Tlovely:
and all dis ur cv's will take u to heaven ba?
ediot.. let us see na.. dnt even start wif me, cause i percieve 4rm ova here hw messed up ur mind kind be.. pervert... u no remember all does things wey u dey do and does ones wey u dey imagine to do untop dat girl wey u dey see 4 ur church wey worse pass wetin dis guy friend wan do.? ..olosho... u say u dnt cheat n at d same time not do premarital- sex.. which one u want make we take.? meaning say u dey ontop one matter already now abi?.. u don marry am?...u must atleast have a partner first b4 cheatin on her? ..olosho.. if u do not know d meaning of cheatin.. pls put all does ur self righteous bull crap inside ur pocket and go and self-service..atleast uv been doin dat b4 and its not premarital is it?... all this oloshos in dis thread who wld be doin worse than wat they want to murder dis guys friend 4.. even sm of them cld be petty thieves n hard core liars..that one no be crime abi?...dis one cum here cum they drop im self righteous cv 4 me like say l am interested..na ppl like una wey lord J they talk wen him say "he without sin should cast the first stone". these pharisees, been around since 200bc..
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To be honest I didn't read anything of what you wrote up there, but it wouldn't be civil enough of me not to reply after you've expended so much energy in trying to make any sense.

Have a good night bro

clevvermind:
why would i be jealous? If i want to get a babe too, i would. But i have changed so much and i want him to know that. He can stay in my house as he want with his real babe but not with a strange babe.
I would nt encourage him to be changing girls like wrapper. I like sticking to one lady and i want him to do the same. It would help him.
I also thought of the possibility of my things missing if i allow him to use my house. Girls of nowadays can't be trusted.
I thought about many things that i did nt include in the original post. It would make the post too long to read and i dnt like typing much. Thanks.

Who are you to tell him who to fraternise with?

You feel free to change but who are you to demand he does?

What difference does it make to you if he stayed at your place with his girl or another girl apart from hating?

You were jealous and hating jor. If I was him, you should know our relationship is just for socialising, I aint got your back.

We can smile and hang but when the chips are down, you would not even see me next to you. O-Y-O (On Your Own).

Gamesmart:


Who are you to tell him who to fraternise with?

You feel free to change but who are you to demand he does?

What difference does it makes to you if he stayed at your place with his girl or another girl apart from hating?

You were jealous and hating jor. If I was him, you should know our relationship is just for socialising, I aint got your back.

We can smile and hang but when the chips are down, you would not even see me next to you. O-Y-O (On Your Own).

that was why i have the right to say no. It either he understands or back out.
I dnt want that. Simple.

okiezman:


Dude hush abeg you sound childish n annoying

OK. It's your own headache.

InZA:


To be honest I didn't read anything of what you wrote up there, but it wouldn't be civil enough of me not to reply after you've expended so much energy in trying to make any sense.

Have a good night bro

hw wld u be able to read it, have u "lazy urself off enough?..ur type needs to be lectured , hence d writeup..it was deliberate. n ur laziness could tell clearly hw ur academics wld luk like. how then can i be surprised u sound like a jerk. this an@l poke.

If anything goes wrong ,you the one that 'll be in trouble because your friend can easily run away.She might have had false info bout me.

clevvermind:
that was why i have the right to say no. It either he understands or back out.
I dnt want that. Simple.

Yes, you have the right. But you don't want that because you felt jealous, not because you wanted to "help" him.

We are not kids here.

You have exercised your right and shown what type of friend you are. If he is smart, he would convert you to "acquaintance" and never be there for you if it does not benefit him.

clevvermind:
no problem.

Thanks. I've posted it there. Search on facebook for Nigerian Papalette. People will soon be commenting. Thanks.

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

its nt the right thing to do,u done right already

Tinubu:


If na you be the babe, shey you go follow am go the 'small ashaawo joint'?
Don't encourage what you might find hard doing

lol,abi

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

bt dats wrong now

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

I hope the babe being settled is your future wife

30secs:
Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

I hope the bro code won't be broken when its your sister being banged in another person's house.

U did well Bros

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

In other words, you've never bleepd* another girl while dating your girlfriend right?

suave558:
In other words, you've never bleepd* another girl while dating your girlfriend right?

No I've not.

I've not bleeped my girlfriend.

So it kinda adds up doesn't it.

InZA:


No I've not.

I've not bleeped my girlfriend.

So it kinda adds up doesn't it.

meaning you're a certified virgin aii?

suave558:
meaning you're a certified virgin aii?

Yeeep.

Certified to the core.

InZA:


Yeeep.

Certified to the core.

wow, that means you're on the track to heaven# so they say. Right?

suave558:
wow, that means you're on the track to heaven# so they say. Right?

Being a virgin has nothing to do with going to heaven neither does it (in isolation) guarantee making heaven.

InZA:


Being a virgin has nothing to do with going to heaven neither does it (in isolation) guarantee making heaven.

seriously

clevvermind:
how would i make my friend to understand the reason behind my action.

You dont owe him an explanation. Friends support each other in good behavior not evil. Cheating is evil. If you apologize, you have aided it too. You don't need a friend like that. No be by force. Let ur friends know ur stand, the good ones will stay, bad ones will go. Na good friends we all pray for