Blackett:
Bro, you have your life to live mahn. If she's a pest with all those talks, cut her off. Life is too short to have time for selfish, nagging, attention seeking girls who believe your life, your world, and every damn fvcking thing about you should stand still and revolve around them, cos they are dating you.

Heck, no be the same butt and boobs she carry? Or is her own carved in gold that you can't do without her?

Blackett:
Bro, you have your life to live mahn. If she's a pest with all those talks, cut her off. Life is too short to have time for selfish, nagging, attention seeking girls who believe your life, your world, and every damn fvcking thing about you should stand still and revolve around them, cos they are dating you.

Heck, no be the same butt and boobs she carry? Or is her own carved in gold that you can't do without her?

ShirelleBaby:


HIAN!!!

What did I do again?

Mynd44:
Girls say the same thing about me. They say I am not caring

Tallesty1:
Mine is romantic.





What shall we do?

Mynd44:

Attend relationship counselling courses. Be sure to bring Dmcdad along ooo

eleko1:
u started dating 2 mnts ago abi? Within dat 2 mnts she dey sick every week,rite ? Must u call her everytime without doing something else abi nah d call/talk go put food for table? That girl nah ogbanje(winch )

stan241:
In my opinion @op she's expecting you to do things her ex used to do its simple...by the 2nd month she should have known the kinda person you are especially the call thingy so unless you sit her down and explain stuff to her she will keep expecting you to do these things which I think her ex was good at...you also need to get spontaneous if she expects you to not talk for more than 30mins surprise her and call and talk to her for like an hour yes or pay her a surprise visit once in a while... good luck

falconey:
is nothing serious is just headache,stomach pain etc

stan241:
In my opinion @op she's expecting you to do things her ex used to do its simple...by the 2nd month she should have known the kinda person you are especially the call thingy so unless you sit her down and explain stuff to her she will keep expecting you to do these things which I think her ex was good at...you also need to get spontaneous if she expects you to not talk for more than 30mins surprise her and call and talk to her for like an hour yes or pay her a surprise visit once in a while... good luck

ronald4lif:
You should set your own standards, hers seems untenable.

Calling once a day is not bad, especially at nights. And if it's at night and at one time call per day rate 30-40mins is not equally bad. Other times, you can just ring early in the morning or during breaks at work for 5minutes, that won't hurt either.

No one can call people every minute of the day. This you have to tell her that it's not possible, and it's up to you to make her understand why its not possible, that should be easy to convince.

When watching football mehn, mesef no dey want any disturbance when Man United dey play game ohh, my phones self na silent e go dey lol. What you should do on this is tell her you don't joke with football and it doesn't affect your love for her. And just maybe if you both are chatting on bbm or whichever media platform you can just drop a message like 'hey love, I am about watching a football now, you know our club is the baddest and pray we win kisses or love you', I believe this won't hurt either.

Every woman loves getting attention from their man, some go overboard about theirs, some are moderate but they all want attention, assurance, and want to feel wanted every time. You may not like this and may even contemplate of quiting for this reason but your next girlfriend may be no different. As a guy one it's really up to you to bring her to your standard and what you can do and what not but notwithstanding the fact that you must give her the needed attention

falconey:
thankz a lot I have explained countless times she won't listen.

falconey:
is nothing serious is just headache,stomach pain etc

falconey:
you maybe right.....she told me her ex sang for her when she was ill. Bros me no fit sing this my voice gan I dey manage am

cybug:
As an introvert myself, I'm facing this challenge. And it get even worse if you're in a distance relationship...

I'm very sure I'll have a separate room from my wife.

Mynd44:

Attend relationship counselling courses. Be sure to bring Dmcdad along ooo