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Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by SmooshCHN: 9:43am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest:Honestly, I commend your effort for confronting him. You're an adult and knows what's best for your Mum. From what you wrote, I guess presently you can't live on your own comfortably and still depend on Parents support. I advise you make use of the opportunity. spend time with your Mum and keep her company. Your dad is still your Dad, just give your due respect and nothing more he doesn't need your attention or help for now until he's accepted what he did was wrong. You can just be scarce at his presence but don't Park Out if you cannot find for yourself yet. Don't make the mistake out of anger. Be Patient, Hard Working and it'll reward you and you'll one day be a proud father. He made that grave mistake but he's still your father you can't disown him the Silent treatment you'll start giving him is enough reason for him to know he is wrong and not setting good examples for his kid. Start letting your siblings know the right thing about Domestic Violence. Enlighten them so they don't just see you as the Bad egg. God'll help you. Don't Park out if you cannot comfortably live on your own please. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:43am On Mar 20, 2015 |
babaireti: Small god?!.... and if you are a product of ashana runs doesn't make me one...... my dad cannot not even raise his voice at my mum.... once wey e try am, the eye wey I look am he compose himself... small god my yansh...... Respect is Recoprocal.... if you don't respect yourself small pikin go insult you... ....and FIY, my dad and I are very close,closer than you Baba can ever be with your son... SIR!! |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 9:44am On Mar 20, 2015 |
loomer: I'm sorry but I don't think he even needs to ask why he slapped her, that makes it seems if there are acceptable reasons. I support him confronting the dad , the dad may think twice about slapping her next time. He needs to give the father very cold silent treatment. Say nothing more to him than good morning sir, good night sir etc. when somebody does something very bad we have to let them know, dad or not. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:44am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Babs24: No one said anything about beating one's dad.... there are more painful ways to handle this issue |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by sparkleRed(f): 9:44am On Mar 20, 2015 |
eleko1:No mata wat, dis woman accordin 2 d OP is almost in ha 60s ooo ahah old woman like dat nt cool @ all 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by freecocoa(f): 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Wow! The comments on this thread though. OP, just breathe, don't make decisions when angry, good thing you restrained yourself from retaliating. Just calm down first before making any decisions. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
komek: Mr Big man..... rant your own na |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Drain the engine oil from all his cars and go away... Freest: |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by adahgold(m): 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
santinoj: so u r trying to tell me u can bear ur father beating or slaping mum and u will wait till he calm sorry to say u don't love ur mum. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by NemzySeries(m): 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
eleko1:Hear ursef?.....even if d woman used her husband's manhood as meat for d previous meal dey had b4 sleeping watz d idea of slapping a woman he has spent more dan 30yrs of his life wit?......tink well ma fwend(shez also almost 60yrs old) 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by jasedu60: 9:45am On Mar 20, 2015 |
When people marry prople they agreed and the consiquences of their decision os theirs, you are a 3rd party in your parent's marriage. Do you know how many times your Mum slaps your Dad? You walked in when she got served and you are prooving 21st century pikin, thunder fire the devil. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by vega84(m): 9:46am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Dnt act in anger thats one.two u are nt suppose to be staying wit ur parents still. Again wat did ur mum do fr the slap to land on her cheek. #vegatalks# |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Freest(m): 9:46am On Mar 20, 2015 |
SmooshCHN:Thanks dude. This piece is really appreciated. i work, i earn, but haven't been able to move put cos of some projects am currently doing plus am earning not so much too, hence my staying with them till things fall properly in place 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Cadamlk: 9:46am On Mar 20, 2015 |
You probably should have confronted him having established that he was angry.I guess you called ego to play here.Place yourself in his shoes,do you want to be confronted the same manner by your own son?.If no then try to maintain peace in the house |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:46am On Mar 20, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Thank you!!.... it's simple psychology...... as you cannot fight the person,result to emotional war.... e go learn quick 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by loomer: 9:46am On Mar 20, 2015 |
fem29: SURE, WE ARE ALL PROTECTIVE OF OUR MOTHERS, BUT WE NEED ALSO DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:47am On Mar 20, 2015 |
TheRainmaker1: I'm not evil....... I'm straught forward and logical!! |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by NemzySeries(m): 9:49am On Mar 20, 2015 |
udz:D angel dat wired ur brain during creation graduated wit a 1st class frm oxford uni.....u jst made ma point clear " man F*cked up" 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by freecocoa(f): 9:50am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Btw OP, you did the right thing by confronting your dad, I'd do the same if I were to be you. How can he slap her this early morning especially at that age, more so over food, your dad seems to have anger issues and someone needs to set him straight, just stay calm and work it out when your head is clearer. 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Ghadafy(m): 9:52am On Mar 20, 2015 |
udz: smh..lol. funny boy
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Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by lusciouslex: 9:53am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Infancy stage in human growth and development re-appears @ old age. O.P, it could be that your Mum had done nothing wrong. There could be more to your dad's fury than a financial one(debt). It could range from marrying a younger wife, hates aging, compulsory obsessive behavior, soul searching and self evaluation. I'll ADVISE you pray about this before approaching your dad in order to settle this peacefully without involving a 3rd party for people manage their homes and its problems. Again, whenever you are ready to move out please do so for some parents fail to release the fact that their children are grown ups, thereby respecting their opinions and decisions. Visiting them occasionally will earn you more respect for they will not only miss you but they will be back to how it started- just the two of them. Listen to some music or play games to help reduce the anger and tension built in you. Take care! |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Lumpyy(f): 9:54am On Mar 20, 2015 |
arak4love:Mschew,she oro niyen? Op i applaud you for not raising back your hand because i know how hard it wouldv felt.a 60 year old woman is being slapped by her hubby and her grown up son does nt have the right to say anything?shame to y'all that thinks so!you are grown up sir and u should tell him the things nobody else can.thank you for standing up for ur mother,please dont move yet,if he could slap her while you are around itl b worse if otherwise! 3 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by ronnyfam(f): 9:54am On Mar 20, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: Bible says , do not pay evil with evil.that is a wrong advice , no matter the situation,your father is still your father. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:55am On Mar 20, 2015 |
yungcyrus: ...and who would you be? |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by stigman(m): 9:56am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Freest: You are still a baby, is this the first time he is slapping you? You wan teach ur papa lesson mama pikin, I know you are one of those calling GEJ names, common slap you want to leave the house, you want nigeria to be united but you can't even unite ur family, the only thing in ur head now is to bring more problem, you don't even know if ur papa is ontop ur mama as u still dey vex so. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by udz: 9:56am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Ghadafy: I meant what i said, wasnt funny at all. who dey shine teeth with U? |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Abduletudaye(m): 9:57am On Mar 20, 2015 |
No matter how angry your Dad was, he shouldn't have even slapped your Mum. Must it end in something violent? What happened to talking to each other in closed doors about the issue? Anyway, OP calm down. Don't destroy any of his properties and don't move out except you'll be comfortable doing so. After hitting you in the face, he didn't mean what he said.. He was just angry... Just give him silence treatment, he will come around.. He won't beg you sha because he's Daddy.. Daddies don't beg atleast that's what am made to believe. |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 9:57am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Hey kiddo, moving out of the house wont solve the problem. When next he slap or blow your mom, who will comfort her? All your need is spirit of calmness, and season of prayers for your parents. It is well with you.! 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by stigman(m): 9:58am On Mar 20, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: Children plenty here 1 Like |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by elbinmanny(m): 9:58am On Mar 20, 2015 |
udz:you dont earn his respect by behaving like high school gals keeping malice, u get respect when u leave that house and start taking care of them and their bills.. u wab keep malice for person house and dey eat him food |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Confronting your dad immediately was a very big mistake on your own part. Slapping your mum was wrong but you should have calmed your mum and go to work then when you return talk to your father maturely about it. Op you Confronted your dad with anger, I can imagine how you spoke to him. Anyways sorry. 2 Likes |
Re: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 20, 2015 |
yagbaboy1: You're entitled to you opinion. |
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