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First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 5:47pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
First impression last long and golden opportunity comes first. The secret to getting a 2nd date depends on how well the 1st date goes. To get d 2nd date, here are few tips; 1. DONT BE TOO SERIOUS: it's important you keep conversation fun, pleasant and interesting. Ask about hobbies and passions, avoid politics, religion and keep a sense of humour. 2. BE HONEST: Don't tell lies to appear fascinating and doesn't mean you need to them everything about you but maintain a decorum. As time goes on you can reveal your mystery step by step. 3. ASK QUESTIONS: It's important you keep the conversation pleasant and interesting by asking positive questions like 'What things make you happiest? What do you love about your job? What meals do u enjoy most? Etc. 4 LISTEN: Paying attention to what he/she says keep a positive and symbiotic conversation running. When getting to know your date, don't be prepping the next thing to say while she is talking. Keep the listening to talking ratio even or more. 5. DISPLAY POSITIVE BODY LANGUAGE: Eye contact, smile, holding hands occasionally are powerful body language that display positive interest and increase the change of getting a 2nd date. If you really like him, you can lean towards your date when discussing. When dropping her @ home, a kiss on her fore head, cheeks is okay to increase her feeling for you. 6. OFFER TO PAY: Do bring cash. There is nothing wrong with offering to share the bill or pick up popcorn while your date buys movie tickets. Even if you don't end up paying, the offer makes the date lighter and you both feel equally in charge. 7. DRESS TO IMPRESS: The way you dress appears to be the way you will the address. Dress nice, radiant and smart. Perhaps wearing your favourite outfit with your favourite shoes makes you feel bold and confident. If you feel fabulous, you radiate. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:09pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby: LOL I knew some naija babes will not agree to this point. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:14pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Funi u.. money seems to b everything rite?.. ShirelleBaby: |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:17pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
chingydaboss: dear,did u plan to come without cash? Common--u asked me out,I didn't. Wait let me ask u out and the bill will be on me |
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:18pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Yass.. Carry popcorn money along.. This is for girls who feel splitting money on a date is an abomination |
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:20pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby: You must be a joker If i ask you out. its 50:50 o I will only pay with my church mind |
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:23pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Will definitely pay d bill.. I for one njoy paying d bills especially wen I seem to b d one who asked u out.. Bak to d article, it said both parties shud offer to pay.. den it's left for either of dem to tak sole responsibility of d bill ShirelleBaby: |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby: Lol so if your date lost his wallet, will u foot d bill? |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
dechandel: Thank you but girls can do better by paying the fee that is higher, what do u think? |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
incase |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
chingydaboss: The thing is in Nigeria, girls want guys to pay all the bills. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:30pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
dechandel: My babe for life |
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby:The only girl i would have married,if only gay marriage was allowed in the eyes of God |
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Yea I suppose.. wristwatch: |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
so true. nice one op |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
dechandel: |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch: N200 wristwatch how far na |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
diddydiva: Thanks |
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch:Popcorn money could also pay up for the expensive plate of rice.. I just meant girls should take credit cards along.. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:38pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch: baby boy is going wash plates mehn. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:38pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
headlamp: Dis clown eh! |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby: Haha. U wicked oh! |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:40pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
dechandel: Lmao |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch:ya welcome |
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:42pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
ShirelleBaby:actually i am nice |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:13pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
11, SHOW HER THE MONEY 12, SHOW HER MORE MONEY. That's the 11th and 12th commandment of dating a Naija babe. Pun intended! |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
dechandel: Okay. Nice |
Re: First Date, First Chance by mirexxx(f): 8:19pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
nice! its good 2 always go with cash or a credit card! |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Don't make d mistake bro. |
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch:It works like magic. Most ladies fall like a pack of cards when they meet or go on a date with a handsome. debonair with flashy accessories accompanied with a nice ride and apartment. They usually end up in bed with him on the first date without even knowing. I know a lot of ladies around here would deny that. |
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