When partners keep their pasts from each other, it may harm the relationship in the long run, marriage counsellors say. No matter how bad it may be, they say opening up creates an atmosphere of trust and love. However, studies have shown many partners still find it hard to open up on their pasts because of the fear of abandonment.
Hence, would you want to know? What is your opinion?

Yes.

yes I want to know

Yes na

*curiosity kills the cat tho*

couple keep their past when they fear it'll abort their marriage plan. LET THE SLEEPING DOG LYE THEY SAY.

Of course...the past cannot be buried without being discussed thoroughly, else it may come back to bite.

I have had an experience with a lady on this and sincerely when she told me some things about her past, believe me, it really influenced my decision not to proceed further with her. I had to stylishly back out fast. But in another dimension, it looks more to me like i have betrayed the trust she had in me and that made me feel bad for some time.

It si VERY important... It cannot be ignored... Some girls have had sex more than some married couples

i dnt see d benefit of knowing ur gal has dated 6 guys sexed dem more dan 40 times each nd how jerrys dik was massive nd made her cums easily while u dont even know wat a lady cummin is, done 2 abortions. or u telling ur babe how u used biliki shade Florence nd aisha, sexed 45 ashis , nt interested in knowing abeg

man must know who and who had eaten the food so that they may know the quantity remaining. y not

Well, whichever way it goes, I would love to know her past...But come to think of it this way, what if she makes up a story about her past, how will you find out. Some people could be very good telling lies and making it so real...

I would be interested to know everything. Openness and trust is a. solid rock in a relationship. But I'll still stick to her no matter what I hear. Love is beautiful.

I expect the girls to say no n the boys to say yes. besides for the girls they'll most likely lie about it or b economical. which of u will tell ur husband to be how many guys have fuxked u?!!!

ednut1:
i dnt see d benefit of knowing ur gal has dated 6 guys sexed dem more dan 40 times each nd how jerrys dik was massive nd made her cums easily while u dont even know wat a lady cummin is, done 2 abortions. or u telling ur babe how u used biliki shade Florence nd aisha, sexed 45 ashis , nt interested in knowing abeg

You won't be until you're sitted at the dinner having dinner with family and friends,and most male present are looking awkwardly at your wife because,respectively they have slept with your new wife at the; club,church,hostel,brothels,etc...i bet you still won't want to know why they're looking at your wife

Ladies mostly will not support this for obvious reasons...

Well i used to tell him almost most of the things which happened in the past, and wen he also tries to open up and talk abt his, i wud get angry, upset, jeolos etc. Like i wud get dis feeling dat i cant explain, so i decided to cut such topics off our conversation. I dnt wana know abt rubbish nomore.let sleeping dogs ... Finish it up

Monicasque:
Well i used to tell him almost most of the things which happened in the past, and wen he also tries to open up and talk abt his, i wud get angry, upset, jeolos etc. Like i wud get dis feeling dat i cant explain, so i decided to cut such topics off our conversation. I dnt wana know abt rubbish nomore.let sleeping dogs ... Finish it up

Not so easy to just be quiet about it. It eats you up deep inside.

ALKARULEZZ:
Yes na

*curiosity kills the cat tho*

True that