Hi everyone,

Am not going to start by saying I know someone that need advice or crap like dat. Reason is Am the one in need of advice

Let me hit the nail on the head, I have issues with my feelings, I don't mean to brag but I am more of the guy that can get any lady to fall in love with me.

The problem is that I have never felt any strong feelings for anyone. I keep on hearing how people say they are in love.

It keeps me pondering why can't I fall in love.

Now my question
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Is it normal or is something wrong with my physiology.

FYI I just can't get emotionally attached to a person, not that I don't feel intimate with them.

I just date to prevent the society from nagging

Please be WARNED kindly refrain from insults and derailing the thread.

Thanks in advance

Don't worry , you've not met the right girl yet . Most of the people that screams love here and there have actually not felt it so you're not alone .

elantraceey:
Don't worry , you've not met the right girl yet . Most of the people that screams love here and there have actually not felt it so you're not alone .

Thanks a lot I really feel encouraged by your words

whisp3r:


Thanks a lot I really feel encouraged by your words

You're welcome

whisp3r:
Hi everyone,

Am not going to start by saying I know someone that need advice or crap like dat. Reason is Am the one in need of advice

Let me hit the nail on the head, I have issues with my feelings, I don't mean to brag but I am more of the guy that can get any lady to fall in love with me.

The problem is that I have never felt any strong feelings for anyone. I keep on hearing how people say they are in love.

It keeps me pondering why can't I fall in love.

Now my question
******************
Is it normal or is something wrong with my physiology.

FYI I just can't get emotionally attached to a person, not that I don't feel intimate with them.

I just date to prevent the society from nagging

Please be WARNED kindly refrain from insults and derailing the thread.

Thanks in advance

Used to think I'm the only one this is happening to....I can't just get emotionally attached to a person too...been in 4 relationships till date...I had issues with the first one(she cheated) and ended the last three myself(no-concrete reason/s)...I think I'll subscribe to elantraceey's view...

TheChosenOne1:
Used to think I'm the only one this is happening to....I can't just get emotionally attached to a person too...been in 4 relationships till date...I had issues with the first one(she cheated) and ended the last three myself(no-concrete reason/s)...

Thank God am not the only one

@TheChosenOne1 I always thought I had something wrong with me, wanted to even go for therapy

LewisO:
Reading...

waiting for analysis @ LewisO

Elantraceey has said it all. Just chill and take ur time. Plus don't go around hurting ladies by dating them cos the society deems it fit to be in a relationship at a particular age.

You might not be emotionally attracted to her and its best you keep it platonic cos she might be attached emotionally to you if you go ahead to start dating her.

When you find the right person, you would know.

My advice simply is;

Make friends and don't break hearts.

kinglekan:
Elantraceey has said it all. Just chill and take ur time. Plus don't go around hurting ladies by dating them cos the society deems it fit to be in a relationship at a particular age.

You might not be emotionally attracted to her and its best you keep it platonic cos she might be attached emotionally to you if you go ahead to start dating her.

When you find the right person, you would know.

My advice simply is;

Make friends and don't break hearts.

Relationship master

kinglekan:
Elantraceey has said it all. Just chill and take ur time. Plus don't go around hurting ladies by dating them cos the society deems it fit to be in a relationship at a particular age.

You might not be emotionally attracted to her and its best you keep it platonic cos she might be attached emotionally to you if you go ahead to start dating her.

When you find the right person, you would know.

My advice simply is;

Make friends and don't break hearts.

Thanks, before I enter a relationship I always make it a point to let them know how I feel, but it all ends the same.
By the time I want to call the relationship off they would ve gotten emotionally attached to me, making it look like am a bad person

whisp3r:


Thanks, before I enter a relationship I always make it a point to let them know how I feel, but it all ends the same.
By the time I want to call the relationship off they would ve gotten emotionally attached to me, making it look like am a bad person

I know exactly how you feel bro. Maybe with time things will get to change.

spacefreak:


I know exactly how you feel bro. Maybe with time things will get to change.

Thanks for your kind words

you need to relax op
forget relationships for now!
take a vacation and cool your head!

whisp3r:


Thanks for your kind words

You could do like me and deliberately avoid relationships till you feel you are ready to try again.

mirexxx:
you need to relax op
forget relationships for now!
take a vacation and cool your head!

Its not like am the one looking to start a relationship, it's just pursuing me no matter how far i run from it

Are you a psychopath?

I'm serious.. it's more common than people think. Do you have strong feelings for family members?

elantraceey:
Don't worry , you've not met the right girl yet . Most of the people that screams love here and there have actually not felt it so you're not alone .

Lol e.g

I get question too,Am becoming heartless day by day ,the emotional me is fading away

Rainess:
Are you a psychopath?

I'm serious.. it's more common than people think. Do you have strong feelings for family members?

Am not a psychopath o. Like i said earlier don't get me wrong i find it hard falling in love with someone am intimate with.

FYI being intimate with a person does not make you love that person

whisp3r:


Am not a psychopath o. Like i said earlier don't get me wrong i find it hard falling in love with someone am intimate with.

FYI being intimate with a person does not make you love that person

Maybe you should stop sleeping with people until you have feelings. Could be that is preventing the feelings from developing

Deeply present in everyone is the 'emotion' to feel anything (love inclusive) but it takes the 'right person' to provoke such feelings. This is simple, you don't feel emotionally attached because you haven't met a girl who has the way to your heart.

Don't be compelled to keep a relationship if the feelings aren't mutual - love is not a chore, it is something your heart expresses without your mind's permission.

Cheers.

Rainess:


Maybe you should stop sleeping with people until you have feelings. Could be that is preventing the feelings from developing

Thanks for the advice. I will consider doing so

When you come across that special someone, you wouldn't have to try.

rokiatu:
When you come across that special someone, you wouldn't have to try.

Food for thought

guy focus on something else jare. what is love gan . OVERATED BULLSHITT!!!

whisp3r:


Thanks, before I enter a relationship I always make it a point to let them know how I feel, but it all ends the same.
By the time I want to call the relationship off they would ve gotten emotionally attached to me, making it look like am a bad person

Ofcause that's ladies for you. Their emotions would always take the better part of them. Plus they feel things would change and you would tend to love them as time goes on.

Only to be shocked and hrtbroken when things get sour.

Ipledge:
I get question too,Am becoming heartless day by day ,the emotional me is fading away

U too dey nack, na why. Hehehhe

tohpahz:


Relationship master

Baby u dey whine me bah??

Op u need an ukwulicious relationship to turn ua amu on

kinglekan:


Baby u dey whine me bah??

No..i fit'nt dust u..
I say the truth!!