I’ll be first to admit that our society is
rapidly changing and a lot of this article will be generalities. Generalities, but ultimately, the
undeniable truth. It is your responsibility as a man to clearly define
your values and principles in your relationships with
women. Its not your parents, your religion, society, or
a woman’s responsibility. You decide and you
create the ideal relationship or relationships for you.1. It’s in your nature as a man: A healthy male produces billions and billion of sperm
each time he ejaculates. He recovers within a few
minutes to an hour and is again ready to produce
billions of sperm. Women produce one or two eggs at
a time and are only able to get pregnant mostly
through middle age. Most men can produce healthy sperm till the day their heart stops beating. No
biological clock for males. Biology naturally dictates
that he impregnate as many healthy females as
possible. Thousands of years ago, man spread his seed freely,
without the spectre of “cheating” hovering over
him. Its what nature intended. There are different types of men out there- men who
accept this fact and have sex with as many women
as possible, men who cannot have sex with as many
women as they desire due to a lack of skill, resources
or other setbacks and finally, men who have the
ability to have sex with as many women as they desire, but choose to form a strong emotional bond
with one and remain monogamous and married.
They “choose”…or do they? Some of men in the
last category have no choice but to get married.
They’ve remained monogamous for so long that
they either fear that they cannot find another woman as attractive as the one they have, they just don’t
have the drive to go out and find women they find
sexually attractive.

2. Your game will improve: In general, whenever you consistently approach
women with the intent of having sex with them and
push your comfort zone, your skills with women will
improve. There are three things you will learn from cheating.
The first is that most women you are having sex with
outside of your relationship, as long as they are not
emotionally attached to you, do not particularly care
about your relationship status. The only people who
truly care, are your girlfriend and her friends. Secondly, the better you get at it, the less remorse
you will have. This is critical to understand your
nature as man. You will either accept this
remorseless persona or reject it. Either way, its a
metamorphosis that defines your worldview, which
coincidentally has a lot to do with your success in attracting the opposite sex. Thirdly, you will be astounded by the number of
women who cheat. This is a realization that can be
arrived at simply by having sex with a lot of women,
but it takes on a specific lustre when you have sex
with a woman who is employing the very same
clandestine and evasive skills that you use in your current relationship to hide your trysts.

3. Your girlfriend already “cheated”
on you: Women have certain needs to be filled in
relationships. They require a man who will be a
protector, provider and companion. In the modern
world, this mostly means financial security. Case in
point, most women would have a problem dating a
janitor or a guy who works at a fast food restaurant. Most men don’t have this problem, if she’s
attractive. Your girlfriend who would never “cheat” on you
already has someone lined up the minute she feel the
stability of the relationship is in danger. Like a
monkey, she will not let go of one branch, till she
firmly grasps another. I don’t blame her. It’s her
nature. That male “friend” that she’s been hanging out with lately and calling after you both get
into a fight? He could very well be the next branch.
Most times, however, you’ll be oblivious to this fact. This isn’t a reason to cheat, but don’t take it for
granted that she hasn’t cheated on you. There’s
trust and then there’s nature-where
“moral”rules do not apply. I long ceased to be surprised at the the number of
women I hooked up with who were in
“complicated” situations with their boyfriends. Or
the number who texted their man right after orgasm.

4) You can get away with it: Men cheat because we can get away with it.
There’s an assumption out there that a woman
always knows when you are “straying”. Its my
suspicion that this is propagated by women, men
who have been “caught” and white knights. There
are numerous married men whose tales of infidelity and numerous children outside of his relationship
came to light only when they were six feet under. Getting away with it does not always mean that she
is not aware of your so called infidelity. It also means
that she could know, but chooses not to accept that
reality to insulate her from the negative emotions
that would inevitably arise as a result. In other
words, ask no questions, get told no lies. We’ve all seen the scenario where a woman
remains with a man who often has sex with other
women. We wonder, why does she do it? We
speculate- “Perhaps she’s damaged, or has some
issues.” Its about time we start speculating:
“Perhaps its in her nature to accept a man who follows this particular biological instinct.” Perhaps,
despite how uncomfortable she may feel about his
actions, it validates her choice of being with a
dominant man.”

5. It could improve your relationship: Blasphemy! Cheating could improve your
relationship? Yes it could, and the truth is that it often
does. Right now there are thousands of happy
couples walking around enjoying the fruits of a
fulfilling long term relationship thanks to that one
dalliance on a business trip six months ago. Whether guilt drove you to take your relationship more
seriously, or you destroyed your insecurity by
proving that you still have what it takes to attract and
have sex with another woman, it fixed the problem.
That is the bottomline. Many will argue that the mature way to improve your
relationship is to communicate openly, honestly and
with integrity. To deeply evaluate if needs of both
individuals are being met emotionally or sexually.
Perhaps even to seek counseling or mutually agree
to temporarily try an open relationship. Trust being the key- for if trust is lost, there is nothing left. All this
is true. However, I’m here to tell you that all of the above
will NOT work for all relationships and in some cases
will derail it even further. Sometimes you just need to
find out for yourself if something sexual outside of
the relationship can fix something “emotional”
inside the relationship. Contrary to what most therapists, psychologists and “experts” (of whom
you know NOTHING of their personal lives) might tell
you, this approach does work depending on the
circumstances. Men who have casual sex without emotional
attachment outside of their relationships, in addition
to improving their understanding of women, may
even find out that the main reason they were
unhappy in their current relationship was because
they weren’t satisfied with their sex life. Maybe nature is telling you that monogamy is just not for
you. You figure that out by cheating. Back to reason
number 1-sometimes, when you do what nature
intended, everything turns out alright.

6. You will truly learn how to live on the
edge: Cheating and sexual promiscuity has its inherent
risks. The risk of STDs, unwanted pregnancies,
vengeful boyfriends, private detectives and in this
day and age – false rape accusations and of course,
getting caught. It requires a certain level of skill and
either one big lie or a numerous little ones. The latter will get you caught, the former will let you have your
cake and eat it too. Navigating these risks requires
one of four traits: 1. A strong commitment you beliefs
about relationships. 2. A strong addiction to sex. (Get help.) 3. An acutely risk-taking personality.
(Learn to manage it, or get help.) 4. Sociopathic tendencies. (Get help.) Whichever of the four you possess, you will have to
develop a hyper awareness that you otherwise
would never have had. You being to determine which
kind of women are bad news/ damaged. You learn
the true meaning of “consent”, so you don’t end
up in jail for a very long time. You learn to always rotate the password on your phone, privacy apps,
using cash, limiting the use of your camera, clearing
your history, getting tested regularly, and having a
consistent story among others. As I write this, I’m reminded of a story told to me
while I was in a relationship by a lady I was hooking
up with who, coincidentally had a boyfriend . She was comparing “privacy” phone apps (apps
that can hide your pictures and videos, etc) among
three girlfriends. Two were at the time, cheating on
their boyfriends and one was not and had apparently,
never done so. As soon as there was a lull in the chattering between
the three “cheaters”, the lady who allegedly never
cheated asked them “Wouldn’t your lives be so
much more peaceful if you didn’t have to deal with
all of…this?

This should have been in one post

This na textbook?

Cheating is easy, try something more challenging like : being faithful

aids is real!

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mirexxx:
aids is real!

Durex is real

MrTeymee:

Durex is real

had 2 check Google 2 see d meaning. i get u

this is going to be uninteresting

Damn!!! that post it too long
can anyone summarize that for me?

retrend

There is never a valid reason to cheat on whosoever. It's just wrong.

Don't let the society put ideas into your head that it's OK to cheat cause it's not and never will

be. Learn to be faithful even when it hurts still stand strong. Never repay evil with evil but repay

with love. Move on, fear God and love God , live life and be happy cause we will give account.

That's definite.