Mandu94:
And Lol, I don't see this as a competition, unlike yourself. This is your only reason to disagree. Because you are not making much sense, you are simply trying to prove something personally.

all4naija:
That makes you an advocate of gender equality not feminist! Gender equality involves men in the process thereby creating an atmosphere of understanding. Take your time and read more about the ideology behind feminism. I am not going to support you in your every plan of unhealthy competition that has to do with the core ideas.

Mandu94:


I am a feminist therefore is concerned with equality for women. The actual term 'gender equality' weakens the emphasis on the problems for women. Gender equality comes under Feminism, but Feminism recognises that women have it bad. Gender equality doesn't suggest whether men or women are oppressed heavily based on gender, rather it neutralises it.

all4naija:
What an excuse! Can you site examples of your claim?

Mandu94:


You may have got confused I'm talking literally 'gender equality', to me, personally seems neutralising. I prefer feminism, because of its emphasis and implication of women struggles and liberation. Gender equality however is the idea. But for me its all about women. And I stand strong as steel with this.

Mandu94:
And never will I get a super car, I prefer modesty, thanks. I am happy with my brain not materialism. I'll use my money to try and set up a charity or school in Africa.

all4naija:
Can you even date and get married in the first place? I can now see the reason why you some get angered by saying you LIKE me. Not that it really matters but for somebody who wants to be seen as superior must exhibit those qualities of advance human being.

all4naija:

That is because you want me to see it your way. Your little way to exhibit superiority over men. In fact, gender equality is more robust in explanations and understanding than feminism for usually involving the opposite sex. It brings about an avenue to create a better environment that helps to find solutions to those problems both sexes complain about. You are running after something that is not going to help you else you are going to remain a sad lady by holding on to a discriminating ideology.

Mandu94:


Lol, are you ok. Because I don't even know what you are talking about.

all4naija:
Sorry for the poor writing. I mean you get infuriated whenever I asked if you like me because of your skewed understanding of equality.

GinaKing:


most of the time when a nigerian marries a white,its usualy one of those fat,ugly desparate white.its rare to find a white girl who knows her story to wana date a nijer

Mandu94:


Fortunately, almost all my male and female friends share my feminist beliefs. I don't take you seriously. I lost hope in you as long time ago, because of your rigid ignorance. Lol, if you notice, I debate with women here too. But men mainly because of the controversial gender related threads I comment on. I am opposite to discriminating, in fact you described yourself extremely accurately.
You make me laugh every time you try to talk about boyfriends etc. Your agenda is an epic fail.

Most of your friends are taking it from a 'gender equality' perspective and tend to see it as a harmless idea. I don't expect somebody who looks down on a male person to take me serious here. From the time I offered you a front seat in my super car to the time you hated to hear about finding interest in me provide a light into the kind of person you are and the direction you are headed. A very aberrant and noxious life.

I technically think you don't have a boyfriend! Bwahaha...

Mandu94:


Its not the grammar, its the content. I have no idea where your nonsense comes from.

Vickybee:

Yet, they marry an old rich white woman to get a visa.

That's a superiority complex.

all4naija:

Most of your friends are taking it from a 'gender equality' perspective and tend to see it as a harmless idea. I don't expect somebody who looks down on a male person to take me serious here. From the time I offered you a front seat in my super car to the time you hated to hear about finding interest in me provide a light into the kind of person you are and the direction you are head. A very aberrant and noxious life.

I technically think you don't have a boyfriend! Bwahaha...

all4naija:
Back to the discussion. Yes, I am! It would be hard for any descent guy to date or marry you. Let's go there! Ride on, lady! Ha!!!

Mandu94:


You know exactly why I don't take you seriously. There are many intelligent men who I take very seriously, you are just on the other end of the spectrum. Hahhahahaa aberrant and noxious life. Sometimes I wonder what you smoke daily. You just know that I will never come a mile next to you.

Do you really wanna go? I have a Latina supermodel girlfriend who is better than you. Please... I am only trying to bring you to the good life I am used to. Now that you refuse to associate with a civilized person like me there is nothing I can do than to say it is your choice not mine.

You aren't dating any cool guy like me yet. I know that and I can vouch I am correct about that and I can bet all my savings for that too. You know I like to flaunt my affluence before you because you hate to see it. Go all4naijja!

Mandu94:


Thanks very much. Appreciate that. Cries heavily.
You are such a sad guy, infact let me like that comment of yours.

all4naija:

Do you really wanna go? I have a Latina supermodel girlfriend who is better than you. Please... I am only trying to bring you to the good life I am used to. Now that you refuse to associate with a civilized person like me there is nothing I can do than to say it is your choice not mine.

You aren't dating any cool guy like me yet. I know that and I can vouch I am correct about that and I can bet all my savings for that too. You know I like to flaunt my affluence before you because you hate to see it. Go all4naijja!

Mandu94:

HAHAHA
Did you think I was referring to serious as in like you, I was saying I don't take you seriously as a human, let alone anything else. You must be raving insane.

IM HAPPY for you. Enjoy your life, do you think I care or anyone else for that matter. Pathetic. Lmfao

Why don't you like and enjoy good life? Jeez!

all4naija:
@ Mandu94

Are you living in Peckham?Please, I wanna know.

Guk:
35 pages WoW!!! Every country has its pecularities & every National of that country has their Pride. My 1st visit to South Africa was in 2003 and the next visit thereafter was 10 years after & the development has been tremendous starting from OR Thambo. A lot of people on this thread cannot appreciate the difference in the transportation system between that 2003 and 2013. Its bn phenomenal.

I stayed at Protea Centurion in 2003 & i only visited again on 2nd April 2015......the difference to the area is highly commendable.

I was invited to Busy Corner last Sunday the Shisanyama was so delicious that i started enquiring about getting a Franchise

Pilanesberg and Suncity are favourite destinations of mine & driving through the Hartbeespoort dam on the way back from Suncity just blew my mind.

Food variety in SA is vast, diverse and enjoyable, except that my tatse buds didnt align with the Tripe, but give me Oxtail; Chuck; Hake; Calamari; Sea Bass; Lamb Chops; Baby Chicken anyday and i would love u forever

I have taken time to unwind at GRC; Montecasino & such like. I have also taken time to visit Soweto (Vilakazi etc but Hector Pieterson museum gave me the creeps...i was not myself for the rest of the day, so u understand why i have not visited the Apartheid Museum)

Driven through Thembisa and Thokoza so i have a bit of a fair idea of Township and Squata camps. Townships are organised...infact Soweto reminds me of Ebute Metta in Lagos for its roads that criss cross one another. Places in Lagos that are akin to townships are Ebutte Metta; Ajegunle; Olodi Apapa; Ketu; Ojota; Oworonshoki; Bariga; Mushin and Squata camps are like Makoko; Ijora Badiya; the shacks close to 3rd mainland bridge.
Surburbs are like Ogudu; Ilupeju; Surulere; Yaba etc.

People live in any of these 3 categories based on circumstances whether in Nigeria; South Africa; Ghana or whereever else. Instead of bashing each other, how can you in your respective country make a difference?

Lastly, with respect to the topic, i will make reference specifically to SA women that i have interacted with both Professional & Non Professional.....I know a lot of Nigerian men are attracted to the physique of the SA women but remember that some like it big and some like it moderate so size does not confer advantage and same applies to the mens joystick or eggplant as well.

My observation 1: A few SA ladies i have interacted with are not reliable wt keeping appointments..........as i said, its my observation and not neccesarily the norm.

My observation 2: In comparison to our own Nigerian culture specific to where i come from (Yoruba tribe) SA Ladies drink a lot & i find it concerning, again, i refer to where i come from becos i understand women from a particular part of Nigeria drink like fish.

In summary, SA is a beautiful place and i look forward to visiting again as i see a lot of business oppurtunities here which we are already tapping into. If i come across any of you Ladies who have been commenting, pls treat me well and not hang me by my sentiments...lol

Mandu94:


Ebutte Metta

MaLAdyy:
not all Nigerian men

GinaKing:


most of the time when a nigerian marries a white,its usualy one of those fat,ugly desparate white.its rare to find a white girl who knows her story to wana date a nijer

NaijaHulk:


First of all, This is an insult to guys that genuinely love and adore fat/chubby /thick women. and go for it irrespective of color...


and secondly part of your statement is also false. There are white girls who know their worth and meet and date naija guys who also are worthy of them.
When we see love for passport story, we dey sabi dem, no need of prophet to decode that one bros...

SemuhleB:
I have been wondering about this because I see certain topics like South African girls are crazy about us or Kenya girls love nigerian guys, Ghana girls and Nigerian guys. The common denominator is that all these women love the men. I guess it's all these same women who asks the men out, wine and dines them and if marriage happens these are the same women who propose and marry the man . I just don't get it.

Also just because you find some South African girl dating a Nigerian does not translate to all South African girl for example because those that date out are in the minority.

I have heard a couple of Nigerian guys saying they love curvy women (ass, boobs etc) so does it now mean that all curvy women love Nigerian guys?

This is not meant to be a bashing thread but I would like to know where all this started. Foreign women too are welcomed for their opinions because at the end of the day, I can only speak for SA ladies