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| Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:03pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
I got to a new town where I did not know anyone and my church had no branch in that town, so I had to look for a new church. After service the 1st timers were called to a room where our names and addresses were collected. After about 3 days 2 sisters from the church came visiting. The next sunday as I got to church one of the sisters saw me came to exchange pleasantries with me. As we were talking this very fine man came to greet her she introduced him as her cousin. His face was so familiar but I couldn't place it, after he left us I said to her I have seen that face before she said you couldn't have he is a doctor and does not socialise at all. But we met at his clinic a week before I was waiting to see any of the doctors but the queue was so long, when he came out from his office saw me told me to follow him. But after his cousin introduced us we didn't talk again until I became pregnant and had a baby. This is a man that would not attend any social function not even when his brother in law got married in that church he didn't attend. But he came for my baby's naming ceremony. Even after that we said nothing to each other. My baby died three weeks to his first birthday. After the death of my baby I now discovered a lump in my right brea*St I went to his clinic. He could not hide his feelings towards me. I was so surprised that he actually even remembered up to the dates when I had the baby and when the baby died. About 2 years later my dad also died he was one of the 1st people to call and came to my house to give me an envelope containing money. After my father's burial we started sending text messages to each other but we were not even talking on the phone because he was married so was I. We tried to flee from each other but the magnet pulling us together was so strong. Because we did not want our lust to lead us to sin we always quarrelling over everything and would not talk for up to a year or even more some how I had to leave that town but still found it so difficult to erase him from my mind it's up to 15 years now I still think of him. Last week he called wanting to know where I am now. I never want our path to cross again but can't stop thinking of him. Can this but lust after all these years his memories refuses to go away. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Cutehector(m): 10:10pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Can see dat the charm is reaaly takin a toll on ur mind. Ur just lovestruck. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:So it's not lust but love? |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Cutehector(m): 10:15pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah:I guess so. He showed up wen u needed a frnd most. Who does dat anymor? Look for him sister. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by adanduka: 10:19pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Are both of you not married folks? Face your marriage dear.  |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by ronald4lif(m): 10:21pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
This is not an easy situation, getting to be thinking of someone for over a decade can't be lust in my opinion. You both seem to love and have a strong attraction to each other. I don't think lust can last this long. However, the present circumstance is not favourable to you both. You both are married and the situation doesn't seem fair to the both of you as well. Methink you guys would have made a great couple if you had married but all that is late now. And there's nothing I know of that can make you forget him. The emotional connection will be too hard to disconnect. My advise, for you is to channel more time, energy and love to making your hubby becoming who you see in your estranged lover. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:25pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:I love him to death but will not commit adultery. Instead if there is reincarnation I will beg God to make us man and wife. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:28pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Thanks your words are so lovely. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by wemmieslim(f): 10:33pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Nawa o,story that touch  I don't know what to call it ma,may God help your situation o. 1 Like |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Cutehector(m): 10:38pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah:wait I ddnt read d part whr u wrote u wr married. Biko abeg abeg na better lust  . Flee . Run for ur life. Infact if u think abt him, shout holyghost fire. Lol |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by ronald4lif(m): 10:42pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah: You are welcome dear. Just accept that fate never wanted you two together and get more committed to your marriage. I ll also advise you to discontinue every means of communication you have with your ex lover. Keeping up communication with him will only make you get more attached to him. All the best |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:47pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:I don't want to call him my ex lover because we did not get to that level. Yes we were seriously attracted to each other but did nothing about it but just suffered in silence. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by ronald4lif(m): 10:48pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah: Okay, I got it now |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by uzumakis: 10:49pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Even if we do say its Love, yet its one dirty Love. Assuming such an unhealthy relationship is happening b/w your husband and a certain married lady, what will you make of it ma'm? |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 10:59pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
uzumakis:my husband still makes contact with his first love and has strings of girl friends, that is my husband's headache I will not because of that cheat on him. I didn't act upon my feelings not because of what anyone would say it's just my principles call me old fashioned. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Young03(m): 11:04pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Just came to read and go but my question 4u ma, is wat do u intend doin based on the little advise u av received? |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 11:08pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Young03:Nothing just wanted to share with people who do not know me but will give their honest opinion. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by uzumakis: 11:11pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah: Now its clear to see were your suppose assumption problem is coming from.. It pains me for Africa women it really pains me to see how some men could treat their wife so, and yet expect some majestic treatment from one to their daughter later on... Well sister though am not judging beside who am I to judge, still I will tell you its not Love as such thought are unhealthy to start with. let's just put it this way ' you remembering your college days doesn't make it the best moment of your life'. some moment or memory can't go away doesn't mean it takes much importance to the present. It was never Love and it never will beside you hardly know this to how much you know your husband. if you have so much love in you which I know you do pour it on your family dear. 2 Likes |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Lakayanah: 11:20pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
uzumakis:Thanks for the advice. |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by uzumakis: 11:28pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah:you sure welcome, what are friends for*** |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Young03(m): 11:32pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lakayanah:this my own advise.... If u knw dat ur little finger will cause u a problm, den u beta remove it. IN CAPITAL LETTERS I WRITE....IT IS PURE LUST.. Pple sayin is love, how can true luv exist btw difrn married couple...adultry is evil ,,,cut it off |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
I think I know the feeling, you never dated him so he is kind of a mystery to you, it always seems like the grass is greener on the other side, your mind and emotions are playing games on you. Just know that even if u had ended up with him things wont be so rosy as u think. Don't let the devil play with your mind and make you lose out on what's in front of you which is your family. We can control our thoughts and emotions it's a choice, put it in prayer and re direct your mind to something better when his thoughts come up. Think about all the good things u like about your husband and leave the thought of this mystery guy alone. 1 Like |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by CHEUARIN: 12:51am On Feb 18, 2015 |
My dear, Please do proper assessment of the issues around you and your home, especially the negatives namely two deaths and a growing health concern. This should be your priority as something is not right somewhere! What is your spiritual life like? @ Love or Lust: Hmm! Many have been down this road with wrong motives and ended up in pains! Some have painfully exited before their time because things were not done right! You should be able to draw the line here as a NEW CREATURE, the light of the world and the salt of the earth. 15 years is no joke! Is he the same person or has grown worse or perhaps changed for good or has some unfinished sinister business to close-out with you? Genuine friends are out there but there are too many unfriendly friends around. Trust me, this is Naija. Please switch on your spiritual antennae, pray fervently and so much will be revealed and resolved, this 'love/lust' issue inclusive. Cheers and God be with you!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Can This Still Be Lust? by duduade: 5:44am On Feb 18, 2015 |
Cutehector:i tot she said she was married  Pls where is your husband...? |
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