chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

The woman has not said what she is doing to the man. Which sane man masturbates on a woman when others are complaining how their men can't last long in bed. If the man brings her to her needed high, she should reciprocate. But when the man has worked so hard to bring her high and then abandoned to cater for himself, then his mind goes to work on other women or strategy. He is just being patient with her because maybe he loves her or does not want to hit her because of sex. The man is suffering in silence. Just pray he does not run into an accidental relationship, else she will soon tell stories that touch.

fhranciz:
Op, I am just looking at my hand wishing I could slap some sense into u..

Who ever believes this shit has 2 naira brain

It might be true, a lot of poo happen everywhere.

I once had a friend who told me his girl friend normally pee each time they make love especially when the guy want to cum.


Never shall wonder end!

sukkot:
Happens all the time. maybe he is tired of sleeping with the same woman. trust me, no matter how sweet eba and egusi is, if you eat it all the time it will get to a point where it starts disgusting you. so yeah its possible to have 'puxxy' at home and still be thinking of mast-urbation. also doesnt help if the eba that you are so tired of eating everyday has gained 100 pounds. lmao. thats life bros. you are thinking like someone who is s-e-x starved. only s-e-x starved men think just because 'puxxy' is in the house means you must be very satisfied

Lmao! Funny but makes alota sense.

fhranciz:
Op, I am just looking at my hand wishing I could slap some sense into u..

Who ever believes this shit has 2 naira brain

It is either the man is using withdrawal method to prevent pregnancy or the woman is a 'dead wood' on bed when it comes to sex: both of them needs a deeper sexual orientation.

My opinion though....

I think the girl is a virgin
And they are not married

Cutehector:
She should pee on him too..

men na the solution be that.

'can she quit the relationship ' seriously, r u asking that question? it's not boyfriend, girlfriend. it's marriage - till death do us part. questions I wanna ask - did he usually do this during sex with her when they were dating? if yes,then she shouldn't complain. if no,then she needs to pray. and for all of u single sisters out there, marriage isn't sumfing u waltz in and out of.

Woman tighten your P.C muscle. It's like your 'body' is not 'tight" enough for his male member. It's my bet he doesn't feel the friction. If u don't annoy how to locate your P.C muscle, then check Keegel excercise on Google

I thought masturbation was done when a sexual partner is not readily available? So how come she's very available right there and the man still indulges in masturbation instead of normal sex? May be she doesnt appeal sexually to him. Possibly!

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

First of all there are lot of loop holes in your story, I'll point 3,
No 1.marriage is not a relationship, its a union of two people as one, the only opt out is divorce. There is nothing like investment or sacrifice, if you don't put your mind to it, it won't work.

No 2. Seven doesn't stick to the skin, it can be washed with water, and it's all gone, so her bathing 3 times is false, except her skin has issues.
No 3.MAsturbation being a sin doesn't change anything, unless there is someone your asking for that doesn't know in which case is a sin whether done with husband and wife.

If it's her bf and not her husband then a whole lot of things are wrong if your bringing sin into the pics.

Lastly she should try and reach an agreement with her hubby, nairaland can't help them. Thanks

This is what happen when husbands are exposed to too much pornography and in a turn become perverted.

kind regards

chowlade

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

Cutehector:
She should pee on him too..

Lmao

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

Nigerians and Sin, masturbation is not a sin. That how your husband get off, if you deny him he will start cheating. What is the big deal, stop being a prud and let that man have his way, he not asking you for 3some or a salad toss. Another was you can deny him sex for 1 month n tell him if he doesn't stop no cookies for him.

...shoro niyen

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

Maybe ur friend has a TUNNEL under her legs, so wide he doesnt even enjoy doing it with her. Guys self-service in the absence of ladies but when they do it in the presence of ladies, something is definitely seriously wrong. The lady might not be lady enough

Cholls:
my sister i feel your pain. I suggest that you buy him a kamasotura magazine.

or he should download, kamasutra 3D app, Goddamnit u guys are gonna love it

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

there are two reasons for doing that.... if he doesn't want to cum in the lady,its called withdrawal method.... and secondly if u/your friend doesn't satisfy him in bed.... and ur story is kinda contradictory somehow, you said husband and ur talking about relationship, they are married for God's sake.. and again sticky fluid u mean... ur friend needs help cus that's a fucke*n sper*m

Addictions are dangerous to marriages

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

very silly fellow..ike nsi

[b][/b]The wife should take her case to God for devine help.

dapsonlou:


Nigerians and Sin, masturbation is not a sin. That how your husband get off, if you deny him he will start cheating. What is the big deal, stop being a prud and let that man have his way, he not asking you for 3some or a salad toss. Another was you can deny him sex for 1 month n tell him if he doesn't stop no cookies for him.

pls what is salad toss

For the sake of making a comment, I see no cause for alarm.. The only problem here is the couple not the act.


The mans problem may be either psychological or physical..

I will speak to the physical aspects of it.. Unfortunately all Men are not equal. Some men can fhuck for hours before cumming, others for seconds and bust like a fountain. Some men have the stamina to keep fhucking for hours in different positions others don't have the stamina to last 2 minutes.. Now imagine a man who requires 20mins of fhucking to come but only has the stamina to last 5 minutes before running out of breath, the only other option would be to masturbate..

Now as a wife, sex is not automatic in marriage. Many couples have different bedroom secrets that they will never share with you outside. I have heard of a woman who cries during sex, but not from pleasure, but pain. The mans phallus bruises here everytime they have sex and her body does not secret enough lubricant like most women.

Another part may be the lack of creativity during sex. Poor pre-intimacy, etc. Some women just lie on their back or assume the Canine stance and think that's it. Sexual understanding is just as important as understanding in every other aspect of marriage. A friend of mine says he loves to have sex with his wife when she has her lingerie on better than when she is just flat naked. The husband should not be jerking off in front of his wife when his wife could be sucking him off instead.. Think of it..

The woman in question here sounds like she needs counseling just as much as her husband.. The couple obviously have some sexual tension between them.. Either that or they are not sexually compatible.



On a final note, why does she have to bath 4 times to get rid of Semen? Is his semen oil paint and her skin made of China White material?

ronald4lif:
Goodness. How can one think of masturbation when sex is readily available.

I wonder ooo,the problem is from the girl,she doesn't look attracting if not how can a man naked a woman only to end up using his hand to masturbate himself.does it means his hand is more arousing that her vagina,there is no story I wouldn't hear.on the issue of disgusting fluid,if it takes the girl five washing to get off the sperm from her body that means her body is the problem not the sperm.I rest my case

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

Hahahahah. Op just hiding under the banner of "my friend" claiming it's a marriage instead of saying the truth that she is the one and that it's just a relationship not marriage.

That op should be charged for contempt of spe*m for using such words. That is a 21 days certified pure protein for heavens sake. Does she know the power that leaves a man when he erupts that volcano?

But guy, you funny sha.

There's no way i can blv this story. It's a rephrased version of it. With my findings, there's no way any man would have a wife in the house and still go ahead with the silly act. It's obvious that the so call wife in question has refuse giving in to the husband's marriage rituals. So the man decides to self service himself and goes extra length to pour it on her as punishment for refusing. My opinion here is that she she learn to give it up for the husband when he's on fire.

Mayb he's one of dis guys wt their brains on d kneel.

She should stop having sex with him and take him to the hospital for rehab cos he is now addicted to de habit which can mare him for life

Biko this guy have watched alot of porn . #JustSaying

Cutehector:
She should pee on him too..

funny

this is not a big deal at all, first off they are man and wife and secondly all it takes is for the woman to assertively talk to her husband and tell him that she isn't comfortable with it and if he respects her enough he will know better than to repeat it again.