softysparky:
What exactly will you do with the answer
Maybe you should also ask for names, styles and positions or better still collect their phone numbers.

Lagunna:

softysparky:

Why are you laughing?

emperorchedda:
The past defines the future
If you don't know history you can't understand the present/future

A girl who has slept with bunch of men before you date her will continue the trend because her body can no longer adapt to a single diick. Like they say Once a soldier always a soldier

Lagunna:


You know why..

softysparky:

And a man that have slept with bunch of women?

softysparky:
ronald4lif xup?

Ezigbo I am good, thanks

How about you?

softysparky:

No I don't. btw answer op's question.

ronald4lif:


Thank you jare. Daalu rinne

It's a two way thing, we always think men are free to play around but quick to call women names

softysparky:

My dear na so we see am ooo. Even after asking ladies how many men they have slept with, they will still go ahead and register their name inside their punny and run.
Girls shine your eyes ooo.

softysparky:

And a man that have slept with bunch of women?

Lagunna:


yes you do..
I don't see anything wrong in knowing the past of your girlfriend or boyfriend. .

emperorchedda:
We know what we want and always hold a particular female at high esteem, no matter how much we 'run' around we still come back to that special one

softysparky:

ronald4lif please come and see these comment

softysparky:

Lol, why not ask her positions, styles, locations and sizes of the kini and finally get pen and paper because you will need to write down names of the guys she has fvcked.
After you are just trying to know her past.

Shikena

Lagunna:


Your left yansh

This is one of those issues that you will get arguments for both sides but in my opinion, YES you have every right to know because it could possibly effect your health or future if she has anything to spread. The sad part is that most if not all will lie about it when asked. People (female especially) don't want to expose their shame and regrets, especially to the guy they like and don't want him thinking less of her. But If you are going to build a relationship together and be intimate together than you have every right to know!!!
Shikena

emperorchedda:
We know what we want and always hold a particular female at high esteem, no matter how much we 'run' around we still come back to that special one

softysparky:

ronald4lif please come and see these comment

Lol! I just dey sip my alomo on the sideline dey watch, na both of you get show na

softysparky:

The same way you run around and fvck others is exactly the same way people fvck that your special one and go back to their own special ones.
That your special one you hold in high esteem is someone else's side chick
So don't think you are smart.

softysparky:

The same way you run around and fvck others is exactly the same way people fvck that your special one and go back to their own special ones.
That your special one you hold in high esteem is someone else's side chick
So don't think you are smart.

softysparky:

If you think or feel she has anything to spread or that the number of guys she slept with could possibly affect your health and future then take her to hospital. ..in fact you both should go to hospital and check yourselves out before having sex. I wonder how men think that women are the only carrier of STD

As you said, most of them lie about it. Why then do you ask when you know they might end up lying to you.....ooh maybe you want to be given a medal as the number 7 striker of her punny.

Lagunna:


Leave matter for matthias joor.. It's not wrong to want to know intimate details about your partner.

Would you rather that he or she finds out the truth from someone else? Or may be you'd rather tell a lie and lie awake at night wondering what would happen if they knew the truth?
Honesty is the best policy here.

To love someone is to know that person". That means that for true intimacy based on love and trust to unfold, you have to get to that place where you know everything about someone and love everything you know, unconditionally. That includes his or her past. After all we are to some degree a by-product of our past experiences.