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| Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 12:49am On Apr 13, 2015 |
the girl as been my crush for a long period of time, but to God be the glory I got her last week. so I just request to take her out for a date,but frankly speaking its my first time. I don't just know how I can make her feel I'm the best for her, I don't want to act immaturely. and I'm student still getting feeded by parent now I'm passing the mic to my bosses |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by justmag(m): 12:54am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Ask your self these question. 1. Do you have a job? 2. Will you have her time? 3. Is she really worth your time If the anwser is yes. then be yourself and everything will fall into place. Please! Don't be who you are not because you want to impress someone. It's always more harm than good. 2 Likes |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 1:02am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Be yourself.. gist with her.. listen to her.. don't brag about what you have or don't have.. don't crack lame jokes but reasonable or romantic ones.. don't laugh too much and don't try too hard to impress her.. If she lets you know she doesn't like any of your actions then stop it.. Finally, don't carry her hand bag  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by whizjay(m): 1:03am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Dude, just be yourself.... Don't try to be another person... *You know wetin I dey yarn naww, no go start to dey form for am* And Oh! And don't forget ya manners.... Like opening doors 4 her, Picking up stuffs when she drops it... Sh*t like that. *feed your pockets b4 you step out* Goodluck. 1 Like |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 1:27am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Be yourself! Best advice |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by ronald4lif(m): 1:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
You mean say you never hang out with woman before.  Well, people have different chemistry, different mindset and different ways to behaving/expectation on a first date. What works for A might not be same for B. The best approach is to be one's self, don't pretend to be who you're not. Put up a smiling look always and try not to be boring. Always spring up topic randomly ranging from her interest, job or studies or movies she might have watched and discuss it. Also, don't go about discussing irrelevant issues like your ex-girlfriends or your previous experience with women. It's a turn off, except of course she ask you to. And even if she ask, say nice things about your ex (if any) or you might send a wrong impression if all you can say about your ex are negatives and you're full of resentment. Be a gentleman but not her servant or sissy. Acting all too nice might turn her off, too. It is also important that you look her in the eyes when talking to her, no sideways glancing, it shows lack of confidence. No girl want a man who's lack confidence. All in all, just be real. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 1:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
francizy:lol no, carry her hand bag. Pull out the chair nd open the door for her |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 1:37am On Apr 13, 2015 |
katzz2nd: Someone actually fell out of love with me because of that.  She called me insensitive..  |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 1:58am On Apr 13, 2015 |
francizy:shocker...whr do u find these women, thts crazy! Perfect gentleman |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Dotwillis1(m): 5:46am On Apr 13, 2015 |
.....anyhow you wanna make it be na.. at least just sitting side by side with the one yhu love even without saying a word is enough to make the day |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 6:08am On Apr 13, 2015 |
katzz2nd: Lmao! Where are women found? I do hate pretending to be what am not. Am not a perfect gentleman, am me so I don't see any reason in the pretence. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 6:33am On Apr 13, 2015 |
justmag:I'm still a student. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 6:56am On Apr 13, 2015 |
ronald4lif:big advice!! |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:11am On Apr 13, 2015 |
1 Like |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 13, 2015 |
softysparky:yeah, whats wrong with that? I think its sweet |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:20am On Apr 13, 2015 |
francizy:yeah u shouldnt pretend. I thought u were being u whn u did it. Or dd she make u? |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Dygeasy(m): 7:26am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Funny how you lot are asking the guy to be himself. He obviously doesn't even know how to with a girl. @DONJUVIAM, where do you have in mind to take this girl? Do you have ideas? If not lemme know what your environment is like. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by justmag(m): 7:27am On Apr 13, 2015 |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Don aren't you supposed to be studying for your exams? You don dey pursue woman with your snacks' money abi?  |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:31am On Apr 13, 2015 |
katzz2nd:On a first date Damn!!!!!!!! I hate seeing men looking and behaving like sisi. Pulling out chairs and opening of door is cool but carrying of handbags, mbanu...... for how long is he even going to do that He better not start something he can't finish. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 7:43am On Apr 13, 2015 |
katzz2nd: Told her I don't like doing such and she called me an insensitive person.. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:46am On Apr 13, 2015 |
softysparky:lol yeah I totally get ur point 1 Like |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 7:46am On Apr 13, 2015 |
softysparky: [size=38pt]iLoveU[/size] |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:47am On Apr 13, 2015 |
francizy:oh thts harsh |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 7:47am On Apr 13, 2015 |
justmag:ya |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 7:48am On Apr 13, 2015 |
katzz2nd: Yeah, the relationship didn't last tho.. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 13, 2015 |
francizy:I love you too sometimes. |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by francizy(m): 7:50am On Apr 13, 2015 |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 7:50am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Dygeasy:lautech ogbomosho student |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Dygeasy(m): 7:53am On Apr 13, 2015 |
donjuviam:I asked a question first. Do you have any ideas of where to take her for this date? |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by donjuviam(m): 7:55am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Dygeasy:ya why not |
| Re: Going On A Date For The First Time how Should I Go About It by Dygeasy(m): 8:03am On Apr 13, 2015 |
donjuviam:Cool. Where dyu have in mind? Alata? |
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