Blackett:
explain this then.

Vickybee:

That's because women are badass and wiser.

You know it's our world.

K9blunt:
coming from a guy! adonbuluvut!!!

passionate88:
There's no love in this generation. I pray to remain single or I rather marry a girl from another country. If what those girls above wrote is the mindset of 60% of Nigerian girl, then I fear to think what will happen when they finally marry. I pray they marry someone that reason like they do too.

Vickybee:

Same way we Nigerian girls don't give a fùck about Nigerian guys.

Foreign guys rock. I'll rather marry Ghananian, SouthAfrican etc guys to Nigeria.

Vickybee:

That's a guy who's sincere not like y'all with overbloated ego.

Blackett:
Better.

Make una do comot so there'll be space for the foreign girls we wanna bring in.

Vickybee:

Good. Don't forget they are bossy(e.g non-African ones)

...and African men has an ego.

We want ghanian and south african girls too.

Abeg, don't even leave a pin behind.

Blackett:
It's about you. How would you feel if the one you loved let you die?

PunkyOh:


I'd hate him.

Dude, we all have experiences that mold us & changes how we view certain things, people or whatever. My experiences have taught me not to trust anyone that isn't me. End of. I have deep loyalty but ain't nobody is going to get it until they have proven their loyalty to me in a similar situation. Until then, no bueno. Sorry. We'd need some kind of role reversal or whatever,me 1st of course, so I can get my reassurance on where their loyalty lies. Can't be going around giving freebies to undeserving, disloyal leeches who wouldn't do the same for me. I just can't.

K9blunt:

bro its people (men) with such mindsets that put the mindsets into the ladies so don't blame us. monkey see, monkey do.

passionate88:
I just don't know what to say again.

PunkyOh:


It's not hate, it's reality as I see it. People are ungrateful leeches. And since forever is not guaranteed, he ain't having an organ of mine. Full stop. I can nurse him when he is sick but it ends there. Imagine finding out that he has been keeping a mistress on the side, after giving that nigga life...I'd go completely mad!

ejiro2130:


No u won't go mad, and no he won't cheat on u after having a piece of u right inside his body. There are some things a lady can could or would do for a guy that will make him say dammmme my flirting habits stops here

PunkyOh:


I'm saying if he had her all along, up until the point where he receives a kidney from me. Of course I'd go ballistic! Absolutely! I'd probably give him a 2nd surgery, with a home scissor this time

PunkyOh:


That is your own definition of what love is, don't make it mine. Love like many other things, is subjective. What's romantic to you, may be a foolish act to me. What you people need to do is get your heads out of your asses & face the facts that not everyone out there believes in the things you believe or views life in the same way that you do. It's really not that hard to do. Try it.

ejiro2130:


You with a scissor?? Now that's scary. I don't want to come on nairaland and see a thread wic says punkyoh sliced out her man's kidney for cheating on her

Anyway, am trying to say no matter how strong his relationship with the mistress was, is after he received a piece of u he did end it immediately. Any gal can say I love u but very few can go dat far

PunkyOh:
Ok whatever but if we breakup, then I think I'd want it back. Sorry. He's not about to get phly around town with MY kidney. He better sleep with one eye open

I doubt I'd ever make such a sacrifice for anyone except my child. People are too underhanded & sly to be fully trusted. So fùck him & his ailments.

Ishilove:

I sure can

[size=14pt] Ishilove had being sharing lies to her Nairaland members since 1962. [/size]

PunkyOh:


Sorry but I'd still hate him because I'd feel duped. Have I known, I wouldn't have made such a foolish sacrifice to begin with. I'd let him die Chilling but true. People are so selfish & self-serving, it's unbelievable. So until I meet that one person that has my back 100%, I'm sorry but I'll just continue to put myself 1st. You scratch my back & I'll scratch yours. Simples.

Sparkle777:


Bea,u harsh oo. But u re very correct, when a man that u ve been good to messes u up. You kinda just hold ur shi ts,let him hold his.
I can do it but let his family do first. For my kid, I ll go all the way.

ejiro2130:


Lol, the scratching back part got me cracking but really, relationship comes with sacrifice (sure u kw already) n ppl live fine on one kidney so life isn't in danger plus God will bless u ABUNDANTLY for saving a life.

I still think he wouldn't look, think or dream of another lady after Wat u did.

jashar:
This thread don turn battle of the sexes.

Eating fried egg and watching...

But in actual sense, love can make you do things you swore you would never do.

PunkyOh:


Dude, do you know the story of Betty Broderick? This woman worked several jobs to send her husband to law school. After he started working as a lawyer, he dumped & replaced her with someone else. He was at this point a millionaire & he refused to even share half of his millions with her. Ridiculed her etc until she got fed up & pumped bullets on his body & killed him.

My point is, if someone doesn't learn from stories like this, then who will? If someone doesn't understand that there are selfish, ungrateful àssholes out there, then whose fault is it? I refuse to be naive & live like people like that don't exist. Show me yours & I'll show you mine, not the other way around. Sorry.

K9blunt:
its a Wacker up world , we just have to find a balance.

PunkyOh:


No can't do. Karma is too slow for my liking. God can heal him himself.