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Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 11:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
missjenna:now listen vry attentively.a woman can neva be compared to a man no matter her financial status.men re natural superior to women nd even d golden book tells us so.i dont see how i will feel insecure for someone who is created by jst one of my rib.those men,if they actually exist are nt yet matured irrespective of their matured age.i think dt why most men dont approach independent ladies is d fact dt most of dem re nt submissive.and dt is true cox i have date one in d past though not all.so my dear we dont want headache or someone dat pose as a challenge to to us since most of dem tend to look down on us.i want to come back to my home after work and have a good rest.also i want to be in a position to tell my wife to quit her job during our child bearing so as to impact on them a good home training before she continue with her job.so i tink dt all dz re too difficult for an independent lady becox of their nature though nt all.thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by postmann: 11:53pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: You definitely must live long for your wisdom is rare and uncorrupted by time. Most 21st century male have lost the true sense of being a man. That they're born to lead. I see a bunch of weak men falling for laziness and been deceived that it is okay for your woman to be richer. Its not except she inherit her fortunes. Statistics is clear: marriages where the woman earns more have a 70% divorce rate compare to about 30% when the man earns more according to research in the US. I heard so many compromised minds say "especially the nigerian man". Rubbish! So wen my wife goes through 9 months of pregnancy, and still breastfeed and nurse the baby, coupled with her monthliness and wobbling emotions, she would still put more money on the table? Then what is the man alive for? Doing exactly what with his bigger brain? I see a bunch of new breed 21st century lazy men who are finding too comfortable eating from women. To them its okay for a woman to pick the bill on a first date, live in her house and drive her car. I've never seen any man with these traits end up well Being a MAN means being the LEADER, PROVIDER and PROTECTOR. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by lastpage: 12:04am On Feb 28, 2015 |
*I guess a lot of women have mistakenly attributed being "loyal and supportive" of their husband, to being weak! *While on the other hand, the feminazi have wrongly termed a "rude, arrogant and uncouth woman" as "independent". *Finally, no man not even any "second party" be it man or woman, wants to associate with a foul-mouthed Biatch who does not know her place in the society. It is this DISTASTE for such women that some have misunderstood as INSECURITY! Will it not interest you that very prominent and rich wives, (as in long term married women) are the most respectful and even submissive to their husbands? Dora Akinyilu of blessed memory is one of those women, just to mention one. Are we to say that their husband are feeling insecure or are they the ones feeling insecure? [size=14pt]Bottom line is that a man marries a woman, .....because he needs A WIFE. If all he needed was a COMPETITOR, he needs not marry at all, he has more than enough in the office environment[/size] A woman must define whether she wants to be a WIFE ..or a COMPETITOR ...... and its a free world, just chose what you want and dont whine. Just my opinion sha. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 12:06am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Pamcrest:i tink dt only lazy men crave for independent ladies. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by postmann: 12:13am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Oh! And please, very few odd women feels happy and fulfilled with a husband who earns less than she does. A vast majority of woman prefere a man who earns more than they do. Women are programed to yearn for love, protection, pampered and ofcourse taken care of by her man. Sorry for the man who doesnt know this and work hard to be the MAN in his house. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 12:13am On Feb 28, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by lastpage: 12:14am On Feb 28, 2015 |
postmann: You my Brother MUST ACCEPT that the world is changing........... for the worse! It starts from early life when the "Single Mother" raising such men, poison their minds about the role of their father, and men in general, in the ladder of life. Since they dont know any better, they grow up becoming such plebbs. Can you imagine a young man "moving-in" into his girl friends house, to live together? In my days, you cant even have a girl friend if you dont have your own "room", no matter how small with its spring bed in it! That is how much we pride ourselves in being a male. We worked hard and made the money because we know that we have a responsibility to provide not juts for our children, but our wife and even her own family members! The wuse that we have around now, who call themselves "modern man" just because they have a pair of balls between their legs ... (even the use of that in the bedroom department is suspect, unlike in my days when your woman will scream to the roof top, from sheer ecstasy simply because you "touched base" so often!) ..have surrendered all that is associated with manhood and think its okay just to be effeminate and get slapped around by women! Well, l guess everything changes and goes round.....maybe the time will come agagin when "real men' are once again, facing the sun on this planet. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 12:16am On Feb 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:jst be honest can u quit ur job if he says so inorder to raise the children to an extent. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 3:39am On Feb 28, 2015 |
booket:Your wife can be a CEO and still inculcate good values into your children. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by ireneidiva(f): 4:29am On Feb 28, 2015 |
booket:What is wrong with working and raising children? What if she quits her job and the man loses his job as well? The family will suffer because of his ego right? Smh. I dunno what it is about a successful woman that threatens you men. A real man will push his wife to be the best she can be and support her all the way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 4:37am On Feb 28, 2015 |
ireneidiva: The writing style alone tells you many of the responders are kids still receiving pocket money.They have a lot of maturing to do 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by jrors(m): 4:48am On Feb 28, 2015 |
I don't think most men are insecure about, independent women. However, you do have a small percentage of men, that have low self esteem. So when a guy like that, gets with a woman, that has her affairs in order, he might feel that, that particular woman is too good for him to be with. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Pamcrest(f): 7:06am On Feb 28, 2015 |
blublahd: By their words u shall know them. Your reasoning is beyond shallow, it's nauseating. U are asking me how familiar I am with such women...so I must be a man to know, kwo? If u must know, I am a trained experienced n successful psychologist n counsellor. Don't ask stupid questions on social media....u can't be sure who u are talking to. And next time, mind your language! My humble submission |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Pamcrest(f): 7:18am On Feb 28, 2015 |
booket: To some extent, yes. Though I have seen some men who actually love independent women, just because she can hold her own in d relationship, and is not overtly dependent on him. Different strokes for different folks. My humble submission |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 7:18am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Pamcrest:i asked you a question and then u decided to flaunt your qualification with no constructive and intelligible reply. Your hubris has clouded you. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by sinaj(f): 8:41am On Feb 28, 2015 |
booket:while some men prefer working class lady...it all depends on understanding |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Purehuman(m): 11:20am On Feb 28, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 28, 2015 |
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