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Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by Stillfire: 2:13pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
obowunmi: Lol! @topic Na man be this? He can't even make up his mind. Woman go come take this one put as head? Rotflmao. No wonder Africa is in such dysfunction when the supposed head can't think straight. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by bennyrazz: 2:22pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
smh @ op the good story teller |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by bellong: 3:00pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Flytefalls: As the resident Chief Priest, I will answer you according to the traditions of our land that "westernisation" has spoilt. 1. YES, traditional wedding ceremony involve God as represented by the gods (according to the belief of our fore fathers). In Yoruba setting, before a guy marries a girl, the family of the guy will seek divination from Ifa to ascertain compatibility and also investigate if the girl's family is credible, doesn't have family medical history like "warapa" (epilepsy) etc.... I will say Marriage of the old wasn't done haphazardly and focused more on substance than frivolities. 2. YES.. Traditional wedding in the days of our fore fathers, the gods and great grand fathers strictly dictate "VIRGINITY". You must be a virgin to be married. Many people have written account of it. The "Virgin" girl was usually celebrated while the "Disvirgined" girl was usually booed and ridiculed and sometimes in extreme cases banished to evil forest. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by HerexG(m): 3:03pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: Making a mistake is permissive but making the same mistake overtime is where the problem lies The west has even greater marital messes than Africa so don't speak of my Africa that way |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by raumdeuter: 3:17pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Op So let's say between January and June. He married traditionally, he went to church for counseling, he started dating another woman, he impregnated her and married her in church. If he believed in traditional marriage that much why didn't he take the second woman for traditional. Or if he didn't believe in church marriage why take the other woman to church for marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by Nobody: 3:23pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
bellong:Thank you!! Excuse me, I am still learning |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by HerexG(m): 3:55pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Read the story properly and discern |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by bellong: 4:39pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Flytefalls: You are welcome... What else you wanna know....? |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by cococandy(f): 5:18pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Where did you even get this hare-brained story from?? |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by Ewuro4: 5:47pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
So where's the baby abi he die-vorced them both? |
Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by HerexG(m): 6:26pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
cococandy: For your info it is a true life story not a fiction |
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