DeHero1:
There are always 10 rules/10 ways/10 reasons to everything on NL.

shumuel:
Why Most Ladies Find It Difficult To Open Up On Nairaland.

1. Shyness.
Most ladies would had love to share but they are too shy and wont be able to share their secrets or open up while some just dont like to share their even when she knows you don't know her.

2. Lies .
Females tend to lie, so opening up to you might be a BIG problem for her in future incase she decides to lie and when asked again she might have forgoten what she told you earlier.

3. Pride
Most females are Proud and wont like to open up to anyone, they believe its degrading and has a Big Chick/Girl its too childish telling the whole world everything about her.

4. Attacks & Insults.
Most ladies don't share and avoid topic that recures it on Nairaland like a plague because of the insults and attacks that comes after, so they avoid opening up because most NL guys would act immature to it. guys no dey try for this one.

5. Securing The Future
Some ladies would rather not try it because they don't know who is behind every Monikar, some of their secrets could and would hunt them in future, imagine if they get to Marry a guy from NL.

6. Male factor
I used 'Male factor' because of the way most guys insults and attack Nairaland ladies as if they are Slu.ts and Pros.titutes, ladies would always rethink and withold their comments when they remember how the guys 'Male factors' would bash them with insults.

7. Understanding.
Well in every situation if there are no Understanding there are bound to be problems, and most Nairaland guys lack this, even if a lady doesn't comment on topics that has to do with se.x but only veiwed Nairaland guys would still pass a little form of insult or attack her one way or the other.

8. Virtusness
Every Female loves to be seen as perfect and most ladies on NL wont want to share any secret that is determent to her been seen has as such.

9. Secrets are Secrets.
To a lady secrets are meant to be secrets and not something to be shared with anyone even when she is hiding behind a moniker, so no matter how hard you try she just wont spill.

10. Immaturity.
Some of the ladies on Nairaland are actually not matured enough, they are girls of age range of 13-17 who dont have the boldness to open up because they are scared, yes scare the secrets might get to their parents.

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DeHero1:
There are always 10 rules/10 ways/10 reasons to everything on NL.

mirexxx:
open up and tell u what plz

charijee:
Is it only about the ladies how many guys open up sincerely here ....as broad as this forum.....you expect me to open up to you.....if you wanna know me deep.....come to the backstage

KingTom:

: o

charijee:
Anything the matter?

KingTom:
Backstage?

charijee:
What exactly is your problem with it

KingTom:
Nothing,
***Grins Sheepishly****
Nothing at all

charijee:
lol you can't stop being KingTom

AwesomelyMade:
No sensible girl would want open up on the whole of nairaland. A sensible girl might check for the guys contacts on his profile, and a smart guy should be able to spot a nl girl that is interested. People like Tosyne2.much can tell you more

Medunah:
Cos wen you say sometin like ''i dnt see the big deal in having premarital sex''

And the nxt day, some psycho will open a thread titled ''xyz is most likely not a virgin''

Dats enuf reason to keep your cool on here, we also have many immature guys on here . And OP, age is not maturity cos am sure most guys who act like dis are way above 18

190:
Women still dey Nairaland

shumuel:


Una don purshu dem finish na, dem dey but dem no go comment, see wetin KingTom dey do now to charijee because she mention back stage

190:
Women still dey Nairaland

190:
Women still dey Nairaland

shumuel:


Una don purshu dem finish na, dem dey but dem no go comment, see wetin KingTom dey do now to charijee because she mention back stage

KingTom:
Wetin na, na my kid sister na

shumuel:




Una don purshu dem finish na, dem dey but dem no go comment, see wetin KingTom dey do now to charijee because she mention back stage

And who are these people whos kingtom and charjee

charijee:
lol KingTom na my first cousin brother in-law