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Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
zyzxx: thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by eyeview: 12:47pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee: I somehow understand how you feel. You've seen a lot of bad girls who did really worse things still attract guys and settled down and you tend to wanna question your 'goodness'. Just hang in there and keep keeping your head on high. You'll soon look back at this post and laugh(cos by then you would have been happily married). Also,I can bet a lot of mails will be flooding your inbox henceforth. Selah 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
tonychristopher:Oh please shut up. Backward mentality of some dudes sha Who told you all single city girls jump from hotel to hotel? You disgust me with your statement. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Whynotthetruth(m): 12:51pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee: this appeals more to science (magnetism) than real life scenario... Consider law of attraction for real life events. Are you a feminist? no offence but it is a turnoff for my Igbo bros... Also, thread with caution dear. A similar frustration almost left me with fingers burnt. Now, I am calmly waiting for her whether we meet in Lagos or anywhere is of no significance to me. ##So far we meet##. Finally; consider those submissions by eyeview... goodluck |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
eyeview: that is the idea my dear, to look back at this post in the future and smile. ve really enjoyed your contributions and that of others here, it has made me take a step back and check myself for the things i may not be doing right. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: noted. thanks |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
3cycle: i love your comment, you could not have said it any better. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Rapmoney(m): 12:56pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Thanks bro! You too much! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Monicasque:I always advise young girls to marry for love and also marry someone you understand their culture, traditions and life. Moreover she is anambra and most anambra babes hardly marry non-igbo's else family might disassociate themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Whynotthetruth(m): 1:02pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee: Are you feminist? No offence plz just that it's a turnoff for folks like me with Igbo background... |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: noted |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by beckyomas(f): 1:12pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
tonychristopher:You didn't think to ask her what she meant at first before you typed all that. Trust me, op is a decent woman because I can imagine what her response would have been like otherwise. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth:Igbo men and pride. He wants a robot for a partner, bros daalu with your search. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
3cycle: lwkm. your comment got me laughing hard |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by iroko2020(m): 1:20pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
I think Christopher is saying the right thing.some of these Igbo girls born in Lagos have this unrealistic standard for there men and are sometimes feminist. they also have this spirit of entitlement without having the request qualification for such entitlements. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by feeekey(f): 1:24pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
I hope u haven't dated a married man whose wife cursed u while she was naked jus asking cos I knw of someone dat went to serve @ asaba she was having her ppa @ d man's office so dey were dating dat apart another one was using her bodi to build her account while d service year lasted 3 of us are igbo girls infact from anambra state so check urself already ask for forgiveness of ur sins frm God pray and fast Asides all dese our tastes are always too high when looking for spouses a friend of mine insisted on marrying an abroad based guy she's not d only one so jus try and bring ur self to love a man u can build an empire with and not d one dat already has 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
iroko2020: noted |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Whynotthetruth(m): 1:28pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
3cycle: lolz... don't get it twisted. It's not necessarily pride but its been ordained by Chukwu okike that all have their role mapped out. Mind you; I hate women who don't have a mind of their own but not a boss or feminist in my house...Have you ever wondered why with all the marriage counselling classes, epistles, seminars etc we have more divorce and failed marriages than our patriarchs who never had such...We need to go back to the root bro... 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
feeekey: i will never think of being close friends with a married man, let alone date one. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth:If you love women with a mind of their own, then you will love a feminist. Marriages fail due to lack of understanding and tolerance. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: what root are you referring to? the days where most women ended up as housewives while the men go out to fend for the entire family? err, i think those days are over now, cos even men of this generation want to settle down with women who are gainfully employed. The shameless men will want to play the Househusband role while the women go out to fend for the family. and are we talking about the same God? i mean the God who ordained for women to be " Helpers" to their husbands. your wife is meant to be your partner and if you treat her less than that or end up treating her less than that, then you are wrong. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
feeekey:Kedu ife ona ko Abeg shift if you have no meaningful thing to say, coming from a lady I will suggest you go for a brain check. That you and your fellow corpers slept with married men and ended up cursed does not mean most single ladies were cursed. Read again and understand where she's coming from. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by kelechi50: 1:47pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
eyeview:kudos for this great analysis that is the reason many ibo girls born and bred in lagos hardly marry because they fail to understand that we have culture,norms,and value our tradition.some guys prefer to go home and marry |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
kelechi50: okay. good for you. |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by ChristyG(f): 1:51pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee:who told this suberu girl that lagos is more populated with ibos,where did u get that sh1t stats from,dont be deceived by d useless numbers nl ibos write here,dere is nothing like dat..if u looking for ur ibo guy,move to east where majority of them are,lagos is not iboland,dont get it twisted 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ChristyG: you sound bitter. trouble at home? yes? try praying, you will feel much better afterwards. thanks for dropping by. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by menix(m): 1:57pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ChristyG: Within u, u re happy to ve contributed bah.. Don't worry Fashola will name yaba cementry after u.. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ChristyG:Last time I checked, lagos is still in Nigeria and Nigerians reside there. Igbos reside in Lagos and infact we have more of them in Lag than in any part of the west. Lagos is igboland, Now kill yourself 9 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by obisite: 2:20pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ChristyG: This is serious... try to be constructive when criticizing or making opinion.... . . Make it more eloquent.. . You sound harsh. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by obisite: 2:27pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee: Eyah!! Regards,, glad I did..., Do be a better day ahead.. ..!! |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Whynotthetruth(m): 2:36pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
3cycle: Bro...there's a whole lot of difference between a lady with a mind of own and a feminist...There's difference between pride and protecting your ego...it takes a woman of wisdom to strike a balance between being submissive to her man and being a "robot". 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Meet A Decent Igbo Guy In Lagos?? by Whynotthetruth(m): 2:51pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
chiggiee: Babe, you're getting it all mixed up. First, I am not advocating housewife stuff which our tradition never even advocated. Yes! women had farms from where they fed their households then. There were farmsteads for different wives though the father worked more with his sons on the general farm. Remember, it was more of polygamous in nature. So our tradition; isn't pro-housewife par say fully. Going back to the root involves such as respect for our culture, norms and values; which just like the bible has roles mapped out for every member of the household. I am for respect for family values. Don't usurp the role or office of your husband it is both against biblical and our traditional values my dear. Usurping roles is one of the cardinal principles of feminism, which is what many ladies do today; and end up bastardizing the institution of holy matrimony... Yes, go back to the Bible and see exactly what God made marriage to be NOT What you think he made it to be... |
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