Ksslib:

Lwkmd. Bia Nwokem, you no dey tire ni?

pickabeau1:


You r missing the point
Yes there was a mob mentality but there is a point

This girl was referred to as a maid initially and the premise of the thread was to highlight spiritual discrepancies somewhere

He has done well by sponsoring this child to school but she is too young to be a minder

Ewuro4:


Thats a lot of chore especially on school days... And to think madam expected her to tend to the baby in the middle of the night? Most 11 year olds are in gear 20 that hour.

Amen.

pickabeau1:



Exactly

I have to give it.to him though
He has been calm amidst it all
Others may have reacted under the onslaught

Let's hope he picks the lesson and gets a proper maid and keeps on supporting the small kid

aisha2:
Call me holier than thou I agree but the clear hypocrite here is the poster. Accusing the government of unfairness and illegality while he strongly defends his own illegal actions, tries to explain it away twist and turn words and presents himself as a victim and he will feel he has the moral right to abuse Mr. President when with his own little power he is acting worse. Shame

njokusboy:


treat the child as you would yours, don't give her any hard work, she can be playing with your kid during the day but don't expect her to wake up by 12 midnight abeg

njokusboy:


Look at this thread a lil, a little cost- benefit analysis would have saved us some headache..

The girl is too young, we know...

The girl is better off with this dude than with her mom... truth...

The girl may even be hawking kuli kuli if she was with her mother, maybe...

The man is not the most charitable man on earth, maybe...

Is he wicked, he'll no....

Which is better, leaving the kid with her mom where she may not even attend school or bringing the child to look after his own...

Some of these women would not even lift a finger to help the child if they saw her on the streets....

0p, you re not wicked, treat the child as you would yours, don't give her any hard work, she can be playing with your kid during the day but don't expect her to wake up by 12 midnight abeg...

dein77:

is there something else you aren't telling us? Even after accepting my share of wrong, you still keep attacking me relentlessly. Why? What else do you want me do? What else?

Besides, I wasn't brought up to insult people, not to talk of the President of Nigeria. I don't insult people.

If my post was created with a selfish desire to portray my daughter as the devil, then it's left for me to suffer the consequences.

But seriously, you're bugging me. Pls leave me ALONE. If the mother of my maid or conscience hasn't criticised me for treating out maid badly, then it's okay by me.

You have no idea the circumstances under which her mother approved of her living with us. There are dozens of cases of child abuse....There are also dozens of proper treatment of maids/kids...


Tie ti kpoju ooo

dein77:



That a lot of child abuse cases are trending in the media doesn't mean there aren't SOME people who treat their kids/ wards very well!

There are such a remnant.

cococandy:


How is this different from what others are saying? You're calling them holier than thou . So after insulting then you still went ahead to repeat same thing they've been telling OP from the beginning of the thread.
So what exactly was your disagreement about to start with?
Or you just had to disagree for disagreement's sake even when you share the same opinion as others?

Chillisauce:

No problèm. We are not with your neither do we know what's going on.

Just tell madam she is only doing what a normal kid would do.
I remember one day in the hostel , there was a little fire outbreak, the shout woke me up from sleep. I jumped off from bed and was running to no direction. I just don't know how I found myself in the first floor.

Good thing I didn't even jump down from the building.
What am I trying to say, these things happen. Not witchcraft . Pls look after that kid maybe the next scream from your baby might make her do something dangerous that would cost you and your family.

Ksslib:

Err, I didn't even bother to read the thread's content sef.

I just dey tease you base on the fact say, almost everytime I come across your post, na you and dem dem family section women dey hold ground on one issue or the other. Lol

dein77:



Bro, these folks bullied me today...no be small.

njokusboy:


Maybe you need too read up again..... you no see where dem dey attack am say him wicked....
Nobody even gave him any credit for helping her in the first place, all your flock of hypocrites were calling him an antichrist... some even threatened to sue him for child abuse... walk around this country, you'd see 5 year Olds hawking maize under the blazing sun... now that is child abuse.... The dude did the kid a favour, most of ur hypocritical friends won't even do anything about her condition.. abeg, make una make person hear word

Mynd44:

She got the need to urinate and she went to urinate except she did it while still sleeping. It is not so odd jare.

And your maid is 11? Child abuse man

Lemme leave before the deliverance crew comes in

misterh:
Well, if you are not comfortable with the situation, replace her.
But I feel an 11 year old girl is probably too young to be an house help.

boolet:

Child abuse/'modern slavery' at the peak.

Akranez:
11 years old house help
Shame on you guys..

cococandy:

This is a man

deor03:


You are a human abuser. I am sure it's people like you that was complaining about Yerima marrying a 14 year old.

I detest people like you. You want a future for your own child and ready to mortgage another human being

So you want 11 year old child to take care of your child. You and your wife should be ashamed of yourselves.

njokusboy:

cococandy:
It would be nice if some of you guys would drop bias when addressing new issues that have nothing to do with the past. From the first page I could count more than 5male posters calling him out on the issue of child abuse. Then enter njoku to turn it into family section women issue and how they (the women) should contribute money if they like the child more than the man does.
If you had anything against those criticizing him, make it General and leave the 'family section women' angle you live to delve into so much

Where is this so called ' your flock of hypocrites' or do mean my as in 'me' flock of hypocrites?.

It seems some of you don't come into threads to try to help the OP but to make trouble and pick on other people's posts. Better change this new year .

Chillisauce:
New yr some people still dey para for public forum.
Njokuboy and crackhaus make una no hang unaself one day.


Nairaland will still go on.

Soldier go, soldier come. Barrack remain.

njokusboy:


Atleast, you no address my point...

It's not a case of bias, what I saw on this thread was a combination of hypocrisy and myopia... if any one needs to drop bias, it's nairaland family section women, you guys seem to have a king sized chip on ur shoulders... your comments are always along the same lines... I was actually referring to one particular woman and her followers on this thread... Since they think the man is wicked, he should take her back to her parents while they bring in money for her upkeep... It's a simple case of putting your money where your mouth is...
I fit count how many of them address the 0p concern sef

DBestDoc:



So an 11yr old is now employable?

Keep using people's children and hope yours get the best.

Smh!

aisha2:
An 11 year old is supposed to be growing up playing and not having a care in the world not in your house taking care of you.
Why won't she stand in the dark when you have made her own life dark by denying her a childhood. Wicked people scared of their own shadow.

Get a grown up abeg, if your wife is scared of you cheating thats her problem you dont victimise a child because you feel the need to protect an adult.

Very irritating

crackhaus:

njokusboy:


Atleast, you no address my point...

It's not a case of bias, what I saw on this thread was a combination of hypocrisy and myopia... if any one needs to drop bias, it's nairaland family section women, you guys seem to have a king sized chip on ur shoulders... your comments are always along the same lines... I was actually referring to one particular woman and her followers on this thread... Since they think the man is wicked, he should take her back to her parents while they bring in money for her upkeep... It's a simple case of putting your money where your mouth is...
I fit count how many of them address the 0p concern sef

mutter:
Your wife is a wicked woman!
Look Thank God this is online and not face to face, I would have scolded you badly.
11 years is a child for crying out loud
I have to wake some of my kid`s at that age maybe when they fall asleep in another room and they stand there totally baff with dazed eyes and have no idea where they are.
God this world is a wicked place. She gave that poor girl a fright in her half sleep and instead of consoling the child and sending her back to bed you and your wife now want to band her a witch.
Don`t you know that if you leave a room a small child might wake up!

Oh God this is so unfair! This is child abuse! This is evil! This is disgusting!

You just came on here to solicit support in branding her a witch!

May anyone who gives you such advise recieve the wrath of God! Evil human beings you disgust me!