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10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 9:44am On Feb 09, 2015
We all know it’s common to “ kiss a lot of
frogs” before finding the right
partner. The good news? It’s all worth it,
because once you do find your
match everything else begins to fall into
place. You
may not immediately know that your
significant other is going to be your
spouse someday, but here are some signs
that you two are bound for life.

You have similar long-term goals
This doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in
the same line of work. That can be good
too, but wanting the same things long-
term — whether it’s having kids, a house,
or lots of vacations — will help you
through any obstacles you may face.

You like each other’s families
It’s true that you don’t just marry your
soulmate, but his/her family as well.
Many people complain about the in-laws
and this doesn’t indicate your union is
doomed, but life is so much easier when
everyone gets along for the most part.

You miss him/her when you’re apart
Wanting to be with the person you love
all of the time doesn’t make you needy
or annoying. It shows you cherish that
person deeply and understand every
experience — whether big or small — is
better with him/her around.
Alone time is healthy, but so is wanting
to giggle and chat with your favorite
person in the world after a rough day at
work.
You’re always thinking about how your
decisions affect each other

Considering a new job? You’re also
thinking about how it would fit with your
GF/BF schedule and needs, especially if
you live together and share finances. This
works both ways, so if he’s pondering over
a drastic career change and wants to
move to the other side of the world or
country, he should also want to take you
with him.

You don’t want or hold any secrets
The closer you are to someone, the more
important things you’ll reveal about
yourself — from your salary to
your family history. The more they know,
the more they understand you. The less-
than-appealing stuff is important, too.
The right person wants all of you, not
just his/her idealized version of you,
because that’s not real.
Other people comment on how great you
are together

If parents, friends, siblings and relatives
can see how happy you make each other,
you know it’s going to last. On that note,
how cute are ىeun and linda ikeji ? grin
You don’t need to know them
to understand what an awesome pair
they make. These two should get married someday.

You’ve survived tough times ተogether
As much as I admire couples who
claim they never fight over anything, I
think there’s something to be said about
having productive arguments. Life
partnership isn’t a bed of roses,
so it’s important to know you can get
through disagreements before you tie the
knot. There will be many rough days
when you’re exhausted, chasing
screaming children around the house
and having unpleasant conversations
about money and other issues, but if you can
get through the fighting and awkward
discussions without too many tears, you
can handle marriage.
You don’t have to look nice for each
other all the time

Though you still like to dress up and
surprise the other person with a pretty
outfit, you two can be messy and
lazy around each other and do not even
think twice about it.
You’re a good team
it’s crucial to choose a
partner with whom you can go to battle.
As earlier stated, life presents us with
plenty of battles, and the person you
marry should be willing and able to fight
them alongside you. That person should
also be like a good reliable teammate.
This may sound unromantic, but having
someone who is there for you day in and
day out, for better or worse, is as sweet
as it gets.

You already know what you’d say during
your wedding vows

When it comes to the other person, you
can always articulate what makes him/
her so amazing and why you’ll be there
for them forever. Whether you’re
“engaged to be engaged” or just having
fun dating, you know you’re going to
love this person until the very end.
You want everyone to recognize how
lucky you are to have this person in your
life.
this post is by no way perfect, criticisms are welcomed.
you can add yours smiley
in MR IBU'S VOICE let the bashing begin cheesy

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by zyzxx(m): 9:48am On Feb 09, 2015
This Is superb

So she is the 1 since all these while.

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by jashar(f): 9:48am On Feb 09, 2015
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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by iceberylin(m): 9:52am On Feb 09, 2015
The only sign i need is a big Ass grin

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by ShirelleBaby: 9:52am On Feb 09, 2015
Donaldgenessad-


Iceberylin---ass no dey eva tirecheesy

jashar:
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Jashar--this ur spacebooking sha
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 9:54am On Feb 09, 2015
iceberylin:
The only sign i need is a big Ass grin
grin
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by iceberylin(m): 9:55am On Feb 09, 2015
ShirelleBaby:
Donaldgenessad-


Iceberylin---ass no dey eva tire ucheesy

Jashar--this ur spacebooking sha

Just joking wink
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 9:56am On Feb 09, 2015
zyzxx:
This Is superb

So she is the 1 since all these while.
ifa hear sey she get all those qualities grin
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by falconey(m): 9:56am On Feb 09, 2015
OP you are so on track......she hasn't done number7
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by Kennywills7(m): 9:57am On Feb 09, 2015
Nice write up
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 9:57am On Feb 09, 2015
jashar:
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a space here is €500,000
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by zyzxx(m): 9:58am On Feb 09, 2015
vjsmiles:

ifa hear sey she get all those qualities grin
grin grin i'm in my dream land
Not talking of real life yet grin tongue
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 9:59am On Feb 09, 2015
ShirelleBaby:
Donaldgenessad-


Iceberylin---ass no dey eva tirecheesy



Jashar--this ur spacebooking sha
hi smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by susrite(m): 10:00am On Feb 09, 2015

@op i ain't actually against all your laid point but IMO the fact that this works for hundreds doesn't mean they are the same thing i feel... Life isn't a routine scene

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by Maamin(m): 10:02am On Feb 09, 2015
This list have not been verified to be true yet...

Reasons coz all these qualities can also be found in ordinary friends. undecided

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by ShirelleBaby: 10:02am On Feb 09, 2015
vjsmiles:

hi smiley

Hello

Have u found ur missing ribs?smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by Infomizer(m): 10:03am On Feb 09, 2015
Op, you are karid!

I don kiss frogs sha!!!!

Life rocks!!!!

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Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by jamex93(m): 10:03am On Feb 09, 2015
some ladies go still fall your hands......that is y u see some wives that receive packaged condom as weeding gift, its always from their X we know
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by jashar(f): 10:07am On Feb 09, 2015
Jashar--this ur spacebooking sha[/quote]

My 1st time ever. grin

Feels good. kiss
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:08am On Feb 09, 2015
zyzxx:
grin grin i'm in my dream land
Not talking of real life yet grin tongue
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:09am On Feb 09, 2015
Infomizer:
Op, you are karid!

I don kiss frogs sha!!!!

Life rocks!!!!
that is just a rtherorical term smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by alberto2k(m): 10:09am On Feb 09, 2015
Am at mallam musa's place having a cup of hot shayi... cool

i'll be back to modify when am done smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:10am On Feb 09, 2015
jamex93:
some ladies go still fall your hands......that is y u see some wives that receive packaged condom as weeding gift, its always from their X we know
grin
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:11am On Feb 09, 2015
ShirelleBaby:


Hello

Have u found ur missing ribs?smiley
yes!!! you grin
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:12am On Feb 09, 2015
alberto2k:
Am at mallam musa's place having a cup of hot shayi... cool

i'll be back to modify when am done smiley
another new method of space booking grin
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by ShirelleBaby: 10:12am On Feb 09, 2015
vjsmiles:

yes!!! you grin


My ribs have been complete since birthcheesy
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by zyzxx(m): 10:13am On Feb 09, 2015
vjsmiles:

dis laugh ganself grin grin

Can't a lady possess all?
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:13am On Feb 09, 2015
Maamin:
This list have not been verified to be true yet...

Reasons coz all these qualities can also be found in ordinary friends. undecided
at least 3 or four of those qualities will be missing smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:14am On Feb 09, 2015
susrite:

@op i ain't actually against all your laid point but IMO the fact that this works for hundreds doesn't mean they are the same thing i feel... Life isn't a routine scene
just my observations and insights smiley
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by Aybee92(m): 10:15am On Feb 09, 2015
jashar:
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space Booker association of Nigeria; D
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:16am On Feb 09, 2015
zyzxx:
dis laugh ganself grin grin

Can't a lady possess all?
[i] for this naija
possibility 5/10
Re: 10 Signs You're With The Person You should Marry by vjsmiles: 10:16am On Feb 09, 2015
Aybee92:
space Booker association of Nigeria; D
plc grin

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