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10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by kinibigdeal(m): 10:05pm On Apr 07, 2015
Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.

1. Lovely smile


A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys


2. Shy blush


Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.

3. Eye contact


This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right? It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.


4. Mirroring

Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.

5. Hands on hips

If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the signs he is flirting with you

6. A flirting touch

If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After all, he might be your hubby!

7. Head Tilts

The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not interested in that man.

8. Dilated pupils

Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores you and is highly interested in you

9. Raised eyebrows

You crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!

10. Fidgeting

Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by wunmi590(m): 10:08pm On Apr 07, 2015
Issokey
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by domopps(m): 10:11pm On Apr 07, 2015
Can only Blv this if you release Yor and and Igbo versions of this same write up! Or permit me 2 say none of the Eng is clearer @op




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Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by may01(f): 10:18pm On Apr 07, 2015
Op, when I raise my brows during conversation it means I'm amazed at the astounding rate of stoopidity that abounds.
That doesn't mean I'm flirting, does it?
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by jamex93(m): 10:20pm On Apr 07, 2015
Nigerian lady will tell u that you are not romantic if you don't do all these



That is been romantic to a nigerian lady
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 07, 2015
I hate girls that play hard to get.. They always turn out to be the ones with the smelly pvssy
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by justmag(m): 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2015
These are some white people signs. This does not totally apply in nigeria. If he walks up to you with some cheesy line then he is interested in you. That's the only way for some dudes these days.
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by DaPhilosopher(m): 10:39pm On Apr 07, 2015
hmmm!
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by Ewizard(m): 10:45pm On Apr 07, 2015
youngpol:
I hate girls that play hard to get.. They always turn out to be the ones with the smelly pvssy

grin
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by sinizia: 10:58pm On Apr 07, 2015
A lady I'm flirting with doesn't need all these signs up there to know what I'm on about. If I'm flirting with a lady, it's hard for her not to notice.
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by sinizia: 10:59pm On Apr 07, 2015
youngpol:
I hate girls that play hard to get.. They always turn out to be the ones with the smelly pvssy

You lie bro. You're just hurt that chick turned you down.
Re: 10 Obvious Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You by quiet006storm: 11:14pm On Apr 07, 2015
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