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Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Onyi42(m): 2:30pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Some married people in Abuja on Wednesday identified the need for material possession as the major reason for infidelity among married couples. Respondents in separate interviews also mentioned the desire to satisfy emotional needs as another contributory factor. Mr Johnson Eze, a civil servant, said he was cheating on his wife not because he loved her less but for the sole purpose of “catching some fun’’. He said: “My marriage is one of the best because my wife, who is God-given, is an understanding woman and she tolerates me a lot. “Yet, I still find myself cheating on her just for the fun of it. This does not in any way diminish the love I have for her and my lovely kids. “I recall an incident that happened some time ago. I told my wife that I was travelling to Calabar for an official assignment, but ended up with my girlfriend in a hotel, and she found out. “The incident almost destroyed my home but thanks to God my wife was able to forgive and forget put the ugly incident behind, ‘’ he said. Eze, who described infidelity as `a careless act,’ advised men to desist from it. A female boutique operator, who pleaded anonymity, said the desire to keep up with the latest fashion trend made her to cheat on her husband. According to her, the husband, a low income earner, was financially incapable of meeting her insatiable material needs. “Besides, my hubby and I fight over things that are not relevant and I lie to him most times to raise extra cash to buy something, which he considers unnecessary. “I have not been faithful in my marriage because of the temptation to stay on top of the fashion trend which is way beyond the financial capacity of my husband. “Besides the extra cash my boyfriend gives me, whenever I want to collect money from my husband for food stuff and other basic necessities I always double the cost. “This has become a habit for me and whenever I don’t get my share in any shopping I do on behalf of the family, I get angry and pick on my husband at any little provocation, ‘’ she added. A legal practitioner who offered a coined name – Mr Kosi Chiemela – blamed his adulterous actions on lack of intimacy, emotional disconnection and lack of friendship with his wife. Chiemela who described marriage as “one difficult school you cannot graduate from till you die,’’ stated that the only way to escape was to stay single. “I am a temperamental person and when I newly got married, it was not easy for my wife whose temper is also short. “Both of us hardly agree on anything and the only escape route for me is to seek love and affection elsewhere. “My girlfriend understands me and she tolerates a lot, unlike my wife who blows up like a bomb at the slightest provocation,’’ he said. (NAN) |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by clevvermind(m): 2:50pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
flee from adultery. it is a sin. don't put your family at risk of hiv. |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Nobody: 3:09pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Well it quiet simple Most ladies cheats on their spouse Mostly because of money to buy the latest trending clothes or other things just to show their friends they are far better than them And that where the competitions begin.. While most men on the other hand Do it for sex sake Just for pleasure Which at times their wife are not ready to give to them whenever they need it CONCLUSION:for those ladies that loves cheating basically for money sake..look for something that will fetch you money and keep you busy(legal) And for those men that cheat basically for sex Before you say I do to any lady,let her know your sex orientation and where you stand is If she can't accept that..let her go her way instead of you sleeping around, to the ladies most men constand urge for sex ,sometimes is the reason why we hardly propose to you..that just the truth,a fiancee who hates sex, and you as a man who loves sex a lot..you guys can't be compatible.. My piece #PEACE |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
kevinberry:Well when it comes to nigerian marriage sex is not important oooo.imagine u talking to ur pastor about ur sexual orientation and imagine the response u go get |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
lefulefu:that where the problem start from.. And the pastor will tell you say no to sex.. And when the man start going after other women The same person will still cry back to the pastor.. people always take a pastor saying as final..especially most women.. |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Nutase: 4:02pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Dogs are men and bitches are women. |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
c0ck and bull story. |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by jnrbayano(m): 4:32pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Marriage is sacred. I repeat, marriage is sacred. If you are not yet ready for it, don't go into it. There's no reason to cheat. |
Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses –abuja Residents by missdebs(f): 5:09pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
the only solution to all this is christ |
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