Lala247:


When he leaves me i will
He looked for my trouble ....
Now he will get it


These guy get away with this all d time i see how they treat ladies on NL
Not this time

menix:


D painted..
As an illiterate wey I b, I drink orijin 4 ur head..
Major turnoff: claiming Lopez wen u b Uduak..

Mbamally:
Stupidity is when you charge your phone with generator and still come online to type GEJ till 2019

tosyne2much:
Not only money interest ladies. There are certain qualities you posses that can open the heart of a lady even if your pocket is empty, sounds awkward ryt ? it is about having style, utterance and taking care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them.

No time to waste. Let's go there

Why Responsible Ladies May Turn You Down

1. Irresponsible Username/Moniker
Do you know that you are sometimes judged by your username ? Sounds weird ryt ? When you use a username that portray that of an irresponsible one, you think a reasonable lady would reply you ? (E.g, smalldick, bigdick and many more irresponsible monikers)

2. You Are Fake
You don't need to form/change your ascent or speak like Honourable Patrick before you can attract a good lady. Having a strong vocabulary is important and better save it for rainy days, but do not aim at using it to impress a girl you like. This is because you can end up confusing the girl with your big grammar and vocabulary and consequently lose her. Use the words to communicate your mind lucidly. Equally, do not make a joke of their uses of English as no one is barely flawless when it comes to uses of Queen's language.

3. You Want to rule her with your money
Just like a Gresham law of money, bad ladies will drive out the good ones. The notion that every girl likes money has driven some guys into thinking that they can control any lady of their choice with money.
However, not every girl you see out there is interested in money or is money-grubbing. There are some ladies who are independent, self disciplined, have higher self esteem and whatnot. Those ladies are not interested in your money, which you want to use as a tool of manipulation. So stop thinking that you can employ money to control every girl. A good many ladies have their dignities; and if it happen you meet such ladies, they will turn you down in a wink.

4. You are an hypocrite
Not all ladies are gullible you know ? Some ladies are so sensible and can decipher lies from the truth. When she realizes that you have never been honest for once, she may refrain herself from accepting your proposal. We have so many dudes who try to be the ladies puppets just to portray an attractive image.

5. You are not presentable
Appearance matters most in life; the way one appears will define the way people will rever one. Your appearance, however, determines the calibre of people you would drive into your life. Display of a BIG BOY is not about sagging your trouser, or tattoo your body, piercing your ear and start bouncing around the streets. I'm sowi she would definitely, if she comes from a good Christian/Muslim home, turn you down and not to mention of taking you home cos her parent may disown her/ scold her angrily when she's caught hanging out with you, a vile guy

6. You want to intimidate her with your handsomeness
Many handsome guys always feel they are blessings to ladies. Just because you are tall, you've got a nice shape and six packs doesn't mean every lady would be running after you. Responsible ladies know that there's more to a man than height and 6 pack, and when you don't have qualities they crave for. I'm sowi your handsomeness may not get you a good girl

7. You Don't Speak calmly.
This shows politeness. If you talk
loudly, it will seem that you're desperate for
attention. Being loud in public isn't just obnoxious, it is also inconsiderate to the people around you. Listen to what people have to say and always make eye

8. You Talk Thrash
Your utterance causes disaffection in the lives of people. You talk about sexual immorality and other trashy topics. Rather, you may talk about intellectual topics (books, art, politics/current events) or fashion and travel. Increase your vocabulary, and stay away from slang terms.

9. The Calibre Of Friends You Keep
Many ladies judge us by the calibre of people we move it. Surround yourself with positive, polite people who encourage and live intelligent and responsible lifestyle. Walk with reasonable people and watch how people will value you. Never stoop to their level, and do not be hasty to make judgments of other people.

10 You Drink & Smoke
Statistics evidently show that responsible ladies can't stand smokers and those who are obsessed with alcohol

Written by: Tosyne2much

http://tosyne2much..com/2015/02/reasons-why-responsible-ladies-may-turn.html

absolute trash. I disagree with all the above. Expect a counter thread from me soon but i know the politics of nairaland will not allow it on the front page. BTW, what do you gain in praising all these irresponsible women The last time i checked, women are trash and should be treated as dust bins

Blackett:
Rubbish.

The whole write up is rued by so many inconsistencies. Starting with monikers, which is obviously restricted to the online world, and translating and relating it with points from the offline world. That is pure discombobulation. Monikers count as nothing in the real world. Strange monikers on nairaland increase curiosity and make people want to know the crazy person behind it. Ask Sexkillz.

And what's that crap about ladies and money? Abeg, I don't have time to start dissecting this piece of junk. One day, I'll have time to set these 10 point crap stuff, straight.

pbs4real:
add d rest,nt complete

menix:


D painted..
As an illiterate wey I b, I drink orijin 4 ur head..
Major turnoff: claiming Lopez wen u b Uduak..

tosyne2much:
I'm fine dear n u ?

gladpresh:
**walks in**

This HOES ain't loyal

**walks out**

UjSizzle:
Today must be a good day OP has spoken well. I find the money aspect very distasteful. So we know you have it, awesome! Can you not slap it in our faces every millisecond like it's the only thing you've got to offer?

Another thing is confidence. Seriously I can't think of anybody (male or female) who wants to be saddled with a bundle of insecurities. It's fine not to have money sometimes or at all, what's not okay is hinging the state of your happiness on the absence of said cash. I know broke guys who dated the moat beautiful women simply because they were pretty much comfortable (not without drive) in whatever financial position they were at a time.
If a woman likes you, she just does. The presence of money in your life will not turn disinterest for you to love. It'll only turn it (for those who are like that) to love for your money.
Men need to start doing themselves a favour.


Meanwhile, Searching4love biko come let me heal your broken trolling heart. It pains me to see you gallivanting round the forum spewing your rejection around The women are not your enemy, and your attitude is pretty much jinxing your quest to finding love.

Midehi:

if u av all d qualities you mentioned & if true love is there,i wont turn u down.

XBLadez:

Aww! Now this is romantic! I feel like crying

Midehi:

cry na, i will apreciate it

UjSizzle:
Today must be a good day OP has spoken well. I find the money aspect very distasteful. So we know you have it, awesome! Can you not slap it in our faces every millisecond like it's the only thing you've got to offer?

Another thing is confidence. Seriously I can't think of anybody (male or female) who wants to be saddled with a bundle of insecurities. It's fine not to have money sometimes or at all, what's not okay is hinging the state of your happiness on the absence of said cash. I know broke guys who dated the moat beautiful women simply because they were pretty much comfortable (not without drive) in whatever financial position they were at a time.
If a woman likes you, she just does. The presence of money in your life will not turn disinterest for you to love. It'll only turn it (for those who are like that) to love for your money.
Men need to start doing themselves a favour.


Meanwhile, Searching4love biko come let me heal your broken trolling heart. It pains me to see you gallivanting round the forum spewing your rejection around The women are not your enemy, and your attitude is pretty much jinxing your quest to finding love.

searching4love:




Why are u having sleepless nights because of me I don't know u and i don't wanna know who u are. Why are u obsessed with me I'm i the only guy on nairaland? Why not look for others to drool over?

If stating my opinion means trolling to u, then fine. I don't give a bleep about what you people say on here. Stop mentioning me on this forum. I have tolerated your stalking for so long.

I won't trade words with u cos hypocrites like u are mostly favored by the Mods. I will not let you lure me into a ban on here. Keep wallowing in your ignorance and make sure you self-service when next you read my post. Mtcheeew

Horrlah:

M ok.how cme u disappeared

I have just been a silent user

Geenickel:
ds dude has repented......

repented as how ?