Adaobi12:
if am convinced with there reasons, I will quit the relationship. There advice can save me from a lot of harm.

ronald4lif:
Their reasons will have to be heavily substantive and devoid of religious, tribal, or past scores to settle or I won't hear any of it. I am to live with my partner, not them.

falconey:
what if they had rejected like 3 or 4 before? With different or same reasons?

falconey:
what if they had rejected like 3 or 4 before? With different or same reasons?

debolly:
An adage says that what an elder sees while sitting down even if a young boy carries ladder/ microscope he can't see it.
There's no smoke without fire.....there must be a reason behind it.

ronald4lif:


Sure they should, and I want them to. Will do everything humanly possible to make them accept my to be wifey and also engage them reasonably why their reason(s) is not strong enough. I will explore every means possible to mend fence with them and her. But if they put a heavy resistance, the wedding can and will still go ahead without their presence, albeit in a very sad state of mind.

However, if they have a very strong reason then I will have a re-consideration. But it should have nothing to do with things like; they are not Catholic or not Igbo, their family are very wicked, the dad/mom loves witchcraft, their family are osus, her other sisters who are married left their husbands homes to be hoeing about or they haven't put to bed, one pastor said this or that about her etc. There are too many reasons people take advantage of to ruin marriages which are useless to me and I won't buy them even if they are come from my very own parents.

My boss has spoken

tosyne2much:
My boss has spoken

ronald4lif:


Sure they should, and I want them to. Will do everything humanly possible to make them accept my to be wifey and also engage them reasonably why their reason(s) is not strong enough. I will explore every means possible to mend fence with them and her. But if they put a heavy resistance, the wedding can and will still go ahead without their presence, albeit in a very sad state of mind.

However, if they have a very strong reason then I will have a re-consideration. But it should have nothing to do with things like; they are not Catholic or not Igbo, their family are very wicked, the dad/mom loves witchcraft, their family are osus, her other sisters who are married left their husbands homes to be hoeing about or they haven't put to bed, one pastor said this or that about her etc. There are too many reasons people take advantage of to ruin marriages which are useless to me and I won't buy them even if they come from my very own parents.

falconey:
what if they had rejected like 3 or 4 before? With different or same reasons?

redcliff:


Lol. Chairman, you are speaking many english because you are not at that bridge so you feel its really easy to cross. When you get there, it would be harder than you thought..

ronald4lif:


Okay na.

ronald4lif:
Their reasons will have to be heavily substantive and devoid of religious, tribal, or past scores to settle or I won't hear any of it. I am to live with my partner, not them.

malonephill:
in a situation where my intended father inlaw was a colleague of my p man, and back then my father inlaw engage in a fraud at office, unfortunately my paale caught 'em during the act, but promise not to let anyone known to it except people that were involved, so because he refused to take share from their package, so the set of people that did a fraud including my father inlaw, now plan coup wish made my dad lose his job then, later send him back farm, also made me went through a hard time

Which my father inlaw confirm the story

I'm not saying this is real just assuming if it happened this way

So you think there is one love somewhere that can make me marry her, na lie

ronald4lif:


Chai abro this one tough ohh. Were this to be the case I will stand by my parents. Their reason is very valid and credible, and for me to overlook them will be too much disrespectful. Although this girl didn't play any role in whatever transpired between both parents, neither did I, we'll have to re-consider our stand on the marriage. The only push I will make for my marriage to work is to ensure they (both) parents reconcile. I will meet my woman dad and plead him passionately to please make a reconciliation move with my dad, forgets his ego please and do what is needed to save both me and his daughter. If he declines, I am afraid I and the girl will have to move on with our separate lives.

Harbosede02:
Nollywood tinz

Harbosede02:
Nollywood tinz

debolly:
An adage says that what an elder sees while sitting down even if a young boy carries ladder/ microscope he can't see it.
There's no smoke without fire.....there must be a reason behind it.

malonephill:
bollywood

It been long I saw this moniker