dinachi:

Now this got me cracking up! Who started it? I know your addled maggot infested brain is seriously challenged so let me help you. Get four bottles of Otapiapia, shake vigorously and empty into a big bowl of rat poison. Stir for several minutes then proceed to guzzle all at once. You need the quick energy! . Thank me later.

dinachi:

There she goes again....,Bwahahahahah

lilmax:
@last statement

Her actions shows divorce depends on gender, i don't think she would think twice about the “D“ word if the case was reversed

cococandy:
[s]I mean the kids are old probably in their twenties
If she didn't maltreat them when they first got married 18yrs ago, is it now that she's maltreating them? Now that they are OLD.

Or has the man been enduring it for the past 18yrs?

Note their conflicting testimonies too.

I just think he's tired of the marriage and looking for an excuse jare

Starve his children ko. As if they are babies

@chief proponent.
I don't encourgae her to remain married to someone who doesn't want her. But I recognize he's lying.

And you stop lying too, I only advocate divorce in cases of abuse.deliberate mischief

@topic:
She should just let him go, if his kids have the guts to slap her a woman who has been married to their father for 18yrs, there's no shred of respect in the union and they obviously got it from their father.
Must she remain married? [/s]

SAMBARRY:
yes na.even the elders say every mother knows the number of her children. The same way a man cannot accept or father the child of another man is the same way a woman cannot mother a child she didn't give birth to . another woman's childy will remain her husbands children. The only thing that doesn't make sense is competing with the children over the father or denying the children access to see their father. However if it wasn't in agreement before marriage that she will take care of his children then which one concern her with his children but since it's in agreement then she should do her bit and if they are grown up kids they should fend for themselves

SAMBARRY:
try ot first. O kalara

crackhaus:

Sambarry Sambarry...

Please tell me you actually read this comment after typing and submitting it

dinachi:
Don't mind her, that is the level of rot the brain is at. Get sense!for where? Just an idiotic nuisance. She is suffering from advanced dementia and profound foolery.

Sophyrocks:
Seriously, this woman is heartless. One thing i have noticed with some men is that when their wives maltreat their children, they dnt do anything about it. Its a good thing this man is concerned. He is better left single than being married to a jezebel like this woman. I hear really horrible stories of stepmothers. Dnt know why most women do not like to treat children who arent theirs with love. It seems most men who remarry do not make wise choices of spouses.

cococandy:
I mean the kids are old probably in their twenties
If she didn't maltreat them when they first got married 18yrs ago, is it now that she's maltreating them? Now that they are OLD.

Or has the man been enduring it for the past 18yrs?

Note their conflicting testimonies too.

I just think he's tired of the marriage and looking for an excuse jare

Starve his children ko. As if they are babies

@chief proponent.
I don't encourgae her to remain married to someone who doesn't want her. But I recognize he's lying.

And you stop lying too, I only advocate divorce in cases of abuse.deliberate mischief

@topic:
She should just let him go, if his kids have the guts to slap her a woman who has been married to their father for 18yrs, there's no shred of respect in the union and they obviously got it from their father.
Must she remain married?

dinachi:
Another case of another atrociously evil woman abusing children! The husband should as a matter of urgency arrest her make sure she gats a fair trial and a sentencing while the divorce proceedings are going on. We must rid our society of the evil women.

dinachi:

Many are mad few are roaming! Original stink mistress of nairaland, keep stinking...

crackhaus:

Sambarry Sambarry...

Please tell me you actually read this comment after typing and submitting it

dinachi:
Don't mind her, that is the level of rot the brain is at. Get sense!for where? Just an idiotic nuisance. She is suffering from advanced dementia and profound foolery.

dinachi:
Another case of another atrociously evil woman abusing children! The husband should as a matter of urgency arrest her make sure she gats a fair trial and a sentencing while the divorce proceedings are going on. We must rid our society of the evil women.

carefreewannabe:




I would do my best to love the kids like my own and try my best to replace their mother the best way I can. I would not enter the relationship if I couldn't. Do they have no conscience?

charles316:


easier said than done

carefreewannabe:


Maybe, maybe not.

charles316:


there is just something in women. Its so easy for them to turn on their wickedness in some instances. (Please forgive me. I m not trying to bash women but to be as sincere as possible.) This practice is so common these days.

CAREFREEWANNABE,you are a woman and you can also do the same thing the woman did.

carefreewannabe:


I am sure, I can't.

SAMBARRY:
you are what you say


perfect description of your self

ileobatojo:


Thank you. What kind of ridiculous insinuation is that?

soulglo:
She's 37 and they have been married for 18 years. The kids are all now adults and it is not he wants to divorce her for starving them?

cococandy:
yea. If true means he married her when she was 19 and she spent her youth raising kids that weren't hers, now that they are grown they remember they've been starving for the 18yrs.

Tales by moonlight.

crackhaus:

Cococandy, sometimes you shouldn't type certain things when you obviously don't realize how it sounds.
@bold text - she raised kids that weren't hers sounds to me like you mean she did them a favour...I mean don't you see that's exactly the same thinking that must have got her in this mess?

Okay the kids are over 18yrs old now, so what?
The husband says she fights/quarrels with them a lot, and did she confirm this? YES!

Did you stop for a second to think that maybe she has indeed been maltreating/starving them since they were kids, and now they come off age they finally have the guts to be rebellious and stand up to her?

Will kids that received all the love and motherly affection from a woman they know isn't their biological mother suddenly start disagreeing and fighting her at every opportunity?

Free yourself from linear thinking!

crackhaus:

Cococandy, sometimes you shouldn't type certain things when you obviously don't realize how it sounds.
@bold text - she raised kids that weren't hers sounds to me like you mean she did them a favour...I mean don't you think that may be the exact same thinking that must have got her in this mess?

Okay the kids are over 18yrs old now, so what?
The husband says she fights/quarrels with them a lot...did she confirm this? YES!

Did you stop for a second to think that maybe she has indeed been maltreating/starving them since they were kids, and now they come of age they finally have the guts to be rebellious and stand up to her?

Will kids that received all the love and motherly affection from a woman they know isn't their biological mother suddenly start disagreeing and fighting her at every opportunity?


Free yourself from linear thinking!

cococandy:
You that is thinking in a multi-lateral way you don't think there's something wrong with kids who raise their hands to slap their father's wife?

Next thing you will say she deserved it.

And he's just noticing after 18yrs that she maltreated his kids?
Bollocks.
If that is even true,it shows the kind of father he is. Not attentive.

Of course the kids aren't hers doesn't mean she should mistreat them neither does it mean her efforts should be taken for granted. Easy for you to say when I'm sure you Crackhaus can't even father another man's son.
Mtchew. Easy for you to expect what you can't do from others. Anyway that's by the way.

Everything that happened in this home is the man's fault.
If he married her and she was mean to his kids, the first 2yrs is enough for him to find out that she wasn't treating his kids right and he would have done something about it then.
it is his responsibility to make sure the kids respect her . They obviously don't.

The fact that she doesn't wash his clothes and cook for his grown up children and that's a divorce-worthy offense in his eyes defines her relationship in the marriage.
Glorified house girl.
That's why the man's child will have the guts to slap her.

She's better off without him.

Now that's my opinion and it doesn't have to bother you. They are already In court anyway, so how is this helping them?


.

soulglo:


This is possible but what good parent would stay married to someone who truly starved his children. He married her in 1996 when she was just 19. Being a 19 year old step mother is a tough job. Especially when the kids are old enough to understand that this woman is taking the place of their mom. It was his responsibility to make sure that the young woman he married and his young defenseless children had a healthy relationship. I'm not really sure why a man with children would think that marrying a 19 year old is a good idea. She's barely an adult herself. A 19 year old in 1996 is very different from a 19 year old in 1945. He was obviously not thinking about his children when he made his choice. It is crazy that after spending her best years raising the kids that now he finds fault in what she spent all those years doing. If you are a father then think about coming home from work and seeing that your children have not been fed all day. Would it be something you would ignore for 18 years? Most men will say no. I would believe any other excuse but not this one. They are not getting along. He wants a divorce. He should just say that and not use this excuse. It's lame.

crackhaus:

Lmao...how is this helping them, yet this is the second epistle you're typing here...
And you even managed to tell us how you're sure crackhaus can't father another man's son... Lol...

If I tell you that you carry baggage around NL now, you will say I'm lying and turn it around on me.

Oya na, CONTUNU!

soulglo:


This is possible but what good parent would stay married to someone who truly starved his children. He married her in 1996 when she was just 19. Being a 19 year old step mother is a tough job. Especially when the kids are old enough to understand that this woman is taking the place of their mom. It was his responsibility to make sure that the young woman he married and his young defenseless children had a healthy relationship. I'm not really sure why a man with children would think that marrying a 19 year old is a good idea. She's barely an adult herself. A 19 year old in 1996 is very different from a 19 year old in 1945. He was obviously not thinking about his children when he made his choice. It is crazy that after spending her best years raising the kids that now he finds fault in what she spent all those years doing. If you are a father then think about coming home from work and seeing that your children have not been fed all day. Would it be something you would ignore for 18 years? Most men will say no. I would believe any other excuse but not this one. They are not getting along. He wants a divorce. He should just say that and not use this excuse. It's lame.