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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by liljboy(m): 7:09am On Apr 20, 2015
chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

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thunder fire u there, na our something be disgusting, ewu Hausa.......... even shit wey pikkin shit for ya body na only once u go wash am n ur good to go talk-less of our sweet liquid. make she quit in, women outnumber men 75-35%. another girl will start where her chapter stopped nonsense.
yomi007k:
Crap
seconded

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 22, 2015
u mean?



undecided undecided undecided


nancieJ:
Hey guys, am new here so I'd appreciate your help in finding my way around.

Your friends hubbby needs help and fast. Cos soon there will no more be sex cos na self service all through.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by pinkhill(f): 11:53am On Apr 22, 2015
well said
kilmix:

From your story, it seems this thing is a relationship and not marriage. Lemme point it out to you.

"Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship

The bolded above sold you out. Why?
1. You don't quit marriage, you DIVORCE.
2. Marriage is a union between 2 people so anything acquired or money spent is between the 2. Hence, it is not correct to say a "her husband has invested so much in the relationship" *not marriage.

Assuming but not conceding to your story, lemme give my candid advice.

1. I think the basic thing lacking here is that there is no sex in the relationship because if there is, the man wouldn't be mastubating when he's with her.
*My advice is that they should talk things out.

2. From the Christian perspective, even though the bible didn't mention mastubation, it kicks against sexual immorality which encompasses mastubation. *On this ground, in my opinion, based on the Bible, mastubation is a sin.

3. He doesn't need rehabilitation he needs sex.
*Haba! The guy is not a psychic na.

Mastubate wearing condom? That's condom abuse.
*condoms are made for safe sex against STD/STI and pregnancy.

Point of notice.

1. If they are truly married, she will not be calling his expulsion or spem "DISGUSTING LIQUID".
*Without that liquid, she will remain barren all her life. We are all made from that liquid, remember?

2. You don't need to "bath ... like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess", once washing or even cleaning can take it off.

And she calls it "sticky mess" again.



My dear, this story can best be described as a story from a virgin girl who is benefitting from the guy financially and is not willing to give him sex or let go cause of the benefits attached.

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by kilmix: 1:15pm On Apr 22, 2015
pinkhill:
well said
Okubeti

Merci.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by igwejay67: 3:17pm On Apr 22, 2015
Haba Naija no dey carry last, the man no dey masturbate he's only trying to climax by doing it himself theres nothing wrong with that. in stead of you to help him do it yourself to your marriage last longer you dey shout disgusting. Gone are the days key to a man's heart is via food these days na via bed things. There are different types of sex not just missionary style that we sternly believe in any other type of sex is a sin, make your husband happy do whatever he wants in bed and dont be shy of telling him what u like in bed as well else someother woman will do it for him. God bless you

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by BabaOneChance: 12:14pm On Apr 27, 2015
chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

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Are u talking op yourselp or your prend?
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 27, 2015
habahahaha y am i still laughing at this thread naa lipsrsealed#haba op so because ur husband do self service u want to quit!!chaii dat a senseless idea,all u need to do is sit him down and discuss what on ur mind with him.#I dont see anything big deal concerning dis issue cheesy

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Sweetguy25: 12:16pm On Apr 27, 2015
What is wrong with her vagìna? Why can't he ejaculate there?
Why can't you friend jerk him off herself?

Your friend is a prudish woman, she has no business in a modern marriage.

Satan forbids I marry such a selfish wife.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by dammytosh: 12:16pm On Apr 27, 2015
Cholls:
my sister i feel your pain. I suggest that you buy him a kamasotura magazine.

Kamasotura ko, Kamoru ni.


This is a justification for pre-marital sex. If he did all that during courtship and you married him. You are on your own.

But if you guys waited till the night and you discover that your hubby needs Kamoru . Omo

On a better note, you might be too wide to make him climax and the need for a tighter fist to get that done during sex. The wide area can be frustrating and he knew he will never climax.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 27, 2015
I don't see anything wrong in this.
What's making her feel disgusted about her husbands sperm Bikonu? That's his own enjoyment na which to me is normal. After all no be for body? If na mouth, it's another problem entirely. Let her close her eyes and allow him do the thing, by the way water and soap don finish for house? Sperm na paint? Mtchew

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by awesomet1(m): 12:17pm On Apr 27, 2015
chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help


OP you are the person involved not your friend. How can you tell his ejaculate is disgusting, if were not there in person??
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by delishpot: 12:17pm On Apr 27, 2015
He is used to masturbating even before marriage. Many men who masturbate do this ish(maybe they dont cum on their wives sha) . They are still tied to the feeling of cummibg by their hands. Why the hell do you guys hear about masturbation breaking many homes? Lots of Naija wives are surffering this in silence but just smile and endure it cos as we all can see here. A wife has no right to complain about her husband. She is expected to smile and endure if all her efforts to change the situation fail. If she dare call out for help, the society will beat her dowm and blame her for the problem in the first place. I kniw a lot of naija wives will Identify with this woman. This is why masturbation is a bad thing.
If it was the wife fearing pregnancy and pushes him off to cum on her instead of inside just before climax, many men here will bash her and call her name. for interupting his pleasure. he should get good quality condom.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Simple26(m): 12:17pm On Apr 27, 2015
Its not self servicing, its called coitus interruptus,its a process of family planning.

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by preciousMI1(f): 12:17pm On Apr 27, 2015
no 2 question. ..
There is no such thing like masturbating with wife.... masturbation is within one's self....
I believe this case is yours not a friend's case.
God will see you through.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 27, 2015
igwejay67:
Haba Naija no dey carry last, the man no dey masturbate he's only trying to climax by doing it himself theres nothing wrong with that. in stead of you to help him do it yourself to your marriage last longer you dey shout disgusting. Gone are the days key to a man's heart is via food these days na via bed things. There are different types of sex not just missionary style that we sternly believe in any other type of sex is a sin, make your husband happy do whatever he wants in bed and dont be shy of telling him what u like in bed as well else someother woman will do it for him. God bless you
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by necbridge(m): 12:18pm On Apr 27, 2015
So sperm is now disgusting liquid Fishbrain
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:19pm On Apr 27, 2015
Is there light? shocked
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by austylno: 12:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
Must u seek for advice in everything, is either or husband comes inside u or outside. grin grin

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by vicktaur(m): 12:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
D guy is using porn style

Make una no pretend as if u don't watch porn or know how de release sperm in those porn videos




If not


AMADIOHA WILL STRIKE U
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
See as she painted the husband sperm as if it's acid! undecided undecided
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Cholls(m): 12:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
dammytosh:


Kamasotura ko, Kamoru ni.


This is a justification for pre-marital sex. If he did all that during courtship and you married him. You are on your own.

But if you guys waited till the night and you discover that your hubby needs Kamoru. Omo.
my brother grin

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by femijck(m): 12:21pm On Apr 27, 2015
I won't blame the guy ...maybe the wife's body is too loose to make him climax in 1hr sef....so wetin u won make the guy do na...

Girls CHANGE ur ways.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 27, 2015
When poo like this hit FP then you had think some brain need quick formatting
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by XBLadez: 12:21pm On Apr 27, 2015
Oh, yeah, oooh, yeah!! Oh, yea, baby, don't stop! Don't, oh no, doooon't! Oh, oh, oh....I'm cumming, yeah, I'm cumming, I'm cumminnnng......open your mouth, baby. Yea, open, open, opeeeen! Oooogrrr...uuurgh!!!

Thunder fire anybody who says s/he doesn't understand I just spoke in porn language. It's what you all watch. Men drip cumshots on their mates' boobs, between her thighs and sometimes in her mouth. And here you are pretending you don't understand what your husband is doing with you.
Shame on u, Op!

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 27, 2015
[quote author=diamondtutu post=32902177]


First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.[I wonder oo]
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by CeceNene(f): 12:22pm On Apr 27, 2015
thorpido:
My friend......my friend....
Op,your husband has been a chronic masturbator and even though married,he has not learnt to derive pleasure from you instead of his hand.
You have to start to re-orientate him sexually and you have to up your game too.Learn to use your mouth and hands including you pu€€y to satisfy him.

What do you mean by 'disgusting liquids?He dey commot blood?



Sperm actually grin
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by dammytosh: 12:22pm On Apr 27, 2015
Cholls:
my brother grin

grin grin grin grin

Very Funny
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:23pm On Apr 27, 2015
chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

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Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by Nobody: 12:24pm On Apr 27, 2015
how is this a problem
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by unite4real: 12:25pm On Apr 27, 2015
chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

from the bolded, every guy knows you are not telling the truth. The discharge on your body takes just a simple wash (even without soap) with water and your skin will be as clean as ever. I know that male discharges are not super glue or Saclux paint. so bathing 5 times a day just to remove discharge completely from your body is a big lie.
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by inereunwa1(m): 12:27pm On Apr 27, 2015
op are you sure you are not the one not your friend Just asking:p
Re: Help My Husband Self-service During Sex. by fpeter(f): 12:27pm On Apr 27, 2015
1. She cannot quit, marriage is not a job that you quit when you are tired.
2. Masturbation is a SIN,sin of uncleaness and sexual perversion.
3. She must discuss her feelings with him and pray seriously. Fast and seek spiritual counselling from an elderly and discreet respectable man of God, who can also pray for the husband and break the yoke threatening their marital bliss.

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