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Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 19, 2015
missclasssy:
This method of classifying temperaments/personalities is a fallacy in itself.

Carl Jung/Myers briggs method of classification is the accurate and generally accepted method.

How is the method fallacious?
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Apr 19, 2015
darknez:


How is the method fallacious?

Because people tend to exhibit multiple of these characteristics.

For instance I can't classify myself into any of these groups
At times I am choleric, at times I am sanguine and at times, I am melancholic.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 7:17pm On Apr 19, 2015
missclasssy:


Because people tend to exhibit multiple of these characteristics.

For instance I can't classify myself into any of these groups
At times I am choleric, at times I am sanguine and at times, I am melancholic.
No it's not...it's nt necessary dah 1 exhibits all characteristics
Bt if u do , i think dts classified under secondary temperament
Read up "why you act the way you do" by tim lahaye, dat wud help
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Apr 19, 2015
missclasssy:


Because people tend to exhibit multiple of these characteristics.

For instance I can't classify myself into any of these groups
At times I am choleric, at times I am sanguine and at times, I am melancholic.

I agree but I don't think the 'method' states that people need identify with one trait only. As a matter of fact (and as you rightly inferred), everyone exhibits all the traits at different times but one or more is dominant in each person, when viewed hollistically.

It would be fallacious to say that people necessarily must identify with only one trait but when it comes to stating the traits inherent in people, irrespective of the mix, I think they got it spot on; as it is not a misconception to say that everyone can identify with one or more of those traits.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by UniqueGem(m): 7:33pm On Apr 19, 2015
BJ4REEL:

Enlightening!!!!
Thanks, says alot about me.
I've been mixing this two all along.
I also understand most nerds are introverts?
Not sure, but dont you think one can exhibit both traits?
Nice Question. Yes!!! All nerds are introverted.
Why?? Because they are socially inept. They only love what they specialise in doing. have you tried having a chit chat with a Nerd? All conversation with them are always in one way or the other linked back to what they love. Nerds will most likely be compared to geeks than introverts because its known that they're introverts.

NOTE: Not all introverts are nerds though. Nerds are highly intellectual people who work more with ideas, not all introvert have that ability, introverts are mainly very observant and possess super analytical skill due to their observing nature.

Yes one can exhibit both trait because nerds are introverted in nature. Though nerds are hugely unpopular in this part of the world (Nigeria).
Re: What Temperament Are You? by UniqueGem(m): 7:50pm On Apr 19, 2015
Melancholy:
Let not forget that we sometimes need to move out from that our comfy nut of our temperament if need be cos we might be doing to urselves a greater risk of not having a fulfilled life in all ramifications, I guess thats where the study of not having only one temperament comes to play.
An introvert exhibiting a sanguine, choleric or phlegmatic trait is highly dependent on the present surrounding.
Example: An introvert assumes sanguine nature whenever he/she is with a close friend, they tend to discuss more freely, even getting into argument with them without they them self knowing.

*Please I don't think there's anything like an introvert having to change to a sanguine, choleric or phlegmatic nature in other to have a fulfilled life. We all can live a fulfilled life no matter our temperament. The only difference is "OUR DIFINITION OF WHAT A FULFILLED LIFE IS". To a sanguine, his definition might 'hey! As far as I am able to make lot of friends, and go to many fUn parks, I've surely lived a fulfilled life'. To Melancholy, 'hey! As far as I get my privacy, Picture the world I want to live in and have it come to pass, I've surely lived a fulfilled life'. Phlegmatic ....., C0holeric .....
So having a fulfilled life is only dependent on your definition of what a fulfilled life is and your temperament and not the temperament you don't have and wish/need to acquire.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by UniqueGem(m): 8:02pm On Apr 19, 2015
pretydiva:
All wat u Jst wrote is Sooo me. And no I am not d shy type. Jst dat d life of an introvert can b boring at times. My dad has complained a lot dat I don't socialize,same wit my sisters. I prefer 2 b indoor watching movies,surfing d Internet or sleeping. I have few friends. Sm times I envy my friends dat ve lots of friends,always talking, going out n meeting new people. Gues dis is my life n dere is nuffin I can do abt it
Sincerely you should be happy. Have you asked yourself what you really need so much friends for? Because we as introverts see making friends as obstacle(except those we're acquainted to already). Have thought of what your friends with so many friends have that you don't have? Is it FUN? Our quite time is as fun to us as their fun time. Look, we should be the happier temperament because I only see them with more troubles to deal with, more disappointment to expect, more backlash from so called friends ETC.
And to your parent and sisters complaining, Its normal for them to do so, because we live in a world configured for the extroverts.

Cheer up girl!!! We have the richest personality but with a higher cost.

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Re: What Temperament Are You? by Sanguine(f): 9:24pm On Apr 19, 2015
You people should stop disterbing me jare ah! Abi wetin sef?!
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 9:42pm On Apr 19, 2015
Sanguine:
You people should stop disterbing me jare ah! Abi wetin sef?!
Ur name tho
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Apr 19, 2015
Kolocat what do u think? I'm sanguine and you are choleric.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Apr 19, 2015
kolofem:
Kolocat what do u think? I'm sanguine and you are choleric.

Lol you are definitely sanguine wink
but no way, I'm definitely melancholic.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 11:10pm On Apr 19, 2015
kolocat:


Lol you are definitely sanguine wink
but no way, I'm definitely melancholic.
Hmm
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 20, 2015
UniqueGem:
Sincerely you should be happy. Have you asked yourself what you really need so much friends for? Because we as introverts see making friends as obstacle(except those we're acquainted to already). Have thought of what your friends with so many friends have that you don't have? Is it FUN? Our quite time is as fun to us as their fun time. Look, we should be the happier temperament because I only see them with more troubles to deal with, more disappointment to expect, more backlash from so called friends ETC.
And to your parent and sisters complaining, Its normal for them to do so, because we live in a world configured for the extroverts.

Cheer up girl!!! We have the richest personality but with a higher cost.
introvert here too.... Sir pls dont forget about wht you promised today,THANK YOU SIR ....www.nairaland.com/2257006/urgently-need-nairalanderspls
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 11:40am On Apr 20, 2015
eugy45:

Hmm

Hmm
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 1:09pm On Apr 20, 2015
kolocat:


What you don't agree?
Nothing..just that he says ure choleric , nd u say u're melancholic
Its cool
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Vick4rill(m): 1:25pm On Apr 20, 2015
Everybody above is claiming phlegmatic because they taught it is a peaceful temperament.but you should know that phlegmatic are the lazies and the unambitious people on earth. They lack the guts to pursue their goals and tend to hide in harbours they dont like to take risk, and thats why most of them end up poor. Read why you act the way yo do', by tim lahaye to confirm it
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 3:52pm On Apr 20, 2015
Vick4rill:
Everybody above is claiming phlegmatic because they taught it is a peaceful temperament.but you should know that phlegmatic are the lazies and the unambitious people on earth. They lack the guts to pursue their goals and tend to hide in harbours they dont like to take risk, and thats why most of them end up poor. Read why you act the way yo do', by tim lahaye to confirm it
I love dat book...do u have a link where i could gt d ebook
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Apr 20, 2015
kolocat:


Hmm

hmm yea baby yea baby

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Re: What Temperament Are You? by eleshin(m): 4:02am On Apr 21, 2015
pretydiva:
All wat u Jst wrote is Sooo me. And no I am not d shy type. Jst dat d life of an introvert can b boring at times. My dad has complained a lot dat I don't socialize,same wit my sisters. I prefer 2 b indoor watching movies,surfing d Internet or sleeping. I have few friends. Sm times I envy my friends dat ve lots of friends,always talking, going out n meeting new people. Gues dis is my life n dere is nuffin I can do abt it
Hmmmmmmmmm
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Vick4rill(m): 9:41am On Apr 21, 2015
eugy45:

I love dat book...do u have a link where i could gt d ebook
no bro, l bought mine from a book store
Re: What Temperament Are You? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Apr 21, 2015
missclasssy:
This method of classifying temperaments/personalities is a fallacy in itself.

Carl Jung/Myers briggs method of classification is the accurate and generally accepted method.
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Re: What Temperament Are You? by BJ4REEL(m): 10:03pm On Apr 21, 2015
UniqueGem:
Nice Question. Yes!!! All nerds are introverted.
Why?? Because they are socially inept. They only love what they specialise in doing. have you tried having a chit chat with a Nerd? All conversation with them are always in one way or the other linked back to what they love. Nerds will most likely be compared to geeks than introverts because its known that they're introverts.

NOTE: Not all introverts are nerds though. Nerds are highly intellectual people who work more with ideas, not all introvert have that ability, introverts are mainly very observant and possess super analytical skill due to their observing nature.

Yes one can exhibit both trait because nerds are introverted in nature. Though nerds are hugely unpopular in this part of the world (Nigeria).
Enlightening!!!...Guess i understand myself better now.
Thanks.
Re: What Temperament Are You? by CallMeBIRA(f): 10:47pm On Apr 21, 2015
Well,I am a mixture of Sanguine and Choleric
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 12:24am On Apr 22, 2015
CallMeBIRA:
Well,I am a mixture of Sanguine and Choleric
Let's say SanChol lol
Re: What Temperament Are You? by pretydiva(f): 1:05pm On Apr 30, 2015
UniqueGem:
Sincerely you should be happy. Have you asked yourself what you really need so much friends for? Because we as introverts see making friends as obstacle(except those we're acquainted to already). Have thought of what your friends with so many friends have that you don't have? Is it FUN? Our quite time is as fun to us as their fun time. Look, we should be the happier temperament because I only see them with more troubles to deal with, more disappointment to expect, more backlash from so called friends ETC.
And to your parent and sisters complaining, Its normal for them to do so, because we live in a world configured for the extroverts.

Cheer up girl!!! We have the richest personality but with a higher cost.
kk..tnx
Re: What Temperament Are You? by fajani(m): 5:28pm On Apr 30, 2015
I LOVE MY TEMPERAMENT... I CAN BLEND WITH ANY TYPE.. I AM SANCHLO... MY GEL IS PHLEG IN NATURE... THAT IS WHAT MAKES US COMPATIBLE........
Re: What Temperament Are You? by fajani(m): 5:32pm On Apr 30, 2015
eugy45:
Let's say SanChol lol
U HAVE GOT SAME WITH MINE
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 10:11pm On Apr 30, 2015
fajani:
U HAVE GOT SAME WITH MINE
Hmm..hope yu don't talk much ,cos sanguines do wink
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 10:11pm On Apr 30, 2015
fajani:
U HAVE GOT SAME WITH MINE
Hmm..hope yu don't talk much ,cos sanguines do wink
Re: What Temperament Are You? by fajani(m): 10:43pm On Apr 30, 2015
eugy45:

Hmm..hope yu don't talk much ,cos sanguines do wink
I TALK WHEN IT IS NEEDED
Re: What Temperament Are You? by eugy45(m): 5:06pm On May 02, 2015
fajani:
I TALK WHEN IT IS NEEDED
Cool
Re: What Temperament Are You? by mekonglobal(m): 5:48pm On May 02, 2015
Yes, i had wanted 2 creat a thread on dis but now dat urs is here, i guess i hv 2 flow with it, i'm a phlegmel initially i tot i was a melphleg but i later discover some traits in me dat made beliv i'm d later.
people around me complain about my introvert attitude; parents, sibilings, friends, neighbours e.t.c But i hv come 2 reliaze dat these things are inborn and there is nothing anybody can do abt it. Though it made me an enermy 2 those who choose 2, cos i cant visit a berave relation or friend without d company of other friends or people, or maybe occasions, i dont go out 4 leisures during daytime, and i dont like unneccesary noise.. i dont talk much rather i listen more...boring? hahaha ur guess is as gud as mine!

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