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Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by SUNNAPO(m): 11:56am On Feb 27, 2015 |
It should b use 4 attributes dat are nt morally right 2 change e.g skin colour, height and nt bad attitude. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Misogynist2014(m): 11:57am On Feb 27, 2015 |
This boring and almost expendable stuff that naturally shouldn't have reached 100 views, made it to fp. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 11:57am On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith:I kind of think that the ladies are asking us to accept them, even when they are not at their best....in the same way we expect them to accept us when we are not at our best. It is difficult....but when we are really in love, I guess looks don't matter too much. Remember....we are human beings,not immortal perfect beings. We smell, we belch, we do bad things, we are self centered, we refuse to change, and so on. But it is our ability to love others, in spite of all their imperfections, that defines us as humans.(Especially kids!) After all Jesus said....Love one another....and he did not specify conditions! . As a single man....I hope to marry a tall, beautiful, always kind, smiling, light complected lady, who will be saying the right things to me at all times, and who will make our boudoir activities divine. But....it does not always work that way. I hope I am not going to be a shallow looks man....or if I am....later on, when that sexy figure has gone....I hope I can still live as if that really was not important.... Then again..... 1 Like |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by darlingnuel(m): 11:57am On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith:She is sexy somborri... she carry front and back...i isnt that an achievement ? |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Emusmith has done it again. I believe there are certain VALUES and ETHICS that shouldn't be compromised in the name of love/relationship. If it gets to that - I would gladly tell you to "take me as I am". Hence, any attempt to still change me - would be seen as an advertent attempt to denigrate my ego or what I stand for. In the case of this lady, I see nothing to take me as I am there. Why? In whatever scope we decide to examine her case from, I think it's very apposite that a human being smiles. For your good and everyone around you. However, I feel love (true love) is flexible. Never operate your relationship like/with a rigid constitution. If there is need to change - please change. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: ...I love the way this lady put words together- touching different parts simultaneously with discretion. Nice point @ the bolded. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by queridasally(f): 12:09pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Lol, if she's citing this phrase for something as I'd say trivial as smiling, I can only imagine she'll stick to the same phrase for more serious defects like character-wise or something else.lol again at "take me as I am" 1 Like |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by theresa12: 12:13pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
for a single lady there is no need keeping a serious face. always wear a smile, it makes u beautiful and also attractive. as for the "take me as I am " part she wants a guy to accept her for who she is.be it good or bad. despite the fact that there must b acceptance first for any relationship, there's also room for improvement. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
theresa12: Room for improvement, Yes. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
queridasally: Same goes with most ladies. It cuts across character wise sef |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Truckpusher(m): 12:26pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith:These ladies always say that after giving you a tough time making you to run after them genuinely while they keep creating this illusions of being larger than life and now she's about to bow to your endless pressure and with all her flaws while playing Cleopatra she's got no choice than to warn you ahead that she's not the queen without blemishes that you took her to be .Hence , the negative remarks. I simply assure them that all is well with them and they are still the same person that I have always wanted, until those panties drops on the floor. Always assure them and you're good to go. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by NemzySeries(m): 12:27pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
pinkhill:Yea yea yea but mind u derz rum 4 improvement. Nobody is saying she shd change or wateva but improvement is like using an android 4.2 & upgrading to a 5.0 |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by NemzySeries(m): 12:29pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Babe u gatz upgrade ooo....no time 4 mary & martha.......aw much dos a simply smile cost sef? |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Appliedmaths(m): 12:33pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Dude when a woman tells u to take her as she is boy be ready for some dark past. she probably can't hide that part of her. she probably has done some great stunts she feels when u find out u''ll take off. so in summary, expect d best worse things in all ramifications. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by queridasally(f): 12:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I'm new to Naira land, and I'm really trying to grapple with all the technicalities seeing there is no beginners guide or Nairaland for dummies kind of thing ,but so far its been heartwarming seeing its a breeding ground for intellectuals...but it amazes me that there are people who still bring their negativity on here...reading through this post and comments I'm appalled that there are people replying negatively at the writer, but equally I'm thrilled at the positive responses too. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Many women are delusional. ..... with that take me as I am statement many women have remained stagnant..... Always about what a guy can give and sacrifice he must make..... Some ladies even pride themselves in standing by a guy when he was nothing simply because she was available to cook nd have se.x..... smh..... Ladies of my generation need to upgrade mentally..... |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by pinkhill(f): 12:36pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
with love sure she will but you need to accept it first NemzySeries: |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Haha @ the bolded, lolzz That's what we see o... |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
queridasally: Welcome to Nairaland! ..... Im sure ud easily get a hang of it soon... if u see a comment u wanna reply u simply quote....... The place is fun and annoying sometimes especially when its a topic on politics or tribe related |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
pinkhill: How about her becoming a better person, its called growth....at least she should work on it not accept the status quo..... A frowning face is a learned habit and all habits are changeable. ..... Every man likes a lovely happy woman, why settle for the one when I see a giiggly :Dhappy lady..uno.. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
buygala: You this buygala guy nobody dey drag this FTC with you anymore , this one sef you miss am narrowly. There is god ooo , let your brothers also share in this FTC. There is always room for improvement even if you're the best at what you do or are but I don't think it's the reason she's not married , the reason she's not married is because she's not condescending. Getting your dream partner isn't realistic in this day and time. Most people have to sacrifice one thing or the other to maintain a relationship these days |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Can ladies take a violent, woman-beating man as he is, if they know that's his nature? I think everybody need to work on themselves to improve their flaws. It doesnt mean u re not being who you are. Being who you are is not changing your values and morals for anybody. But behavioural flaws can be improved on. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by owolawitola(f): 1:16pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Nobody is ugly iceberylin: |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by MrCork: 1:18pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith: |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by MrCork: 1:20pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith: ...ok...u date house girls and then u complain they take u as I am?... U don't like women? Classy? |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by justmag(m): 1:24pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
pinkhill: perfect! You couldn't have said it better. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by AreaFada2: 1:28pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Eugenedimgba:. Abi o, Baba Onikeke at Ajegunle could have married a girl as pretty like Agbani. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Jasperwhizz(m): 1:33pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
emusmith:There is always room for improvement. Inspire her for her to improve. |
Re: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
So what would you say to a woman who is considered aggressive. My ex's have said I'm to aggressive because when he F-u:cks up or hurts me I'm guns blazing sharp tongue. I will tell him to kick rocks cause I'm not one to be F@fked with. Lol yes I swear when I'm hurt some women fright some flee and I fight. I've been told that's not womanly and it's off putting. I say TAKE ME AS I AM AND DON'T TAKE THE P¡SS. That's why I'm single lol help! ! Why should I change emusmith: |
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