passionate88:

You won't... Most Nigerian women don't like the idea of them living with their step-children... They might say no deal when dating, but when they get married, that's when they will unleash the dragon in them..

It's one of the reason, and yes it is a reason to him

dinachi:

Now this got me cracking up! Who started it? I know your addled maggot infested brain is seriously challenged so let me help you. Get four bottles of Otapiapia, shake vigorously and empty into a big bowl of rat poison. Stir for several minutes then proceed to guzzle all at once. You need the quick energy! . Thank me later.

dinachi:

Since you have the courage to openly admit your frustration, let me kindly prescribe two bottles of Otapiapia for you to be taken twice daily with a rich helping of rat poison. Thank me later

dinachi:

Get busy managing the rotten graveyard between your MOTHERS legs first. MY MOM'S A STINK MISTRESS of nairaland.

SAMBARRY:
OBVIOUSLY.FOR ME TO PRODUCE BORN THROWAWAY Iam the original Stink mistress of Nairaland. Pls wait oh maggots are already dripping down my legs let me go and harvest them. My mum with her rotten maggot infested puccy born me throway.

irunoko:
you need help fast.who did this to you anyway,that you have descended this low?

crackhaus:

All this you're typing is irrelevant in the bigger picture.

Did she deny stopping them from visiting? And what has being in their twenties got to do with being restricted from visiting?

When you're ready to let go of your unrealistic and biased linear thinking, let me know.

crackhaus:

I never deviated, I only made a passing statement that you are trying to crawl out of the hole you dug for yourself while canvassing for support - you're the one who made a big deal out of it because you don't like reading the truth

Proving you wrong is not something I'm quite interested in.

cococandy:
I've stuck to my opinion from the beginning.
So what hole are you seeing?

Oh it was a passing statement that allowed you to totally ignore the point in the post you quoted. I expected you to refute it instead you went the silly way by complaining about who I quoted while conveniently ignoring the points you should have addressed. It wasn't a passing statement.

You were probably feeling overwhelmed because more than one person didn't see it your way.

Classic.

crackhaus:

I was feeling overwhelmed because more than one person could deliberately be so blinded, and it's my duty to humanity to show you scoffers and Sadducees the light...

cococandy:
their being in their twenties and more than one in number is proof enough that she can't stop them even if she dislikes when they come visiting. She can only dislike it but can't stop them.

Maybe if she could stop them she would stop them seeing as they only come to her house to expect gourmet service and dash her slaps at will

How easy will it be for only her to restrain grown up adults in their twenties by herself and walk them out of the house?


Mr lateral thinker. Is that rocket science?
Trust you to follow the path makes least sense.

She denied treating them bad and that covers everything.
Or maybe if you want the full details of their divorce you can go request a copy of their divorce file.

crackhaus:

She denied treating them bad and that covers everything, including the man's story as well as that of the children...right?

Well it seems she must be a very unlucky woman for both husband and children who have lived with her to have accusations against her, while you who knows nothing about her maintains her innocence.

bukatyne:


Step children/parents situation is a very very dicey relationship.

I have a cousin whose husband had a kid in Sec School. She has a shaky relationship with hubby and the step daughter uses that to her advantage. My cousin would clean the fridge, arrange the house & this pikin would go there and scatter it all saying 'who is this that cannot arrange the house/fridge bla bla bla'. Trust me, she would not re-arrange to 'her taste' and it is the same cousin who couldn't arrange well that will re-arrange it again.

The girl does not assist in chores etc.

Some step mothers too are evil

Besides, if my mother slaps me for lying, I would cry & forget; if my step mother does same, I will most likely turn it upside down and say that it is because I am not her daughter.

passionate88:
That's the thing... That's also one of the reason many men shy away from single mothers... You will tolerate your mom's slap but wouldn't tolerate that of a step mom...

But not all women maltreat their step child/ren...

dinachi:

I AM A FAMOUS Smello!

SAMBARRY post=299720 ;D79:
I so hate my life, my puccy is totally rotten and drips maggots, I am cursed, mentally ill and an embarrassment to humanity. I come from a derelict generation of rotten puccys. I am the stink mistress of nairaland.

dinachi:

I can only concur THAT IM SO LOUSY AND FRUSTRATED WITH MY LIFE THAT'S WHY MY ATTITUDE STINKS

SAMBARRY:
I am a curse to humanity. I dream and wake up with misery. I am a nincompoop and have a rotten maggot infested graveyard between my legs.

dinachi:


Need I say I'm a disgusting and repulsive jobless human being who rants unnecessarilyBuhahahahahahah

SAMBARRY:
I have no doubt in my mind to the fact that I am cursed.

dinachi:

There I go again, my skanky self,a cursed rotten maggot infested and impotent dheek and my cheap stolen phone...STINK master, how market!

SAMBARRY:
The curse of the rotten puccy is working in me fully.

dinachi:

There I go ranting away as usual. My skanky stinky, and cursed rotten maggot infested dheek and my cheap stolen china phone...STINK loafer, of nl!

dinachi:

I am apparently a Smello!

SAMBARRY:
I can't help myself, I am cursed. I stink terribly. My puccy is rotten and maggot infested. I am an open sored disease. I am a diseased pizzle from a rotten puccy.

SAMBARRY:
Who opened my cage? I belong with wild animals.