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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by naijaboiy: 9:06am On Jan 17, 2015
netizenbuzz:


No one is trying to put words in your mouth. He/she is saying the truth. I guess it's your conscience beginning to prick you.
Conscience prick me? cheesy

Don't be funny grin
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by naijaboiy: 9:07am On Jan 17, 2015
Some guys have simply used this thread to score cheap points grin
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nten: 10:32am On Jan 17, 2015
clevvermind:
stop talking like a child. Why should i allow my friend to cheat on the girlfriend he has been with for over two years now in my house? Does it make sense?
And do you know what will happen if i leave my house for them? What if the babe is a thief? Please, i dnt take such risk.

I can always get him back.
o boy wetin concern u? Na ur sister him want cary go ur house. Guy i dont know ur age range but i tell u u let dat dude downcast because na u him hope say u go give am key. U 4 let am finish then u come adress am later. But if na d 1st time u come fall him hand mehn u 4uck up abeg.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nten: 10:37am On Jan 17, 2015
lymelyte:
Now I know that you are baby.. Grow up. Stop giving flimsy excuses.
dont mind that guy. Imagine what he is saying "what if she is a thief?"
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by aniplus: 11:06am On Jan 17, 2015
@ OP its like the guy dey get regular something and you no even remember the last time babe look you for eye sef... talk true, you dey jealous the dude. but sha, you for just ask am to set you up na.

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 17, 2015
Linqsz:


Yea.this thread is legendary and I couldn't wait for it.

I God is our guide and we should follow his footsteps but,

Guys can't stop being guys..its our thing.

And for the record,I'm a Christian.

When you get to heaven, tell God you condone such an evil act because you are a guy. I hope you are not just a fill-form christian.

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Classicalmusic: 11:13am On Jan 17, 2015
sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni? grin grin
Hehe, Ur words are quite shocking to me. U sounded like a female player.

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by stan241(m): 11:33am On Jan 17, 2015
@topic happened a lot in uni days and even then the dude had to def change the sheets afterwards bt after then it has become a no no even though i won't outrightly say no to my guy either my bro is around or my gf.....op did the right tin but an outright no kinda sounds harsh for whatever reason especially if u think saying no to him would make him not to still cheat on his babe of whatever yrs
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Edigrows: 11:37am On Jan 17, 2015
the most annoying part is he intends to use your house to cheat. It's not even his real babe. angry U don't even know the silly gal he wants to do rubbish with in your house. CAPITAL YES,!!! U DID THE RIGHT THING TO REFUSE

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 17, 2015
netizenbuzz:


When you get to heaven, tell God you condone such an evil act because you are a guy. I hope you are not just a fill-form christian.

I'm a practicing Christian..

ok,shey God will not condone him sleeping with a side chick or ashawo but will condone him sleeping with his girlfriend abi angry



I just borrow your word..don't even know the meaning undecided
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 11:44am On Jan 17, 2015
nacosprof:


Inconsequential Write up


Mr Edward Orilabi tongue Awayu? Who are you? And why have you quoted my inconsequential write up?
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by XKZ(m): 12:10pm On Jan 17, 2015
InZA:
....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend


How does one send an anonymous text message from one's phone?

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 12:39pm On Jan 17, 2015
XKZ:


How does one send an anonymous text message from one's phone?

Lol

Na that one you wan know abi

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

We are in the Android age bro.


"Anything" is possible grin

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by XKZ(m): 12:43pm On Jan 17, 2015
InZA:


We are in the Android age bro.


"Anything" is possible grin



Okay o.
Shey that was what BankPHB said...
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 12:45pm On Jan 17, 2015
XKZ:



Okay o.
Shey that was what BankPHB said...

Exactly grin
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 17, 2015
Linqsz:


I'm a practicing Christian..

ok,shey God will not condone him sleeping with a side chick or ashawo but will condone him sleeping with his girlfriend abi angry



I just borrow your word..don't even know the meaning undecided

Lol, you are trying to put words in my mouth. I don't condone premarital sex either. Where did i say i did? To each his own. Bye.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by REDDEVILS1(m): 1:13pm On Jan 17, 2015
Dude you no try. Even if you don't want him to use ur house for such[only Johns do that] you for give Anoda excuse. Like ur babe dey house or a relation
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by LEAFLET(m): 2:28pm On Jan 17, 2015
standd:


Uncle if you want to play away match, you should get an hotel and stop putting your friend on the spot. A player should be ready to spend.
it's not about s
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by babygifty(f): 3:30pm On Jan 17, 2015
acidtalk:



Will you marry me?

I promise not to take another babe to my friend's house.
lyk seriously, abeg I wan laugh

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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Jasperwhizz(m): 5:51pm On Jan 17, 2015
Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all angry

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata.... embarassed


What he did pleases GOD. Sexual immorality is sin and there are consequences attached to it 2Peter 2:6-18.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 17, 2015
InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef angry

Rubbish!!!
u must be a gurl, dats y d tin dey pain u like this. make u go become pope or alfa. make we know say u don reach...self righteous bull
straps
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by InZA: 6:33pm On Jan 17, 2015
Tlovely:
u must be a gurl, dats y d tin dey pain u like this. make u go become pope or alfa. make we know say u don reach...self righteous bull
straps


I see the reason why you're maybe disgusted at my reply and you may be further disgusted to know that I'm actually really a guy, I don't know where all you stupiid Nairaland newbies are popping up from, quoting me and talking nonsense.... Go and hit your head on the wall if the concept of fidelity and responsibility in a relationship makes your stomach churn.

I'm a guy.
I don't cheat.
I don't do pre-marital sex.

If you can't stick all these, then help yourself to a blue pill.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 17, 2015
30secs:
How old am I? Are we throwing cheap shots now??

Well true that sounded rude, so apologies for that, the bro code talks about no snitching it never talks about doing things that goes against your ethics and standards infact if the friend knew his friend was not the type to lend his crib for straffing then sure no problem. I have no problem letting people use my crib however if i don't feel one should be imposed to go against his ethics just because of an Hot friend.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by 30secs(m): 7:58pm On Jan 17, 2015
[quote author=pcguru1 post=29882506]

It's all good sire. The guy code talks about a good wingman tho. OP was a shitty wingman!!
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Hedybee(f): 9:01pm On Jan 17, 2015
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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by clevvermind(m): 9:06pm On Jan 17, 2015
okiezman:


See this one ooo, if ur my friend n do that to me the friendship ends, why will you be my friend when I can't come to your comfort didn't you go to uni? Whr u in d hostel in uni days? Come on! Stop acting like a saint
i dnt play such games. It can't happen in my house. He should look elsewhere. I dnt take babes to his house, so he should not take babes to my house also. He needs to understand me. This is not hostel matter.
This my house we are talking about here. I dnt think i did wrong.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by clevvermind(m): 9:31pm On Jan 17, 2015
Gamesmart:


No, you were not helping him. You were jealous.

You never mentioned trying to stop him or advising him to stop in your original post. I am sure you were just jealous.

Not allowing him to use your house does not stop him in anyway from doing it.

With your kind of help, who needs wickedness?



This is just an after-thought you came up with.

You know the possibility of that is low. You only brought it up after someone stated on this thread that it happened to him.
why would i be jealous? If i want to get a babe too, i would. But i have changed so much and i want him to know that. He can stay in my house as he want with his real babe but not with a strange babe.
I would nt encourage him to be changing girls like wrapper. I like sticking to one lady and i want him to do the same. It would help him.
I also thought of the possibility of my things missing if i allow him to use my house. Girls of nowadays can't be trusted.
I thought about many things that i did nt include in the original post. It would make the post too long to read and i dnt like typing much. Thanks.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by clevvermind(m): 9:36pm On Jan 17, 2015
Hedybee:

don't mind those talking about 'bro code'. U can't inconvenient yourself to please a 'bro'. Once u start, u might not be able to stop it. A guy in my neighbourhood got himself into trouble that cost him fortune simply because he didn't want to break BRO CODE. As usual, his friend came home with one of his numerous sidechicks. A little misunderstanding ensued btw d friend n his chick which escalated into a big fight. To cut d story short, d girl was left in the pool of her blood... The boyfriend escaped... Police came for the owner of the room. Don't worry your friend will understand when u talk to him. If u let him have his way today, he might want to be coming everyday.
u are right. In this world, crazy things happens. One must be careful.
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 17, 2015
Many are still blind...
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by okiezman(m): 10:22pm On Jan 17, 2015
clevvermind:
i dnt play such games. It can't happen in my house. He should look elsewhere. I dnt take babes to his house, so he should not take babes to my house also. He needs to understand me. This is not hostel matter.
This my house we are talking about here. I dnt think i did wrong.

Dude hush abeg you sound childish n annoying
Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jan 17, 2015
InZA:



I see the reason why you're maybe disgusted at my reply and you may be further disgusted to know that I'm actually really a guy, I don't know where all you stupiid Nairaland newbies are popping up from, quoting me and talking nonsense.... Go and hit your head on the wall if the concept of fidelity and responsibility in a relationship makes your stomach churn.

I'm a guy.
I don't cheat.
I don't do pre-marital sex.

If you can't stick all these, then help yourself to a blue pill.
and all dis ur cv's will take u to heaven ba?
ediot.. let us see na.. dnt even start wif me, cause i percieve 4rm ova here hw messed up ur mind kind be.. pervert... u no remember all does things wey u dey do and does ones wey u dey imagine to do untop dat girl wey u dey see 4 ur church wey worse pass wetin dis guy friend wan do.? ..olosho... u say u dnt cheat n at d same time not do premarital- sex.. which one u want make we take.? meaning say u dey ontop one matter already now abi?.. u don marry am?...u must atleast have a partner first b4 cheatin on her? ..olosho.. if u do not know d meaning of cheatin.. pls put all does ur self righteous bull crap inside ur pocket and go and self-service..atleast uv been doin dat b4 and its not premarital is it?... all this oloshos in dis thread who wld be doin worse than wat they want to murder dis guys friend 4.. even sm of them cld be petty thieves n hard core liars..that one no be crime abi?...dis one cum here cum they drop im self righteous cv 4 me like say l am interested..na ppl like una wey lord J they talk wen him say "he without sin should cast the first stone". these pharisees, been around since 200bc..
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Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jan 17, 2015
@cleverrmind abi wetin? e remain u , e neva talk wetin dey worry u.. if u aint feeling 4cked, u no go cum here dey tell stories wey no concern anybody, on top which some pple ar dropping their bull crap fake personality cv and feeling fly...na dem holy pass.. u ma too dey wan claim responsible..them write am 4 ur face bah?.. d fact say u no allow your guy use d room don make u mister principle bah? ..clap 4 ur self.. u don dey decieve other misled capes for dis thread say u responsible?.. hmmm , i hv jst been shaking my head all this wyl..see im dump imaginative excuse "wat if shes a thief?, she go thief that ur socks wey dey inside ur shoe bah? abi ur boxers..or she go put rat poison inside ur water as she dey carry am 4 purse.?...d guy neva talk true.. u one help am police im relationship with im gf...wey im neva marry ba?..u no know the kind tin wey im fit they see 4 dat girl hand wey make am done dey seek solace outside ..now if u wan be a gud friend, u don remove d log of wood wey dey ur eye? now u wey come be im socalled friend com follow untop d whole tin, cum here now dey claim gud boy.. anyway i no get ur time, u don do wetin u wan do finish..u go dey wait 4 d time wey u go need d hommies so anythin wey u receive u no go get any right to talk, talk less of complain. n besides i do not want to come here and start talking abt wat the op has done or begin to criticise him.. but d problem i have with him is his coming here n throwing all does self glorifying stories n excuses, wanting to paint him self responsible n so called principled by his story wyl some fake "holier dan thous" lots ,cheer him on.. wen they do not know if this his friend he talked abt has not allowed him such privilege b4 n was not expecting this his self righteous, outright behaviour coming up now it is of him having his back in return..or let him come out n say he has not atleast , smooched or bone another gurl or even his gf in anoda guys house... pls as for d girls on this thread who support him, i am not saying anythin to encourage u guys being cheated on, as sm of u self myt have even been layed or boned one way or the other in d house of a friend of the guy u were wif..or even boned by a guy u were really aware had a gf..
wat actually pissis me off are comments of the self righteous twerp that qouted me and the hypocrisy of d op

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