I couldn't read this thing.
It should be the longest post on nairaland ever.

Chai... Why I no comment first before I read?, now e dn enter 2nd page

My man u are not under any compulsion to date any girl..
I have 2 uncles ,who are not married, yet they appear FULFILLED ,have PEACE of mind and are aging gracefully...
These are MEN who have lived all their lives in the US.
The most Intriguing thing is that THEY ARE NOT EVEN BOTHERED, rather we are bothered and bent on giving them wives.
WE got to the point of matchmaking and marrying ladies for them here, while they are still there, yet whenever they came back then,they gave these beautiful ladies deaf ears....
They always end up, saying that they hate putting the LIVES of other people in bondage.
That every human is entitled to FREEDOM, that every woman deserves such..
And that they can't TOLERATE the excesses of most ladies..
Chaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii...

Ur post was really lengthy. As a newbie here its more articulate when u keep it short. Firstly, I'm surprised by ur convo, and I'm wondering if this actually occurred and if u didn't say something unpleasant to trigger such outburst.If it was all from her end, then its too bad. You should have ended the call earlier.

City44:


Are u sure? U mean no Bus Admin in UI? And that's what she claimed to have studied in UI & graduated in 2011. I also doubted her claims too. Pls UI graduates or students in the house, kindly confirm if this course is studied in the sch.

I'm 101% sure about this.....U.I don't offer management courses...the Only "close to a management" course is ECONOMICS.....which is under the Faculty of Social Sciences.....

Like this girl I met on a dating site. We chat for months and later agreed to share her bbpin.

When we started charting on bbm, she told me to log out of that dating site ...that I should consentrate on her on bbm. I said yes, but I notice she just reply my pings once in a while..and she says k, OK, yh all the time.

So I just went back to the dating site...I met her online active. She saw me online and checked my profile.

Later she buzzed me on bbm and I replied "hello dear".

She just flared up.

Who is your dear. You don't know your boundary. Please don't form any familiarity with me.
Who do u think u r.

I was shocked, I said, are we fighting before....

I am not fighting you...just know your limit blahblah..

I was very angry. I just blocked deleted her on bbm.

She still went to that dating site to rant at me.

What's the cause? She want me out of the dating site cuz there are many ladies there and she is still using it.

Lol what is gud for the goose ....

Lolaabokoku:
Summary pls.. Too lenghty

Signs of a lazy girl.

MimeeTee:
I'm 101% sure about this.....U.I don't offer management courses...the Only "close to a management" course is ECONOMICS.....which is under the Faculty of Social Sciences.....

Nice. That means she is not just a scammer but a blatant liar. And it's possible she must have even presented forged results to House of Tara in Festac to get the job. That girl( Lola) needs to be investigated and dealt with accordingly by her emloyers. She doesn't derserve to work there.

I hope her emlpoyers or anyone who knows them is reading this to pass the message across to them. Let's make Nigeria better.

DrBeaut01:
Ur post was really lengthy. As a newbie here its more articulate when u keep it short. Firstly, I'm surprised by ur convo, and I'm wondering if this actually occurred and if u didn't say something unpleasant to trigger such outburst.If it was all from her end, then its too bad. You should have ended the call earlier.

Yes it actually occured & I stated it exactly as it happened. I never said anything to upset her. It was evident she was hot tempered and lacked manners. No doubt about that.

No wonder the level of single/divorce ladies compared to the married ones is increasing day by day.

I keep wondering the array of bad attitude ladies we have nowadays and If care not taking, it will become global issue like economy meltdown.

Someone mentioned something on a thread in this romance section that getting an A in chemistry is easier than getting a wife and we know how difficult chemistry is.

Maybe it's a spiritual attack from the pit of hell because hardly you will come across a wife material lady nowadays.

Nneka123:
Gosh! i couldn't read all these! op summarize na

and u can comment??

wristwatch:
No wonder the level of single/divorce ladies compared to the married ones is increasing day by day.

I keep wondering the array of bad attitude ladies we have nowadays and If care not taking, it will become global issue like economy meltdown.

Someone mentioned something on a thread in this romance section that getting an A in chemistry is easier than getting a wife and we know how difficult chemistry is.

Maybe it's a spiritual attack from the pit of hell because hardly you will come across a wife material lady nowadays.

You said it all.

seriously. ,,guy hope u dint involve in dis kind lenghty talk with d gal it nerve recking and can make a gal go ballistic. ...

City44:



Nope she was the one that got my no and called me first.

lol a girl call u unknowin her menh does ar gold digger >chop &go

No course like that in UI ooo,there is no faculty for management courses to begin with

Biz admin for UI .... Biko, UI no get that kain course oo ... She can lie ehn ...

Pheals:
lol a girl call u unknowin her menh does ar gold digger >chop &go

Yep real gold diggers everywhere.