jacksparrow1207:
Get a girl outside. Make sure she is aware yu are sleeping wt another gal. She go quickly open that her head wey block
Dem no dey tel blind man say rain dey fall

ronald4lif:


What if she gets a man outside too? Abi na only men get right to commit adultery ni

ronald4lif:


There are better ways to address such issues really, not by you cheating with the notion that if your wife does same she leaves the house. But then again, I forgot ours is a country where women are hardly respected and where domestic or emotional abuse by men are condone by both people and the law.

In saner climes, men are the ones to leave their homes for the women in times of irreconcilable issues and one person is to leave for the other. Okay let's even assume she leaves and the other woman comes in, then another issue comes up, it might not be sex but something else then we kick her out and bring in another no be so. Make the man address the issues jare. They were having sex before and after the marriage so something is likely wrong somewhere

jacksparrow1207:


But come to think of it, how my wife go denys me s*x? Its so not right. How is a car suppose to function without fuel?
No matter whats wrong, a lady shouldnt starve her husband wt s*x. Its so not right

ronald4lif:


I know, it's very wrong and provocative, some men may even force themselves on their wives in such circumstance, that's how frustrating it can get. But let's wait for the OP to later come throw more light on what he has done to resolve the issue

infinitty:
let's face reality here, I think before a man starts to complain that his newly married wife is starving him of sex, the woman must have done it several times that it becomes a worry to the man. if the woman refuses sex with the reason of being tired, I am sure that the man Will believe her after trying several y without any fruitful result after all she has been giving him other days. but if a woman refuses sex to the extent that the man becomes uncomfortable starts complaining about It, I think in this case the reason for refusal is not just tiredness she is a lier and maybe she has requested something from you and u didn't provide it for her and some women Will not easily tell you that it is because of what u didn't provide for her, she believes that you should know it yourself and can never tell u at that moment and this will eventually bring problem because the man Will not be happy with his wife especially when he noticed that the wife started starving him of sex after he couldn't provide a particular thing for her. now if I am the man for me not to be able to provide anything requested by my wife, I must have a reason and I most tell her about the reason at that very point she requested it. The reason most being that I am not financially ready to provide it for her at that time because of my financial plans and targets or because I have seen or felt the future consequences the thing will result to if I provide it for her. to me I think these are the two major reasons why will not provide anything for my wife. Now if she starts using it against me on bed, it's either it Will result that I will stop demanding sex from her and starts cheating on her or that I will equally stop most of the privilege she enjoys from me in the family and also stop the special things I usually do for her like shopping, outings for fun etc. And you know what? if all these things continue, without anyone succumbing it will eventually lead to our break up simple so that she can go a marry that man she can easily control with her bottom power.

baralatie:

u get her back with patience not with money!.money is not everything in a woman's' world!

lefulefu:

In naija money is what turns a woman's world
If u no agree with me make u ask Empress njamah

englishmart:
you should only be worried if she doesn't enjoy the sex as well. But if she enjoys it too, just pretend all is well and let her be. She will wake you one midnight and beg for it...