting to really have a tet-a-tet chat with their teenage daughter have negative consequence.

I also frown against defining roles for I and my gal in the relationship.

Anyone who is at home first should take care of the cleaning. It's not even required for my gal to help with the cleaning though it can be appreciated.

Taking care of the kids should be a collaborative effort and not something left to just one party to take care of.

Couldn't read through the others for now but the first two points I do not agree with.