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| I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by Obaino84: 9:20pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Pls,fellow nairalanders,I really need ur candid advice on this..I am a 31yr old man who recently met a 25 year old lady..We r about a month into d relationship and not denying d fact dat we do hav sex..her body language tells dat she really wants 2 get married as she was recently disappointed by her ex-fiance 3months ago..I told her I wldnt mind getting married 2 her cos I lyk her,,but only recently,as part of opening up 2 me,she said she had dated 5 men in d past and even once got pregnant for one of dem,which she aborted via injections.. I am really confused and in a low mood right nw,cos I don't know If I shld go ahead n marry her or if I shld back off nw.. Pls,help me wit honest suggestions..put urselves in my shoes..Thanks |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by richol(m): 9:28pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
IF SHE TOLD U,SHE LOVES YOU......SHE CAN TELL U ANYTHING....THATS TRUST  |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by blaqgold(f): 9:36pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Only 5 guys n one abortion......u shud b hapi.....meanwhile if u rily luv ha,i dn't think I've ceen any reason 4rm ur story y u shud b thinkin of backin off. |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by Sugarpeaches(f): 9:54pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
blaqgold: Seconded!! |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by Paulpaulpaul(m): 10:16pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by Penssuwa(m): 10:30pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mehn that gal gath some balls & this shld earn her ur trust. Most ladies are not better... I hate the fact that she aborted a baby but if she sounds apologetic, then she deserves a chance. |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by ronald4lif(m): 10:37pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Do you know how many abortions the next girl you could end up with may have had? At 25, a girl who has dated just 5 guys doesn't seem sluttish in my opinion. Some may have had a dozen at that age. She trusted you, opened up, because she sees you as a confidant and someone she could always share her deepest secrets with. And you want to lay her off just like that? Doesn't makes sense. If she's got everything else right, the distinguish characteristics and elicit the personal appeal which are a requisite for you in a relationship, then please dismiss your worries and concerns as they are not relevant. |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by Houseofglam7(f): 10:42pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
@OP, you never give woman belle abort am before? That girl is wife material 100 yards...... She told you her deepest secret because she trusts you and now you getting cold feet? Oh pulizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz What exactly do you want from her? Her soul  ?? |
| Re: I Neesd Ur Candid Advice by xdos(m): 10:43pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
A lot of guys reject ladies wiv a past only to go for ladies without a future... wise saying |
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