emusmith:
Every Lady, I mean ALL are emotional and thus likes to be appreciated and loved, even the ones with seemingly loud mouth.

These things I'm about to mention are SUPPOSED to be usual but as time flies, men throw away their first love outa thin air. How pathetic!

I'm Single but I do believe (without apology or contrary opinions) that my future home will be Heaven on Earth because I'll make it work

I believe in love. I believe men ought to love their wives first, then upon her will come the inner strength to respect him unreservedly (some ladies be like, Now You're Talking )- okay

I have a vision of still being romantic to my wife at 80 and beyond.

It's easy only if a guy and a girl can settle down to plan at courtship how their home should look like. I have seen a few homes like that and that made me feel like getting married almost immediately

I'm not a Woman Wrapper... But even if I am to one Lucky woman, it's worth it.


What Are Some Sweet Usuals Every Man Is Supposed To Be Giving To Her Wife?



1. Pillow fight


Many marriages lack this game. Pillow fights lessens Real fights. It unites two people together. Have you ever played a video game with a crush before? If you have, you'll understand what I'm saying. Guys, hit her softly sha o......



2. Hold her hand in the street.

You may wonder why this is included... Except for some new couples and a few elderly ones, some men have gotten too familiar with their wives that they feel so " I dunno" to hold their wives hands on the street. As a matter of fact, this means a lot to her. It tells her your love for hasn't diminished a bit.



3. Be initiative enough to always take her out on special days.


Perhaps, you have grown up kids, take your wife out alone... The wife of your youth ... It's Valentine's Day, go on a date with her to re-enact your love for her. Your company's party? Take her along even if she's pregnant unless she refuses...


4. Open the car door for her.

This isn't ancient. Doing it makes her feel really special. You treat her like a Queen, She treats you like a King, remember?
Do all you can to keep her smiling all the time- She is your wife o
Who says it's wrong to buy her flowers...?



5. Wash her clothes even when she didn't ask

Some men are like King Kong. They so hold tenaciously the school of thought that doing such things for a Lady you're in relationship with makes her belittle you...That's Low Self Esteem! The Normal Ones respect and love you the more...You're helping her. 90% of women love this... Some will Form they don't but they do. Not when she is pregnant o, when she's okay and even lazily walking around...


6. Buy her little things she adores like her favorite chocolate etc.

Have you witnessed a lady in tears before just because she is trying to convey her feelings for you?
What makes this happen is because you're helping her. Money isn't everything- it's important but not in this context! The gold diggers, will say otherwise. When you buy her those little things, you're telling her how THOUGHTFUL you are. An example is: After many weeks, I called a girlfriend just some hours before her exams and her reply was, "So you still remembered". I sensed something. Small things makes her let out the Big things.



7. Help Her In The Kitchen

Helping your wife in the kitchen does not mean wanting to show your cooking tech... Mba! It's not forming "I can do it better". In fact, hide your cooking skills! Don't get her to feel like the 2nd best...hype her, tease her...that she cooks excellently even if she sucks at it. If she's smart and wise, she'll put more effort to improving her skills if necessary. Your wife owns the kitchen. You own the yard. Help her cut onions, peel the yams and slice the tomatoes. Work as a team! Your mummy visiting you guys shouldn't try to lord it over her in HER kitchen... unless there's an understanding



SUMMARY: This thread is my belief system. Other threads might not totally agree but... I believe strongly this is how ME and every other guy aspiring to be a Father, Husband and the Head of the home some day ought to comport ourselves with our wives.



Ladies: You can add more.
Nice one dere
Guys: What do y'all think?

emusmith:


#cleaning eyes #

Are those dimples?

beckyomas:

Lol, yes na, big deal?

beckyomas:

Lol, yes na, big deal?

emusmith:


They're cute on you

beckyomas:

Thanks.

Opytim:
Hmnnn....this sounds romantic. Love Nwantintin.

emusmith:


Is there a kinda dimple cream?

beckyomas:

lol! Ask your cosmetologist.

Ugosample:
usually I don't comment on threads like this, but the responses, especially from the guys in the house made me change my mind.

To the guys, I bet you don't know how far a woman will go for her husband and their kids when properly loved and taken care of by her husband.

To me, there is nothing wrong with the list, it's a good list and when tailor suited to the needs of the woman, it will work magic in your home. However the woman in question have to be worth it.

And as for those talking African/European hullabaloo, you guys are just talking trash. Though there are lots of hawks in woman skin across our society, my advice for guys is to find a woman who is worth it and treat her in the best way possible.
And the result would be worth it, and what money cannot buy

*drops mic and walks out quietly *

kingstylo01:
1. Pillow fight
2. Hold her hand in the street.
3. Be initiative enough to always take her out on special days....
4. Open the car door for her.
5. Wash her clothes even when she didn't ask...
6. Buy her little things she adores like her favorite chocolate etc.
7. Help Her In The Kitchen.




Nice points @op, emusmith. But i think you are missing something which is:

8. Tell her everyday that you love her and remind her of how beautiful she is. Remember, women are moved by words!

MrHardOn:
Emusmith. Why Hian? Are you a benin guy?. Are those too much to do to your wife?. I can even do more than that. That is why she is wife. She needs to be adored.

MrHardOn:
Cyunited. God bless us. You are the desire of my heart. Your prayer has been answered. So where do we start from.

emusmith:


You like it?

MrHardOn:
Cyunited. Yes oh . I am mouthed. Thanks to mouth action. You will like it down there.

MrHardOn:
Cyunited. Sorry oh. Mrs Maturity and Responsibility. I don't word girls...otherwise. So when has mouth action become sign of immaturity and irresponsibility. So people.who.give and recieve it are not matured and responsible. Your statement shows that you are also not matured and responsible. So we are both immature and not responsible. And if u have given mouth action or received any...then.you.must be a hypocrite and lack mannerism.

kingstylo01:
1. Pillow fight
2. Hold her hand in the street.
3. Be initiative enough to always take her out on special days....
4. Open the car door for her.
5. Wash her clothes even when she didn't ask...
6. Buy her little things she adores like her favorite chocolate etc.
7. Help Her In The Kitchen.




Nice points @op, emusmith. But i think you are missing something which is:

8. Tell her everyday that you love her and remind her of how beautiful she is. Remember, women are moved by words!

MrHardOn:
Candybob. You can see I asked. ..Why Hian? Becareful of insinuating or fabricating tribalistic statements.
There is nothing like my tribe....It's either you are a Nigerian or you not. I don't recognize tribes...I only recognize nationality. For your information... I lived in Benin for over 8yrs....and their women love me. Watch your tongue...sorry hand.

MrHardOn:
@candybob or candydog.Whatever you call yourself.I mentioned Benin, because I know they use "Hian" a lot. That was the reason I asked if you were from Benin. Guess you have a porous brain and you can't comprehend simple question not to talk of analysis. My second post tried to explain, I had nothing negative against people I love and had lived with and still relate with. Oh well...I can see how you reason now. Haha....lop sided memory. I tell you what.....You have just confirmed to me that you are whom I think you are. A moronic cummy fuckwitt. I don't really care what you think...You don't count since you are just a waste of space and a sperm burping local e-diot.

You statements goes on to show how uneducable and how untrainable you are. What do I expect from an Orangutang, frustrated cum dump star. It is still that your same ogun that will accept you as a sacrifice in due time....and it won't be long. If you have problem with my sexual inclination, you can go to hell. Is it my fault that you can't have a HarrrddOoon !!!, or am I to blame that you are impotent. Take your ranting to your fellow fuccktard.

You are the first Edo she-goat I have had to interact with, displaying shitty comments, who cares if you are not yourself, I don't really care who you are, Who the fucck is you. Save that for your fellows in the zoo.

And you know what? You can stick you fingers in your Anus, Smell It. Oh Yeah....It stinks right? That's what you are. YOU STINK !!!

Next time. Make it Hot!!! If you are looking for what to do with your frustrated, meaningless life that you have made it to be, look for another person on Nairaland. Be Warned. Listen Meathead sorry Nincompoop, Yes You Wimp.... Dimwit!!!. Or probably you are just another Crazy Ass Man.