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Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by ttmacoy: 11:28am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Wow, are people really justifying his dad slapping his mother I read some people saying stuff like well you didn't know what she did etc.... I can't even believe that anyone can say a woman should be slapped by her husband for any reason whatsoever. OP In a sane country you are old enough o be on your own and would probably be living on your own from University so my advice is if you can move out do so and focus on your future. Do not destroy anything in revenge as that can lead to other issues. Move on with dignity and maturity and he will regret his actions. One last advice whenever you get married please please please there is NO situation that warrants you beating your wife. No situation ever. Marriage should be 2 people coming together with respect, trust and love but as usual with everything Nigeria it is different. Saw a thread the other day where a woman complained her husband had his brother as next of kin and people were supporting it. In my opinion why stay married then if you cannot trust your wife? 3 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by udoojah(m): 11:30am On Mar 20, 2015 |
udz:Exactly what I wanted to say! he has no respect for you yet! silence treatment is the best! And when you pack out, be very very focus on your success because your siblings will be looking at you directly! be very prayerful too because as soon as you take this step, enough MOUTH will OPEN to laugh you when you don't meet up! |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by pinkyruledworld(m): 11:30am On Mar 20, 2015 |
in alapomeji's voice****Whats good for the goose is good for the gandal |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by adisa204(m): 11:32am On Mar 20, 2015 |
SuperSuave:everyone seems to be blaming the op irrespective of whatever thing that happened how on earth will d man slap his wife of close to 60years .This re d things dat cause trauma in children,I guess in my case I have total disdain for my popsy and even regretting y I didn't confront popsy wen he use to beat mumsi wen I was still little.....Yes!I took sides with my mother don't ask me y 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by loomer: 11:34am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Lumpyy: I rest my case, I sure will make a very bad lawyer |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by oshaosha2014(m): 11:37am On Mar 20, 2015 |
adahgold: Guy, your head dey there. Some fathers can be very stupid. If you don't take it drastic with them they will not learn any lesson. Who dey talk about swear, when your papa need correct beating make him heaf correct. If e no do anything wrong and u beat am na then him swear go work. But for that kind situation, even if u no fit beat am, show your displeasure strongly! Why e go dey beat my mama is he mad. I dont care if they already know how they settle their wahala, what if he slaps her and she's dies in the process? I dont just want to see any nonsense from my dad towards my mum. I can't take it! 3 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Omofairy: Wow, so sorry dear, God will reward you for all you are doing for ur mum, it is well 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by SIRTee15: 11:38am On Mar 20, 2015 |
First and foremost let me congratulate u for standing up for ur mom I can assure u she appreciated what u did on her behalf. As for ur dad, yes he slapped u, but its now dawned on him that his abusive authoritarian behaviours will not go unchallenged. He will be careful next time. Stand up for ur mum anytime he tries any rubbish. He will soon tire while u will be stronger. Try as much as possible to be independent. God will bless ur hustle. Then u will even have a bigger say. The truth is most of this men are just bullies, who don't know when to stop. When they are cautioned, they behave. No woman, ur mother's age deserve such maltreatment. They've gone through a lot. They should be allowed to live the rest of their years in peace. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by sonssyo: 11:49am On Mar 20, 2015 |
freshdude99: good for u |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by lolababe331e: 11:53am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Some of you obviously have no love or respect for your Mothers and it's obvious some of the people commenting can also beat their wives. The day my Dad tried to hit my Mum, my older sister and brother who were just about 12 and 10 then brought out a mortar to threaten him in his life he never tried it again because that showed him he will have to kill all of us to touch her. What none sense OP get out of that house jare, the man is power drunk That is the problem with Nigeria, everyone bullies whoever he has small power over , hissss 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Miscellaneous(m): 11:54am On Mar 20, 2015 |
matoyeh: u are very stupiD…… he is 100% right for confronting the cow. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by friendl: 12:15pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Guy mind your own business,na when you marry,you go understand why your dad slap your mum |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Brugo(m): 12:18pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest, just calm down. Don't let it get to you. I know it is very painful for him to treat you like that especially because you were trying to settle things. Console her. But I guess it's time for you to move out. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by komek(m): 12:22pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: When a man is been fed, housed and cloth by his parents, their reasoning is always funny. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 12:24pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
jasedu60: It seems you were drunk when you typed this trash! 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
GUY! U are fuckin up big time! Bliv me! I left the comfort of my home to start stayin n strugglin on my own @21 wen I graduated frm uni. I hustled legally and personally financed my masters programme with no help from my parents, Now @27, i am takin care of them. No father on earth will dare slap a son like me! NEVER! You need to wake up my guy! WAKE UP! I hate to see guys gettin close to 30 and still dnt knw wat to do wit their life! Your father will nt miss u if u leave his house, u wanna knw why? U'r supposed to hav left dat place 4 or 5years ago. U've become a very bad tenant to him. Go out there and face the world! Ur father has done his bit, go and do urs! Take dis comment of mine as a challenge today! Dnt be scared of ur environment! Go out! Go out! Stand up and fight! Listen to ''On Your Own'' by D'prince! to get inspired! Leave ur papa and mama alone. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 12:39pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
OP. Beat him, burn down his house, burn his cars, sell all his land and make him a pauper. That should serve as a good lesson never to beat your mum again and u should feel good about that right? CRAP. GROW UP YOUNG MAN. Think like a real man would and handle this like a real man would. And to give you a clue, what would have JESUS CHRIST have done if he were in your shoes? Ponder that. And remember, the overall goal should be long term peace and harmony. Any action that negates that goal is a no-no. Personal analysis: you do not confront friends, colleagues, your boss in the heat of anger when there is an issue and get a favourable response. Why would you assume that your dad would be any different? You confronted him with anger on your mind. 4get what u typed above, ur body language and whole demeanor spoke volumes and I guess that warranted the slap from him. Next time, if u can prevent any physical confrontation b4 it happens, without putting urself unnecessarily on the line, do that. If it has happened, wait for him to kool down then talk( not confront) with respect. Allow him to talk and then express your displeasure in unmistakable terms(with respect). And also that you hope that he for your sake he tries to resolve things like this without violence then console your mum the best u can. Lastly, never listen to advice from women when it comes to issues like this. I can read some crappy advice from some women and even some dudes r not fit to be called men asking u to beat ur dad,burn his papers and so on and so forth. Remember that talk is cheap. A lot of people here are immature and come from dysfunctional homes. On a funny note: if u r contemplating touching any of ur dad's properties ,albeit without consequences, then u must think very little of your father. U no fit try that kind thing with my popsy. u will spend the rest of your life in prison until u replace everything. plus except u can beat up a navy platoon, u berra keep you hands to ur side. ENOF said. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 12:48pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
idu1: So it actually pained you ? Hahahaha next time learn to quote someone within your intelligence range. Fuckingretard. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nicepoker(m): 12:49pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:forget it son. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nicepoker(m): 12:53pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:blood of God. This guy is from a broken home |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nicepoker(m): 12:54pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
udz:poor advice |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nicepoker(m): 12:57pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:if u move. What of ur mum. Ur dad may kill her o. Stay put and tidy up things as guy. Don't flee from responsibilities. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by OpeDwarroir: 12:57pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Buy a bottle of hot drink and beg your father. You don't threaten your dad. And besides, you received that slap because you questioned his authority while still under his roof. You must apologize to your dad first for telling him that he just lost a son, then u also ask your mum to reconcile with your dad. They have seen worse situation; why did you interfer? You wanted to show your father that you are a man. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by FEAO1985(m): 12:58pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
can't play the gentleman card all the time, if i was you i would have threatened to beat him up if he does not apologize. Firstly no man strikes a woman and on top of that where does he get the audacity to slap a grown man. well thats just me |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by standout5: 1:00pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:U see? what moral lesson could u possibly teach your dad?, now u should understand how it feels to be hurt. seriously if u were to be your dad u will not only slaps but as well punch. u are the type that get angry too easily (I might be wrong though). Next time u should allow your dad to get calmed before asking him any sort of question. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nicepoker(m): 1:00pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Hotstew:no wonder u named urself hot stew |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by IZUKWU(m): 1:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:i understand how you felt as i have been in that situation many times. But maturity demands that you control yourself and not act in anger. You must realise that this is your father's family and his wife first before she became your mother. You are a member of this family but not the driver nor the conductor. You major role when the quarrel should be to seperate them to avoid bodily harm. Your major actions should be on your mother , talk to her and talk to your father but in private maybe days later after he has cooled down after you have learnt from your mum,what really happened. My father always accuse me of taking my mothers side. Your major concern is for peace to reign ,forget about teaching your dad a lesson ,you will only pour more fuel to the fire. You can move out but be fully prepared for it not in haste because of this . Also pray for them because if a major issue happens in ur absense ,you also will be called upon |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by standout5: 1:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Jenams:Nothing but the FACT. truth is a bitter pill that's hard to swallow. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by eleko1: 1:10pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
chucky234:abeg nor wundjure persin with laff.Wic one com bi Ewu Fulani? . On a serious note,the young man deserved the slap.Wonder why he didn't turn his right cheek and received the balance slap just to fulfiled the scripture.He obviously rushed in to confront the old man(he's not saying the truth,his popsie can't just slapped him just like that)Make he go ahead and carry him load waka go,who cares |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Menace2Society(m): 1:18pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
OpeDwarroir:Crap!Only a coward does that! |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by unmask: 1:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:slap him 5 times before you leave the house....since you have dis-fathered him and he has dis-soned you |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by dinachi(m): 1:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Some reactions here confirms that a lot of guys here are either shemales or something is seriously wrong with their heads. 1, I lost respect for the poster when he said he told his father he has lost a son. For starters, parents have a lot of hold spiritual and physical over their children even when the kids are grown and you must REMEMBER that whatever you did to your father under whatever guise will always come back to you. Your own son will tell you exactly the same thing and confront you in anger.Mark my words! 2, Again the OP made the fatal error of thinking he was now mates with his father to confront him anyhow. Some extremely foolish boys of nowadays make such silly mistakes always taking sides with their mother against their fathers .They are children of perdition, who have absolutely no regard for their kind. The are quick to judge their fathers but very slow to extend the same ccourtsies to their mother. I love my mother to bits but will NEVER interrfer with her relationship with my lovely dad. 3, If I am slapped for whatever reason by my father, I will go away with shame not come here to think about how to plan revenge against a man that carried me in his organ for years before even meeting my mum. 4, A fathers curse can cripple OP for life and render his life totally useless. 5, I can bet that OP confronted his dad angrily and I am very sure that had it been the mum that slapped the dad, he would not have reacted the same way. 6, Finally If OP is wise he should get wine, go on his knees and beg his father to forgiveness and stop listening from advice from foolish women. |
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