naijaboiy:
i wonder how i'll get married to someone I know nothing of her sexuality.

Fhuuck morality and religious sentiments.

I'm gonna have sex with my fiancè.

I've attended a wedding in a catholic church where the priest wedded a couple whom the wife to be was heavily pregnant.

Things are changing. If you choose to remain oblivious and turn a blind eye to checking the necessary sexual compatibility between you and your partner then whatever happens in marriage,,take it like that.

iphanyiuma:
Hello every one
There is this belief that it is better to have sex with a woman you wanna marry just to know if she is fruitful.
This trend is very popular especially among the easterner's, if you think bout it properly it has some certain advantages cos nobody wants to take chances when it comes to the affairs of marriage and child birth..but there again is it the best thing to do. Just wanna hear from your own perspectives please no childish comments...thanks

iphanyiuma:
Hello every one
There is this belief that it is better to have sex with a woman you wanna marry just to know if she is fruitful.
This trend is very popular especially among the easterner's, if you think bout it properly it has some certain advantages cos nobody wants to take chances when it comes to the affairs of marriage and child birth..but there again is it the best thing to do. Just wanna hear from your own perspectives please no childish comments...thanks

Sugarpeaches:
I tink de OP isn't really talking abt sexual compatibility or premarital sex, its sometin deeper,- asking a woman to have a baby b4 marriage to ascertain if she's fruitful or not, right @ OP.
If u are seeking for opinions,here's mine: I tink its uncalled for, u wanna spend de rest of ya life with a woman? Go ahead n marry her. Asking her to give birth b4 marriage is reversing the logical way of doing tins.

naijaboiy:
i wonder how i'll get married to someone I know nothing of her sexuality.

Fhuuck morality and religious sentiments.

I'm gonna have sex with my fiancè.

I've attended a wedding in a catholic church where the priest wedded a couple whom the wife to be was heavily pregnant.

Things are changing. If you choose to remain oblivious and turn a blind eye to checking the necessary sexual compatibility between you and your partner then whatever happens in marriage,,take it like that.

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ronald4lif:
Yes, it is advisable. But not tasting to know if she's fruitful like you put it, but rather to know if you both are sexually compatible.



I beg religious propagandist to skip this comment

Oga Ronald, I trust you wella... Na your ministry be this

tosyne2much:
Oga Ronald, I trust you wella... Na your ministry be this

naijaboiy:
i wonder how i'll get married to someone I know nothing of her sexuality.

Fhuuck morality and religious sentiments.

I'm gonna have sex with my fiancè.

I've attended a wedding in a catholic church where the priest wedded a couple whom the wife to be was heavily pregnant.

Things are changing. If you choose to remain oblivious and turn a blind eye to checking the necessary sexual compatibility between you and your partner then whatever happens in marriage,,take it like that.

ShayGirl:



Nobody is saying u guys shouldn't taste. I really get where u are coming from...But the question is, what if u finally tasted and her sexuality standards happens not to suit ur taste....what happens next? Dumping right??

ronald4lif:


No, you don't dump her. You proceed with the marriage and then experience a sexually frustrated life forever or start having side chicks to satisfy you. That should be better, right?

ShayGirl:



No, probably u taste a whole number of ladies everywhere u go till u get one who actually satisfied ur taste...That certainly should be d best idea, isn't it??

ronald4lif:


Yes, it's better to keep tasting until you meet the one you're sexually compatible with than get committed with someone with no sexual chemistry and start philandering. Nothing wrong with having sex with every girlfriend one dates, is it?

ShayGirl:



Nobody is saying u guys shouldn't taste. I really get where u are coming from...But the question is, what if u finally tasted and her sexuality standards happens not to suit ur taste....what happens next? Dumping right??

Of course!

You expect me to manage? So what if I don't taste and I wait for marriage and I find out the same thing what would you want me to do?

Manage abi? For the rest of my life?

A broken relationship is better than a frustrated and failed marriage.

ronald4lif:


No, you don't dump her. You proceed with the marriage and then experience a sexually frustrated life forever or start having side chicks to satisfy you. That should be better, right?

I just tire Oga!

naijaboiy:

Of course!

You expect me to manage? So what if I don't taste and I wait for marriage and I find out the same thing what would you want me to do?

Manage abi? For the rest of my life?

A broken relationship is better than a frustrated and failed marriage.

ifex370:
No, Christian's shouldn't compromise standards

A sin remains a sin, no matter the circumstance

ShayGirl:





AWON WEREY 100 Indeed!!! Bt remember u weren't managing her when u asked her out & wen u eventually bleeped her..

Fine, bt which do u think would more frustrating in relationship/marriage : she suiting ur taste sexually only and lagging behind in terms of attitude, cooking skills, neatness and brains or she possessing these qualities and lagging behind sexually?

I'm not only looking for sexual compatibility sister, every other thing follows too.

But I just can't court a lady for years without having sex with her. This is not even about "tasting". It's just my own policy which I live with and I've met ladies who don't have any problem whatsoever with it.

xtervaganza:
a foreigners belief and religion over yours



Haaa......Africans are totally lost