I think ladies who spend most of their time, energy, resources, planning strategies on how to get a man marry them are getting it all wrong. Why not channel that energy and resources to self development?

Yeah self development could sound ambiguous but unfortunately I can't explain further so I won't be misunderstood, but would rather drop some hints.

Have you wondered why many men could flock round some ladies to marry them? Yet many other ladies are in desperate need of 'whoever male' could give them that 'Mrs' status. Some go extra length too reprehensible to mention.

While the male may have more time to leisure before self development, unfortunately the female don't have so much time. So the earlier the better. Am not a very good writer but the few I've written should be understood.

Well, not all ladies see it that way! So you should help them see it from that perspective.

Personal/self development is definitely important as it also gives one self confidence, charisma & respect. But then again, some men feel intimidated when approaching accomplished ladies.

So where then do the ladies draw d line on this "self development"? Dont u think guyz need this self development as well? Y run from an independent woman?

great advice. Development is truly a necessity for ladies. so that cry of being "used and dumped" would reduce.

dkc:
I think ladies who spend most of their time, energy, resources, planning strategies on how to get a man marry them are getting it all wrong. Why not channel that energy and resources to self development?

Yeah self development could sound ambiguous but unfortunately I can't explain further so I won't be misunderstood, but would rather drop some hints.

Have you wondered why many men could flock round some ladies to marry them? Yet many other ladies are in desperate need of 'whoever male' could give them that 'Mrs' status. Some go extra length too reprehensible to mention.

While the male may have more time to leisure before self development, unfortunately the female don't have so much time. So the earlier the better. Am not a very good writer but the few I've written should be understood.

Wow nice one from a genius.

































But u copied this from my brain .

mhyra:
great advice. Development is truly a necessity for ladies. so that cry of being "used and dumped" would reduce.

You got my point. As a lady you can always have something to fall back to, to yourself and to the society. At least you won't loose both ways.

Creamish:
Personal/self development is definitely important as it also gives one self confidence, charisma & respect. But then again, some men feel intimidated when approaching accomplished ladies.

So where then do the ladies draw d line on this "self development"? Dont u think guyz need this self development as well? Y run from an independent woman?

Guys definitely need self development.
You will agree with me its better to be an accomplished single lady than...