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Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Jeromejnr(m): 5:37pm On Feb 03, 2015
Drive a Bugatti.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by headboyprince(m): 5:38pm On Feb 03, 2015
Please solve this!!!
A guy wanted to buy a shirt wit d price 97k(thousand), e didnt have money so he borrowed 50k,50k from his mum nd dad respectively. He bought the shirt and he is left with 3k, he gave his mum 1k and dad 1k nd e kept 1k for himself, nw e ows his mum 49k nd dad 49k plus hiz 1k=99k, pls wer z d remainin 1k
Click here to place your answer the winner will be rewarded
Naijacomedyzone.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by BraniacX(m): 5:40pm On Feb 03, 2015
HSinclair:
6. Make alota Money grin

AMEN!!! To that
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Sarimah(f): 5:41pm On Feb 03, 2015
nice one
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by vivaciousvivi(f): 5:44pm On Feb 03, 2015
Thank you Harrysterol.
The emotional intelligence part made a lot of sense.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by BraniacX(m): 5:45pm On Feb 03, 2015
headboyprince:
Please solve this!!!
A guy wanted to buy a shirt wit d price 97k(thousand), e didnt have money so he borrowed 50k,50k from his mum nd dad respectively. He bought the shirt and he is left with 3k, he gave his mum 1k and dad 1k nd e kept 1k for himself, nw e ows his mum 49k nd dad 49k plus hiz 1k=99k, pls wer z d remainin 1k
Click here to place your answer the winner will be rewarded
Naijacomedyzone.

There's no missing 1k, minus the 2k he returned, he actually borrowed 98k of which he spent 97k and kept 1k to himself
CHIKENA!!!
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Daraplato(m): 5:47pm On Feb 03, 2015
No 6. Read posts like this....... smiley wink
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Nobody: 5:48pm On Feb 03, 2015
harrysterol:
[b]Am not here to Write about how to put on pedicure or manicure neither am I here to write about how to wear the latest pencil Trousers, am here to write about how you can be irresistibly attractive that goes beyond Looks that can better your Life and your Relationship with your spouse or others
Been irresistibly attractive goes more beyond facial looks, before I proceed I will put it to you that "your the best and only you in the universe so don't ever wish you were somene else" beside if you don't acknowledge yourself as being the best who will? If you love yourself someone else will love you, if you hate yourself someone else will hate you, the way you lay your bed that how you lie on it
Here are ways to make you irresistibly attractive either to your partner, intending our supposed to be partner


1. Simplify your life it easier said than done, simplicity is the hallmark of great achievements, we think alot, wishing to be one person or the other, complicating your life makes you emotionally unavailable, try been simple and be yourself, i promise you everything will fall in place.



2. Eliminating External Validation
Eliminate the need for someone to validate your thinking.  In other words, don’t be motivated by the recognition, opinions, or support of others.  That constant need for validation may slip into a dependence on others for motivation.  Don’t be guided by what you might think you need to do in order to be popular socially with a certain group of people, or what specific things you think people need from you.  Stay in touch with your own genuine authenticity and best-self.  Be driven by what you are truly passionate and inspired about.  Assume and expect the reality that not everyone is going to like or agree with you.

3.See Everyone for Who they Genuinely are
"Do unto others What you Wish them to do to you" am not sure you will be happy if someone judge or writes you off without constructive criticism, Continually develop the highest degrees of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and emotional maturity to effectively interact with those who may drive you crazy. ( practical example here on NL if someone abuse you on the forum and you reply back politely I use to see alot of likes for such an individual for his intellect) try exhibiting that,as for ladies avoid nags and see if your spouse won't be over joyful and grateful of you "Don't Ever Take Things Personally"

4. Never stop learning and growing as a person. 
Engaging in constant and never-ending growth and improvement accelerates the continuous development of your mind, body, and senses. When others see the progress they will become more drawn to you, and will want to be in relationships with you because they will receive a sense of certainty and reassurance that their own growth, momentum, and progress will be supported and not interrupted.

5.Carve out your own reality and personal blueprint for living. 
Most of us have adopted a version of our parent’s blueprint, or we have adopted what we perceive to be a popular blueprint for relationship ,there is nothing wrong with that but you need to create your own separate reality and blueprint for living in order to make the most of your life, and attract the people who can help you create and maintain the relationships you truly and genuinely want to have.


I know it will be tasky applying this principles especially if any or all of this is new to you, and applying them is outside your comfort zone.  I promise you that the experience is definitely worth the investment of time and effort, and you will ultimately reap many exciting rewards that life has in store for you!

Yours Faithful
Harrysterol
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Beautiful !!!

Pls, which planet are you from?

#brilliant
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Movesz(m): 6:02pm On Feb 03, 2015
harrysterol:
[b]Am not here to Write about how to put on pedicure or manicure neither am I here to write about how to wear the latest pencil Trousers, am here to write about how you can be irresistibly attractive that goes beyond Looks that can better your Life and your Relationship with your spouse or others
Been irresistibly attractive goes more beyond facial looks, before I proceed I will put it to you that "your the best and only you in the universe so don't ever wish you were somene else" beside if you don't acknowledge yourself as being the best who will? If you love yourself someone else will love you, if you hate yourself someone else will hate you, the way you lay your bed that how you lie on it
Here are ways to make you irresistibly attractive either to your partner, intending our supposed to be partner


1. Simplify your life it easier said than done, simplicity is the hallmark of great achievements, we think alot, wishing to be one person or the other, complicating your life makes you emotionally unavailable, try been simple and be yourself, i promise you everything will fall in place.



2. Eliminating External Validation
Eliminate the need for someone to validate your thinking.  In other words, don’t be motivated by the recognition, opinions, or support of others.  That constant need for validation may slip into a dependence on others for motivation.  Don’t be guided by what you might think you need to do in order to be popular socially with a certain group of people, or what specific things you think people need from you.  Stay in touch with your own genuine authenticity and best-self.  Be driven by what you are truly passionate and inspired about.  Assume and expect the reality that not everyone is going to like or agree with you.

3.See Everyone for Who they Genuinely are
"Do unto others What you Wish them to do to you" am not sure you will be happy if someone judge or writes you off without constructive criticism, Continually develop the highest degrees of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and emotional maturity to effectively interact with those who may drive you crazy. ( practical example here on NL if someone abuse you on the forum and you reply back politely I use to see alot of likes for such an individual for his intellect) try exhibiting that,as for ladies avoid nags and see if your spouse won't be over joyful and grateful of you "Don't Ever Take Things Personally"

4. Never stop learning and growing as a person. 
Engaging in constant and never-ending growth and improvement accelerates the continuous development of your mind, body, and senses. When others see the progress they will become more drawn to you, and will want to be in relationships with you because they will receive a sense of certainty and reassurance that their own growth, momentum, and progress will be supported and not interrupted.

5.Carve out your own reality and personal blueprint for living. 
Most of us have adopted a version of our parent’s blueprint, or we have adopted what we perceive to be a popular blueprint for relationship ,there is nothing wrong with that but you need to create your own separate reality and blueprint for living in order to make the most of your life, and attract the people who can help you create and maintain the relationships you truly and genuinely want to have.


I know it will be tasky applying this principles especially if any or all of this is new to you, and applying them is outside your comfort zone.  I promise you that the experience is definitely worth the investment of time and effort, and you will ultimately reap many exciting rewards that life has in store for you!

Yours Faithful
Harrysterol
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Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Kingsasian(m): 6:03pm On Feb 03, 2015
lilmaxfidel:
rob a bank, keep on robbing, fidelity diamond skye first ecobank and the rest you will be irresistably irresistible by our naija girls.

if you wanna go international rob world bank.
*continues moulding my whole wheat
bro, not all naija ladies are money conscious. What the op said is being attractive to others and in all ramifications of life. Mind u naija babes these days are now getting cool headed because the economy isn't favouring most guys esp graduates. Do u also want to say that its only guys with money that get married every wknd? Ladies these days are now supporting their bf to get where they want them to be for a better tomorrow for both of them. Pls change ur mentality.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by ijiini(m): 6:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
Oahray:
Read books and broaden your knowledge. Few things are sexier than intelligence.
.....u are blessed for dat comment.....
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Ilekeh(f): 6:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
HSinclair:
6. Make alota Money grin
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Teaxa(m): 6:28pm On Feb 03, 2015
Thumbs Up@OP.
U try sha.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by loomer: 6:33pm On Feb 03, 2015
FOR NIGERIA, ABI NA FOR OYIBO LAND?
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Arlex(m): 7:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
rob a bank, keep on robbing, fidelity diamond skye first ecobank and the rest you will be irresistably irresistible by our naija girls.

if you wanna go international rob world bank.
*continues moulding my whole wheat
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
HSinclair:
6. Make alota Money grin

Character Makes a Man.. but Character with loads of money makes you THE MAN!
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by watchthisposter(m): 7:18pm On Feb 03, 2015
Oahray:
Read books and broaden your knowledge. Few things are sexier than intelligence.

If daht was true, geeks would have been movie stars and pop icons...
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by tiredface: 7:24pm On Feb 03, 2015
Funny, no mention of naira
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Nobody: 7:37pm On Feb 03, 2015
great thread.

ladies have to know that outward appearance isn't the first thing that attracts a responsible guy. The earlier they know the better it is
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by LILYCHERISH(f): 7:50pm On Feb 03, 2015
Indeed it is a good wrk
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by expozey(f): 7:59pm On Feb 03, 2015
Very good write-up.
Most times, we covet what we don't really need, we crave attention or validation from people who don't even give a damn about us, we build our lives not based on principles or personal ideals, but on societal norms, whether good or bad. In doing all these we lose touch with whom we truly are and just go along with everchanging fads.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by cupidhero(m): 8:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
1. Learn a foreign language.
2. Be weird in a good way.
3. If it is not on GQ® don't wear it.
4. Speak ebonics or speak with a british accent(I know it is fake but ladies love it)
5. Speak geek or shakespear if possibe(Just have a vast knowledge on a subject she might love.)
6. Tell people you meet that you know cupidhero in person. grin and never forget to apply your powder or mary kay or whatever.
Don't be a hater,rather thank me later!
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by tr3y(m): 8:26pm On Feb 03, 2015
Its all about self-image, once you see yourself as handsome and irresistible, half of the work is already done. It's not a day work anyway.
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Oahray: 9:46pm On Feb 03, 2015
watchthisposter:


If daht was true, geeks would have been movie stars and pop icons...
well I was speaking for myself and others for whom a shallow intellect is a huge turn off. I'd pick a geek over a bimbo any day.

Movies even glorify intellect. From Prison break to batman to Lucy to Kyle XY. Protagonists need intellect to succeed, and at times that intellect seduces us into supporting them. Even if it's make-believe, you'd need a certain level of intellect to play your roles well.

Believe me, it does not even take a geek to know that "FEW THINGS are sexier than intelligence" is not the same as saying "NOTHING is sexier than intelligence." smiley

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Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by nwadiuko1(m): 10:13pm On Feb 03, 2015
Oahray:
Read books and broaden your knowledge. Few things are sexier than intelligence.
na ur papa born you joor

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Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Holuwarsheun2014(m): 10:39pm On Feb 03, 2015
rob a bank, keep on robbing, fidelity diamond skye first ecobank and the rest you will be irresistably irresistible by our naija girls.

if you wanna go international rob world bank.
*continues moulding my whole wheat


madman
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by prela(f): 10:53pm On Feb 03, 2015
[quote author=harrysterol post=30378569][b]Am not here to Write about how to put on pedicure or manicure neither am I here to write about how to wear the latest pencil Trousers, am here to write about how you can be irresistibly attractive that goes beyond Looks that can better your Life and your Relationship with your spouse or others
Been irresistibly attractive goes more beyond facial looks, before I proceed I will put it to you that "your the best and only you in the universe so don't ever wish you were somene else" beside if you don't acknowledge yourself as being the best who will? If you love yourself someone else will love you, if you hate yourself someone else will hate you, the way you lay your bed that how you lie on it
Here are ways to make you irresistibly attractive either to your partner, intending our supposed to be partner


1. Simplify your life it easier said than done, simplicity is the hallmark of great achievements, we think alot, wishing to be one person or the other, complicating your life makes you emotionally unavailable, try been simple and be yourself, i promise you everything will fall in place.



2. Eliminating External Validation
Eliminate the need for someone to validate your thinking.  In other words, don’t be motivated by the recognition, opinions, or support of others.  That constant need for validation may slip into a dependence on others for motivation.  Don’t be guided by what you might think you need to do in order to be popular socially with a certain group of people, or what specific things you think people need from you.  Stay in touch with your own genuine authenticity and best-self.  Be driven by what you are truly passionate and inspired about.  Assume and expect the reality that not everyone is going to like or agree with you.

3.See Everyone for Who they Genuinely are
"Do unto others What you Wish them to do to you" am not sure you will be happy if someone judge or writes you off without constructive criticism, Continually develop the highest degrees of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and emotional maturity to effectively interact with those who may drive you crazy. ( practical example here on NL if someone abuse you on the forum and you reply back politely I use to see alot of likes for such an individual for his intellect) try exhibiting that,as for ladies avoid nags and see if your spouse won't be over joyful and grateful of you "Don't Ever Take Things Personally"

4. Never stop learning and growing as a person. 
Engaging in constant and never-ending growth and improvement accelerates the continuous development of your mind, body, and senses. When others see the progress they will become more drawn to you, and will want to be in relationships with you because they will receive a sense of certainty and reassurance that their own growth, momentum, and progress will be supported and not interrupted.

5.Carve out your own reality and personal blueprint for living. 
Most of us have adopted a version of our parent’s blueprint, or we have adopted what we perceive to be a popular blueprint for relationship ,there is nothing wrong with that but you need to create your own separate reality and blueprint for living in order to make the most of your life, and attract the people who can help you create and maintain the relationships you truly and genuinely want to have.


I know it will be tasky applying this principles especially if any or all of this is new to you, and applying them is outside your comfort zone.  I promise you that the experience is definitely worth the investment of time and effort, and you will ultimately reap many exciting rewards that life has in store for you!


Lastly smile
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by chimoskyg(m): 11:09pm On Feb 03, 2015
Bleep very well
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by Haryoryhemie(f): 11:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
grin

Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by emzeelee: 3:53am On Feb 04, 2015
Nix one OP.. Noted .. Buh finally good relationship na #GODWIN
Re: 5 Ways To Become More Irresistibly Attractive by TimTox(m): 8:48am On Feb 04, 2015
HSinclair:
6. Make alota Money grin
That's meant to be number one sef cool
HSinclair:
6. Make alota Money grin
That's meant to be number one sef
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