AbuMikey:


Use the Damn condom, and fûck as much as You want to feel alright!

See talk...!

AbuMikey:


This is so not true.

That Pre-Marital sex can wreck a marriage!

Ha!!

Bros, read Your comment again na

Distrust-yeah it can wreck a marriage.

If you are so truthful, tel me after sleeping with your girlfriend you've never wondered who else she must have slept with? It happens everyday

Kachisbarbie:



How is it very true, Mikey?
If one gets married a virgin, you can also turn an addict (new thing dey shark). The husband can actually get tired of servicing the wife too.
That's when we see threads like "My Husband Doesn't Make Love To Me Often"

But a real virgin has SELF CONTROL . that's why she's one,unlike a sex addict who would rush outside immediately to an extra marital affair. No matter how much we try to bend it, with a virgin you trust... You are comfortable atleast in terms of cheating.

Its easier to move on when it didnt work

urhmm... pls lemme b brutally frank here and hope (against all hope) dat I'll escape bein pelted to death by them e-warriors!
@ Kachisbarbie, l can identify wit u; l feel pained wen peeps use holy books or religion as a veneer thinly veiling their true vile selves.
lt is a sad fact that many religious bigots in a stunning display of fanaticism, write off certain acts as "bad" without ever caring to show what makes these "bad" things bad.
U can guess d natural consequence: d birth of a race of hypocritically ambivalent individuals who viciously and openly criticize that which they secretly long for!
U can understand then, Mizmycoli, y ur thread immediately arrested my attention.
D issues u regularly raise, betray u as a sagacious lady hence d reason 'l fit die on top ur matter' (in Wizkid's voice).
Still my views on issues like this bulldoze against popular opinion. A load of secular researchers hav been able to highlight som ill-effects of PMS. (lolz.. PMS is Pre Menstrual Syndrome o, Mizmycoli)
Unfortunately, l cannot at this time reference any such works. Still, IMO, those who espouse PMS argue against logic.
Sex is a pleasurable and deeply satisfying natural experience. There is NOTHING innately wrong or sinful in sexual activity. Any who argue otherwise are merely parading ignorance. Whereas l hv tons of scriptures supportin dis view, lemme stock to d 'no-bible' tenet of this thread!
However, like a sharp knife, sex can so easily vacillate frm useful tool to deadly weapon - when abused!
Lemme analogize sex wit alcohol consumption: many countries legislate a legal drinking age - it is assumed (rightly or wrongly) that any below d legal drinking age cant handle their liquor well. Sex too, can become extremely unmanageable and problematic under given circumstances - when premarital or extramarital.
Self control or self restraint is a critical virtue. Sadly consumerism preaches a different gospel: slogans like 'give urself a treat', 'why settle for less when u can hav it all?', 'who says u cant be all u wanna be?' are all too familiar.
D msg is clear: self indulgence and self gratification are glorified and enthroned as noble virtues..
So everyone keeps trying albeit unsuccessfully to hav their cake and eat it.
Premarital sex comes at a steep price: u go gree pay??
We kno better so
#WeHaveDecided#
Make l shut up for now...