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| Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 9:45am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Nagging is one of the most irritating cliches of relationship. If you have a nagging girlfriend you need to get it under control before she drives you out the door. Be honest, sometimes her nagging is justified but now that it has become a barrier in your relationship you need to do something. Follow these steps to get your girlfriend to stop nagging you. 1. Listen when she talks. For many relationships, nagging occurs because your girlfriend feels you ignore her. Start by listening when she talks. Be aware that if she is nagging in the middle of the ball game, you cannot stop her. Instead when the game is over it is time to sit down together and talk out your issues. Once she sees you are willing to do so, she should stop interrupting future games. 2. Ask what she wants. Your girlfriend might be nagging about the dishes in the sink when she is really upset about something else. She might want you to take her out to dinner and the dishes are just how that complaint is manifesting itself. Ask her and then listen to her answer. 3. Share the chores. If your girlfriend is nagging about housework, she probably has a point. Does she do all the cooking, cleaning and laundry? What do you offer to the relationship? Your girlfriend wants to be your partner, not your maid. She works too so complaining that you worked all day is not sufficient and devalues the fact that she did the same. Get up and do your part. 4. Stop over-promising. You might think that agreeing when she nags is the best thing to get her off your back. The problem is that when you agree and then don’t do what you agreed to, you have just upset her more. Instead, listen to what she is asking you to do then either say no or find a compromise. If you agree, if you promise to do something, then do it. Then she will stop nagging you about it. 5. Keep her updated. Your girl might just be suffering from the space between you. If you don’t talk to her or tell you what’s going on, she has to ask which you might take as nagging. If you promised to clean the garage, then tell her when you will do it. If something happens to change that, tell her and arrange for another time. Keep your girlfriend updated and she will see that you value the promises you make to her. 6. Provide constructive responses. Avoid telling her to stop nagging. Most women hate nagging you as much as you hate them doing it. Instead when you are talking together, setting goals and making promises, provide her with some constructive criticism. Say to her, “When you ask me to do something, I will do it but in my own time and when you repeat yourself I feel that you don’t trust me to do what I agreed to do.” Make the statement about you and your feelings not about what she is doing wrong. 7.Spend time with her. If the nagging in your relationship is motivated by your girlfriend feeling ignored then the only way to fix it is to spend time with her. Take her out or watch TV together in the evening. Find what she enjoys and try to do it together. Time may be all you need. Stop your girlfriend nagging with these simple steps. If you put in the time, you will reap the rewards of a more peaceful and loving relationship. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by papercoin(m): 9:50am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Like seriously well dealing with a nagging girlfreind is like trying to solve the exhaust problem of the 1960s volkswagen beetle 2 Likes |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:50am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I have only one way: End the fvcking relationship. . . I have no time for all that bullshit over a girl who isn't my wife and who can decide to walk out of the relationship anytime. Life is too damn short for gbo gbo iranu yen mehn. 3 Likes |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by falconey(m): 9:50am On Mar 05, 2015 |
No3 share the chores is crap!......guys don't have time for that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 9:51am On Mar 05, 2015 |
papercoin: Lol..... |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 9:52am On Mar 05, 2015 |
falconey: Is not crap sir, cos you helping out just to quell off future nagging A stitch in time saves 9 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:53am On Mar 05, 2015 |
falconey:nigga say what now?! What then will you have time for? |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:54am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Nice one op  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:54am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 9:56am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Blackett: That's why we should know who we're dealing with.... Yhu know Sometimes, we accomodate our love ones cos of the love we have for them... Not necessarily though... For those yhu ain't got time for BS like you said, will jejely opt out of the relationship... When the word "I'm In Love With Her" suffices, then you come up with all these strategies to cope her nagging excesses |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 9:59am On Mar 05, 2015 |
@Nneka123 and Rubey Yhu ghurls are looking for e-War Hope yhu ghurls I've ya vest on  1 Like |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JayKayMaybachz:Nope. I have enough drama in my life to want to add another drama in form of a nagging woman. Life is too short to try to wash away the stripes from a zebra. . . Catch my drift? 2 Likes |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by falconey(m): 10:02am On Mar 05, 2015 |
rubey:wetin happen? He tear your punny with Iron rod? Lazy bitch!!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:02am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Blackett: Definitely... That's why i said, for those that won't to stoop for their emotional blackmail will definitely opt out Yhu and I know too well that baes are all groom ro frustrate our very existence 1 Like |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:03am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JayKayMaybachz:so ready  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:03am On Mar 05, 2015 |
falconey:  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by veekid(m): 10:03am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I can't withstand a nagging gf ,the moment I detect nagging in ur life; I'm done 1 Like |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by jnrbayano(m): 10:04am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Nagging wife you mean? |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:04am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
falconey: I hate it when fools quote me!  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:07am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by papercoin(m): 10:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JayKayMaybachz: Walk out of the relationship or ignore her, As for me I'll go with the former.BTW she's just a girlfriend |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Lmao! ruby |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JayKayMaybachz: E-war with ladies? Do smart!  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by falconey(m): 10:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
rubey:and you quote a fool? slowpoke! Take your middle finger and shove it up your punny!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:10am On Mar 05, 2015 |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by sinizia: 10:10am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Nice points, OP. As a guy, I agree with all your points, but I can only do it for a girl I deeply love, care about and don't want to let go. |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:11am On Mar 05, 2015 |
papercoin:Like Blackett stated.. Most ghuys will walk out, but some won't cos of the word "I'm In Love With My Bae" |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JayKayMaybachz: I guess that is the only language you guys here understand! "Harsh language"  |
| Re: Seven [7] Ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend by JayKayMaybachz(m): 10:12am On Mar 05, 2015 |
sinizia: You're right boss... I've told blackett and falconey dis already |
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