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kilmix:

From your story, it seems this thing is a relationship and not marriage. Lemme point it out to you.

"Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship

The bolded above sold you out. Why?
1. You don't quit marriage, you DIVORCE.
2. Marriage is a union between 2 people so anything acquired or money spent is between the 2. Hence, it is not correct to say a "her husband has invested so much in the relationship" *not marriage.

Assuming but not conceding to your story, lemme give my candid advice.

1. I think the basic thing lacking here is that there is no sex in the relationship because if there is, the man wouldn't be mastubating when he's with her.
*My advice is that they should talk things out.

2. From the Christian perspective, even though the bible didn't mention mastubation, it kicks against sexual immorality which encompasses mastubation. *On this ground, in my opinion, based on the Bible, mastubation is a sin.

3. He doesn't need rehabilitation he needs sex.
*Haba! The guy is not a psychic na.

Mastubate wearing condom? That's condom abuse.
*condoms are made for safe sex against STD/STI and pregnancy.

Point of notice.

1. If they are truly married, she will not be calling his expulsion or spem "DISGUSTING LIQUID".
*Without that liquid, she will remain barren all her life. We are all made from that liquid, remember?

2. You don't need to "bath ... like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess", once washing or even cleaning can take it off.

And she calls it "sticky mess" again.



My dear, this story can best be described as a story from a virgin girl who is benefitting from the guy financially and is not willing to give him sex or let go cause of the benefits attached.

The most sensible comments on this matter so far.
thumbs up for you bro

Religion is the root of all these hypocritical judgements on Nairaland.

I have always said we humans are sexually wired differently. That's the truth. A lot of fantasies and philias that turn me on is different from the ones that turn you on. Sex for some people is not your conventional missionary style.

Yet people no go hear. Their reasoning is always clouded by religion. It's dishonest of you as a human not to enjoy your body the best way your brain deems fit.

When I talk sey religion (just like circumcision) was invented to mentally enslave people, dem go turn am to fight.

That nigga, the OP mentioned (if the story is true) gets off with the philia of blowing his seed onto his partner. Hypocritical Nigerians watch this a lot in porn, and yet shudder when they face reality.

And yes, I have a ton of friends that jack off before they have sex. It makes the real sex last much more longer and pleasurable.

Life is but only one chance. If you're not intrested in the whole sexual package, then you should have been a nun in the first place.

This is 2015 and not 1137C.E.

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

next time be honest,you are the one going through this mess,be honest for once.

Mprex:
biko the guys should come and talk about this one

The man is simply acting out his p0rno fantasies

He is only practicing safe sex.

preciousMI1:
no 2 question. ..
There is no such thing like masturbating with wife.... masturbation is within one's self....
I believe this case is yours not a friend's case.
God will see you through.

abi o

and he will Erupt disgusting liquids directly on her body.Sometimes she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess

If you or she doesn't know about sex, then be celibate.
That thing you called "disgusting liquids "
Is the principal a man invest in a woman's womb to yield interest after 9 months.
Otherwise called sperm in biology, or seeds as bible would put it.
That idiot dint stop there

Sometimes she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess

Its hygienic to clean up after coupling but for goodness sake, I Neva knew someone could be outright plain STUPID on wat she does just cus she finds it disgusting? Go tell it to your pastor whom wedded you for counselling.
I stand aloof if should.......

Cutehector
She should pee on him too.
am sure he has been doing dat even before dey got married

that precious liquid you daer refer to it like that? You need to visit the doctor for mental check up .

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

Cholls:
my sister i feel your pain. I suggest that you buy him a kamasotura magazine.

Are you insane?
What is Kamasotura?

Mprex:
biko the guys should come and talk about this one

ibiakwa! no be your fellow woman dey narrate am?

Op, she is not sweet anymore, view of her body
is now more appealing to him than her engine,
so its her problem, she should explore - learn how to cling her virginal muscles to give him grip
you know wha am saying

thank me with some weed

The question that should come to mind immediately is, is the self service after sex when he withdraws? or he just get her naked and self service on her? if the first question is in the affirmative then its ok if he is avoiding pregnacy.

sule5727:
abi o

Yes oh.... people sha

Temysteve:
hmmmm, talking from experienced.....

Experience ke? I actually just read an article about porn moves guys like to practice that's weird /useless in real life earlier that day on a site I visit.

Realy

see what konji has caused :/

make the lady self go buy sex machine... as the guy dey masturbate make she self dey use her machine... make e be 50/50 no cheating... life is more advance instead of you reporting him to naira land... we dey there when he dey toast you?

Give him BJ and make him come. Or rather use ur hand to get him to come. Use different styles when making love. Don't just lie down like a pack of wood. If he starts coming during sex very soon he will change. Stop him from watching blue movies. And let him fast for days against mastubation.

kilmix:

From your story, it seems this thing is a relationship and not marriage. Lemme point it out to you.

"Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship

The bolded above sold you out. Why?
1. You don't quit marriage, you DIVORCE.
2. Marriage is a union between 2 people so anything acquired or money spent is between the 2. Hence, it is not correct to say a "her husband has invested so much in the relationship" *not marriage.

Assuming but not conceding to your story, lemme give my candid advice.

1. I think the basic thing lacking here is that there is no sex in the relationship because if there is, the man wouldn't be mastubating when he's with her.
*My advice is that they should talk things out.

2. From the Christian perspective, even though the bible didn't mention mastubation, it kicks against sexual immorality which encompasses mastubation. *On this ground, in my opinion, based on the Bible, mastubation is a sin.

3. He doesn't need rehabilitation he needs sex.
*Haba! The guy is not a psychic na.

Mastubate wearing condom? That's condom abuse.
*condoms are made for safe sex against STD/STI and pregnancy.

Point of notice.

1. If they are truly married, she will not be calling his expulsion or spem "DISGUSTING LIQUID".
*Without that liquid, she will remain barren all her life. We are all made from that liquid, remember?

2. You don't need to "bath ... like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess", once washing or even cleaning can take it off.

And she calls it "sticky mess" again.



My dear, this story can best be described as a story from a virgin girl who is benefitting from the guy financially and is not willing to give him sex or let go cause of the benefits attached.

op quote this bros wrong

So her husband sperm has now become a disgusting liquid: hmmmmm, interesting, to b fair I guess the lady doesn't love her husband, cos if she does, she would talk to him and make him see reasons why she feels he should stop, rather dan tell her single friend like u who will inturn post it on the world wide web, #dumb

If a lady doesn't love d husband anymore, all what he does becomes imperfection, he doesn't sex her well again, look nice again, bla bla bla, I rest my case

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

please can you mastubate with condom......


op, that's his sex fantasy, just make sure he satisfy you in bed and you don't have problem........cuz you're sure he won't cheat on you


he would mastubate instead

BasseyJ:

Experience ke? I actually just read an article about porn moves guys like to practice that's weird /useless in real life earlier that day on a site I visit.

Hope so.

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

Biko... Easy on her

Chemstar:


The most sensible comments on this matter so far.
thumbs up for you bro

Tnx bro.

Op you were right to call sperm disgusting liquid. Don't mind those boys giving themselves bp cos you told the truth.
Bodily fluids are generally slimy smêlly and disgusting.
Including spêrm.

chowlade:
My friend narrated her ordeal with her Husband. She explained her Hubby loves to Mastubate to finish up sex on top of her during sex. and he will ejaculate disgusting liquids directly on her body.Somtime she will bath afterward like three or five times in a day just to clean up the sticky mess. She asked him to Mastubate using Condom but he refuse.What can she do?

1.Can she quit the relationsip even though her husband has invested so much in the relationship?

2.Is mastubation a sin even though he does it with wife?

3.How can he rehabilitate him back to a normal Man in bed?

Nairalanders Your comment can save this relationship.

Nairaland Help

All these holier than thou wives. What is sperm that she has to take her bath 5 times a day just to wash off the sperm. I'm sure she doesn't give oral. I guess she hasn't really seen disgusting things in her life to term this as such

diamondtutu:



First of all,you must be very stupid for calling d sperm that made u fresh and made u babies disgusting Liquid.


Idiotess.

That was the first thing that came to my mind, You are lucky the guy never aim your mouth!

Dear OP

Assuming this your story is true, then there is no problem at all, when you meet women that their husbands rarely have erections due to one condition or the other then you know there is no issue here.
While kissing your husband, I'm sure you guys exchange saliva at will so why is that 'disgusting liquid' so irritating to skin?

I won't tell you not to quit oh; if you wanna quit, fine. But I bet you, you'll not even go far before another lady will come sucking and swallowing that 'disgusting liquid '

Happy quitting dear

Really wish I cld contribute h here but.........

Maybe her kpunja is too wide..

That wld b d only reason.

Thinking of leaving ur husband, have a rethink cos there are 99 hot girls out there ready to use a straw.

totoakins:

pls what is salad toss

Inquisitive minds want to know? Lol. That's when a girl spread her legs wide open and eat you p@@@y and your Azz all at the same lick lol