LadyX:
Welcome dear.
When you complete the polls post the results.

Might not be able to do so...

There is no opinion poll button; might count manually sha.

Thanks for understanding my question; might have been difficult to do so

bukatyne:


Just answer the kwestion and leave the entry mode for mathias

If she jumps in she'll be shot. IMO, the safest mode of entry is teleportation.

LadyX:
Welcome dear.
When you complete the polls post the results.

Very funny.

Post which result?
For opinions?
Even the ones wey no get kitchen sef get opinion.

So Wetin you wan carry the result do

bukatyne:


Might not be able to do so...

There is no opinion poll button; might count manually sha.

Thanks for understanding my question; might have been difficult to do so

What are you counting ? After counting, Wetin you wan carry the result do bikonu

bukatyne:


Hmmm

Your mouth looks funny. What's up?

Timbuktou:
If she jumps in she'll be shot. IMO, the safest mode of entry is teleportation.

Answer joor.

Chillisauce:


What are you counting ? After counting, Wetin you wan carry the result do bikonu

Might sell it

Timbuktou:
Your mouth looks funny. What's up?

Your wifey cannot invite a male friend or invite a female friend who brings an unexpected male friend?

bukatyne:


Might sell it

Photocopy it and keep at your office desk.

Buka the buka.

Remind me not to ask for invite letter to your house o. Before you give me hbp

Chillisauce:


Photocopy it and keep at your office desk.

Buka the buka.

Remind me not to ask for invite letter to your house o. Before you give me hbp

If I invite you to my house, you will be free to use the kitchen

Would like to try those exotic dishes you post online

The issue bothers on courtesy than kingdom ruling

bukatyne:


Your wifey cannot invite a male friend or invite a female friend who brings an unexpected male friend?

An unexpected male friend who will take my car keys? He better drive and not come back. Hehehehe

But seriously BeeKay, speaking for my wife, she'd ask for permission but, wouldn't bite off the rude guest's head if they didn't.

Chillisauce:


Photocopy it and keep at your office desk.

Buka the buka.

Remind me not to ask for invite letter to your house o. Before you give me hbp

Buka is just being pedantic, I tell you I made oats in her kitchen this morning. Bukatyne, sorry for not cleaning them dishes afterwards, I was in a hurry besides, the milk tasted funny. You get a new tin.

Chillisauce:


Very funny.

Post which result?
For opinions?
Even the ones wey no get kitchen sef get opinion.

So Wetin you wan carry the result do

Kitchen na where u dey cook.
Even if it's under a tree

The result will help me to understand people's behaviour, so that when I get married I'll know what to expect or to do.

Timbuktou:
An unexpected male friend who will take my car keys? He better drive and not come back. Hehehehe

But seriously BeeKay, speaking for my wife, she'd ask for permission but, wouldn't bite off the rude guest's head if they didn't.

In essence, it's no to both questions

Thanks

@ bold: That's it the point

It's rude in walk into someone's kitchen UNINVITED to cook

LOL@ drive and not come back.. wishing the poor dude death? Might have wanted to test run the ride na

Probably learning NOT to bite rude guests but I will be surprised all the same

bukatyne:


Might not be able to do so...

There is no opinion poll button; might count manually sha.

Thanks for understanding my question; might have been difficult to do so

No worries. I've learnt a lot from this post, though I still stick with my opinion.

Timbuktou:
Buka is just being pedantic, I tell you I made oats in her kitchen this morning. Bukatyne, sorry for not cleaning them dishes afterwards, I was in a hurry besides, the milk tasted funny. You get a new tin.

Will appreciate you get me a new tin

I open my doors and my kitchen to you and you cannot replace my tin of milk?

Which kind of guest are you?

bukatyne:


Will appreciate you get me a new tin

I open my doors and my kitchen to you and you cannot replace my tin of milk?

Which kind of guest are you?

Just ask nicely. Anyway, I already did.

aisha2:


Who are you telling " easy now"? I am not your child oh, you cannot determine my comment or response to any post madam. Find someone else to be condescending towards abeg, not me.

Woman, it seems that you have nothing meaningful to say on this thread. Why dont you go find something that will interest you instead of forming boss on nairaland. Madam feminist.

bukatyne:


In essence, it's no to both questions

Thanks

@ bold: That's it the point

It's rude in walk into someone's kitchen UNINVITED to cook

LOL@ drive and not come back.. wishing the poor dude death? Might have wanted to test run the ride na

Probably learning NOT to bite rude guests but I will be surprised all the same

Well, many people would be peeved but come on civility is what it is.

Death for the car thief? Nah. Just saying ko ni fe te. Hehehe. They can only drive if there's an emergency. Have you ever come across someone just taking their host's vehicle for a spin? Nah, cooking food for survival is one thing, driving off in my volkswagen beetle is another . Besides, it's got an immobiliser.

Timbuktou:

Well, many people would be peeved but come on civility is what it is.

Death for the car thief? Nah. Just saying ko ni fe te. Hehehe. They can only drive if there's an emergency. Have you ever come across someone just taking their host's vehicle for a spin? Nah, cooking food for survival is one thing, driving off in my volkswagen beetle is another . Besides, it's got an immobiliser.

True

Lol @ ko ni fe te...

Cooking food for survival

I would have appreciated if some peeps answered yes or no than go on and on how their kitchen is a home to all..

Some poster on the other thread clearly asked what we will all do as the guest.... not as the host.

Nice thread anyways...

Gimme your house address.... I might want to try taking your beetle on a spin.... for survival of course!

bukatyne:


True

Lol @ ko ni fe te...

Cooking food for survival

I would have appreciated if some peeps answered yes or no than go on and on how their kitchen is a home to all..

Some poster on the other thread clearly asked what we will all do as the guest.... not as the host.

Nice thread anyways...

Gimme your house address.... I might want to try taking your beetle on a spin.... for survival of course!

Lol, glad you got my drift.

Meanwhile, why do you think the babe got up to cook that early, if their want some form of hunger-induced discomfort? Ulcer? Weakness? Coulda been anything, you know?

Per other posters, you juts need to be a good host , this is your kitchen thread, after all. . Live and let live, sis.

You stylishly pre-asked for permission to drive the Beetle abi? Anyway, I keep the keys in the freezer cos Junior's hands can't get there.

Lol, why are people comparing kitchens to cars? I'm 100%, without a doubt, more concerned with where my car keys are than who's in the kitchen, or any other corner of the house.

1. No
2. Hell to da No

cococandy:
For those seeing this as an issue of civilization or whatever,just remember that people are different. Cultures are different and all that.

Living in the west where modern houses are open floor plans doesn't make one more civilized than a nigerian resident whose modern house has a separation between living room and kitchen.
That seperation is probably what turns it into a private arena. Just saying.

Ehen so gentle gentle with the jabs.

It is definitely not an issue for me.

It may not be a big deal to you too for a guest to saunter into your kitchen and make themselves a meal, but then it may be a huge deal for your host if you go into their kitchen even if you're related.
In order to avoid friction in your host's house and maybe have them complaining about you to their hubby or whoever when you've gone be sure they are cool with it.

When you reach your own house, you can be civilized all you want.
Do I have an open floor plan where any guest who walks into my house is privy to my kitchen space? Yes I do.
Would I mind if they walk over and spend some time with me in the kitchen or even cook? No I don't.

But it doesn't mean I expect the same from them.
So just in case,I hold off for a bit and find out if it is ok by them before I go ahead.

The funny thing is, it has nothing to do with the kitchen per se (from my viewpoint). It's not like I'll be angered or bothered with with the guest for daring to cook, or whatever. To me, the idea of the guest going in the kitchen to cook for the home is akin to him/her going out to mow the lawn, or cleaning the house, i.e, what a poor host(ess).

That's how I see it. I suppose it's all about perspective..

Hosts now encourage you to come along with your int'l driving license so you can use a car for shopping and whatnots or lease a car

Some go for as low as 60$ per day(insurance inclusive)

Why should a host be driving around all day or cooking all day

^^^bump

pickabeau1:
in my experience so far

In the West-- kitchens are open and no biggie
Some even allow use of cars as i noticed there was a comparison of car to kitchen

Here - kitchens are temples and are forbidden to everyone but the hostess
Some even dont allow their husbands to take meat from pot of soup.

The hostess was out of line
She did not like the girl frend and had a superiority complex

Hosts should be accomodating
You allowed them in

Ok...I no get pawa again jare seems the etiquette/manners point is subjective.

Hosts be accomodating, ,guests just carry go

Abeg who will host me out of all this excellent hosts we have on NL I will be coming with my 2 year old who is one man ransacker you must not vex if he ransacks your underwear cabinet o

damiso:


Ok...I no get pawa again jare seems the etiquette/manners point is subjective.

Hosts be accomodating, ,guests just carry go

Abeg who will host me out of all this excellent host we have on NL I will be coming with my 2 year old who is one man ransacker you must not vex if he ransacks your underwear cabinet o

We will have loved to

Dont know if your itinerary comes close to my end in the vibrant SS

pickabeau1:


We will have loved to

Dont know if your itinerary comes close to my end in the vibrant SS

Where is SS?

damiso:


Where is SS?

South South

pickabeau1:
Hosts now encourage you to come along with your int'l driving license so you can use a car for shopping and whatnots or lease a car

Some go for as low as 60$ per day(insurance inclusive)

Why should a host be driving around all day or cooking all day

Latent truths, right there.

Timbuktou:
Latent truths, right there.

True that ,,.. bro