AwesomelyMade:
There are decent Igbo guys like me ....trust me. Just keep searching but make sure you are decent because things attract their likes!

chiggiee:


i don't club and i don't have pride. the major problem is that i work late; i leave the house as early as 6:25am and sometimes i come back by 9pm so there is really no time to socialize except on weekends (which i use for doing laundry and housekeeping). *sigh* i guess i would just have to find time somehow out of my busy schedule to socialize.

thanks for your comment. have a blessed day

menix:
@op.. Sincerely u nid to reaccess ursef.
Cous we ve got a lot nd lot of em nd I can't deny being 1.

Am sure u wuld ve met som buh ur taste was on d high side, so was difficult 4 u to figure out.

Jst lik som1 said earlier put up a pix so dat d decent amongst nairalanders wuld kno if d journey is worth it..

mikolo80:
you better buy okada ,laptop and outsource your laundry.time is money and therefore money can buy time

chiggiee:


i don't club and i don't have pride. the major problem is that i work late; i leave the house as early as 6:25am and sometimes i come back by 9pm so there is really no time to socialize except on weekends (which i use for doing laundry and housekeeping). *sigh* i guess i would just have to find time somehow out of my busy schedule to socialize.

thanks for your comment. have a blessed day

obisite:


Lolz.. . Funny but true



From the Op post, she never said no decent Igbo boys,, , ratio signify even the Topic too.. .. As regards to "decent guy"... No other perspective could be Accord to it than than the singular view of the word "decent"

eyeview:


I feel your pain,on a lighter note
1,if your place of work has branches,see if they can transfer you to a branch in the following:
Alaba
Aspamda
BBA
Ladipo
Coker Building material market
2,If you can move house,relocate to any of the following
Okota
Satelite town
Festac
Oke-afa
Ejigbo
Iba
Amuwo-Odofin
Ajao Estate
3,If you run a bank account,move it from that bank down the road to any of the following
Diamond Bank
Fidelity Bank
Enterprise Bank
Zenith Bank
4, Then change your place of worship to
Chosen
Assemblies of God
TREM
David's christian centre
Anglican Church
Morning mass of Catholic churches(they usually attend before going off to open shop or office)
And many others scattered allover every geographic location in Lagos

chiggiee:
my name is gozie, i am female and i am from Anambra state. I have been in Lagos almost all my life; schooled in lagos, served in lagos and currently working in Lagos.
meeting a decent igbo guy in Lagos has been a herculean's task since my university days, i have mostly had guys from other tribes flock around me and i am really not looking to settle down with a non-igbo guy(and please it has nothing to do with being tribalistic because the ratio of my non-igbo friends to the igbo ones is like 80:20).
so i would really like to know why it is difficult, cos i know Lagos is more populated with igbo people. so is it my location? or maybe i don't go out often? or maybe it is not the right time?

please feel free to drop your comments.

p.S. should in case a decent igbo guy(residing in Lagos) stumbles upon this post, i am just a mail away: chigiee@yahoo.com

chiggiee:


haha, your comment is funny.

i tried outsourcing my laundry though but the lady who helps me is not consistent.

ronald4lif:


So you be nwa afor sef

I thought you are from Warri

chiggiee:


awww. how sweet. thanks for dropping by

chiggiee:


i am afraid i cannot put up my pix for security reasons, the decent guy should just take a leap of faith.

and as for taste, everyone has preference(including you) which is not a bad thing.

tonychristopher:


It is just the principle of likes

For you to attract a decent person be it Igbo or anybody you must be decent...so I think check yourself first and know how decent you are

That's simple law of attraction...

mikolo80:
look for consistent one.a neighbors house help for instance.the okada is to cut commuting time,while the computer is supposed to help do your sums.or you could just hire a p.a. That knows how to ride okada

chiggiee:


lol at me being the "indecent one". i wish i was because it seems these days they are the ones getting hooked up to the good guys..

menix:


LoL @ d leap of faith.. U mst be nwa Jesus..
Hope u won't go to d mountain 4 prayers afta I mst ve leaped..

Sure every1 has got taste buh u know mst of our galz ve got dis ridiculous taste like " potato Jos mu mst b driving an uncompleted Benz"

tonychristopher:
The problem with most girls is that they have this Cinderella mentality . They want a perfect gentleman in the name of decent

A man that is there for her every time a man that doesn't smoke doesn't womanize doesn't even drink and a tall handsome man with huge account living in banana

That's decent for her. If that us what she meant by decent she will wait till menopause. her non Igbo friends are realistic and have themselves snapped up by the average Igbo dude she is waiting for decent Igbo man aka perfect gentleman

She was will see him
This is the ultimate search season is 10

Soso descent ma recent man

Hancha sokwa

chiggiee:


lol. okay will do. thanks

Rapmoney:


I be original nwa afor o! Repping Imo State...grew up in Delta State and raised in Warfi

Lol! Okay, nwa afor brain and warri over sense put together

No wonder you are one of the very few brothers here who doesn't woman wrapper about

chiggiee:


noted

chiggiee:


some people just have twisted meanings of the word "decent" though. noted

chiggiee:


lol at me being the "indecent one". i wish i was because it seems these days they are the ones getting hooked up to the[b] good guys.[/b].

Monicasque:
honey if u don't mind, do u mind me asking you why u don't wana be in a relationship with a non-Igbo?

chiggiee:


trust me, some igbo business men are more polished than the educated ones; i know this because my sister married one and you would never tell that he didnt further his studies.

so it is really not about the guy's educational background.

chiggiee:


haha. no girl's taste is ridiculous though. it is just the harsh economy of Nigeria that is causing most guys to think that way.

and yes i am Proudly Jesus' Baby

tonychristopher:


Decent is relative

What is your definition of decent man before we can help you


Thank you

chiggiee:


because i don't want to settle down with a non-igbo. so there is no point in starting what i cannot finish