Beface:

Beyond the romantic aspect i think the igbo's culture is also an issue.

Hmmmm. What's about the Igbo culture that's an issue?

xtervaganza:
your spellings aren't that great either



Trust me

cos am a proud Yoruba man

MrsChima:


Hmmmm. What's about the Igbo culture that's an issue?

Per adventure if anything should happen to the man,most time the woman is usually held responsible. I heard they will isolate a woman that is suspected to have kill her husband and give her the water that is use to bath her dead husband to drink to prove her innocence. In some cases,they will collect all the properties from the woman.

Beface:

Per adventure if anything should happen to the man,most time the woman is usually held responsible. I heard they will isolate a woman that is suspected to have kill her husband and give her the water that is use to bath her dead husband to drink to prove her innocence. In some cases,they will collect all the properties from the woman.

What happens if the same incident occurred in the Yoruba family?

MrsChima:
I have inlaws that are married to Yorubas (3) out of 8 and they tells me the men are very romantic and skilled with words.

are your in laws Igbo?

have several Yoruba friends...romance seems to be a desired passover with them...not sure if it is a tribal thing but it's noticeable.

in what way?

I think most Nigerian men are sweet talkers, as in while dating, but then, are other males not also the same way?

Nigerian men don't even do all the flower and chocolates stuff as much as non Nigerians.

Unless being very direct about romping in the hay is considered romantic.

tpiadotcom:


are your in laws Igbo?






in what way?

I think most Nigerian men are sweet talkers, as in while dating, but then, are other males not also the same way?

Nigerian men don't even do all the flower and chocolates stuff as much as non Nigerians.

Unless being very direct about romping in the hay is
considered romantic.

Yes...my inlaws are igbo. I am sure other Nigerian men are skilled talkers...but Yoruba men created the lead! IMO.

Sex isn't a romance but quality time together is romantic. I don't care for flowers as gifts.

Sing me a song on key or off key is romantic to me!

MrsChima:


Yes...my inlaws are igbo. I am sure other Nigerian men are skilled talkers...but Yoruba men created the lead! IMO.

really?


I'd say maybe Hausa men (from what I heard). Even parts of the South South as well, the problem is its not only one person that will be "sweet talked" to.

Sex isn't a romance but quality time together is romantic. I don't care for flowers as gifts.

I feel a lot of women consider direct sex talk, as romantic.

It could also be anything that is coming from a man, is considered romantic as long as it showcases admiration of the womanly assets.

Sing me a song on key or off key is romantic to me!

how many Nigerian men do that on average?

Quite few, unless maybe the ones raised in diaspora or something.

you get your song on the wedding day as part of the festivities. After that, folks will say the man has been fed juju if he does it again.

MrsChima:


What happens if the same incident occurred in the Yoruba family?

It varies from family to family. Some may live it to God,while some may want to go spiritual to ascertain the cause of the death. It is important to note, there is no standardize tradition to solve this case.

Question for the gods.

Igbo ladies mostly marry Igbo men... and Yoruba ladies mostly marry Yoruba men... the ones that do otherwise are the exception and not the norm!

what.? Expecially igbo kwa? Hian.

teeowl:
Igbo ladies mostly marry Igbo men... and Yoruba ladies mostly marry Yoruba men... the ones that do otherwise are the exception and not the norm!

thank you

mightycrown1:
Why Are Ladies From Other Tribes Especially From The Ibos Like To Date/Marry Yoruba Men?

I always ask myself this question yet I’ve not gotten a convincing answer. Good numbers of these tribes are fond of calling the Yorubas names but the same set of people will still see their daughters/sisters going out with a Yoruba guy and will still allowed it. Many even allow their daughters/sisters to marry the yorubas.

Is there anything hidden in these people (the Yorubas) that still motivate these tribes to marry them?

Please, I want you (Nairalanders) to help me out.

Mhizizzy:
Yoruba guyz are generally cool

You two dumbasses need each other..
Bingo! A match make of silly people on nairaland should do it...

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lordkrato:


You two dumbasses need each other..
Bingo! A match make of silly people on nairaland should do it...

U are d real dumbass

Mhizizzy:


U are d real dumbass

Let me guess.. Yoruba right...

You guys should host a show called Ashewo: The originals

Utchgirl:
@ Mr mighty Crown,d topic is why are ladies 4rm oda tribes especially d igbos like 2 date/marry yoruba men.And im opposing it saying it shld be d oda way round(ie Y yoruba ladies date/marry igbo men) and dts Y i used those celebraties to justify my reasons.

ARE YOU THEN SAYING THEY DONT LIKE TO MARRY YORUBA MEN OR WHY SUGGESTING THE OTHER WAY ROUND?
USING CELEBs AS CASE STUDY WONT MAKE PROPER ANALYSIS BECAUSE GOOD NUMBER OF THEM MARRY AND DIVORCE FREELY

U said 2face LUV sumbo n pero and as a result planted his SEEDS on them n left dem 4 Annie right? Do u knw d meaning of LUV at all ? If dis is wht u call luv, wht then is lust?.Then in dt case he HATE Annie n dts Y he married her after she had only a kid( out of wedlock) bt left ur sisters dt hv 2 n 3 kids for him (all out of wedlock). If 4 e.g any of dem is ur biological sis, wil u stil say dt he luv ur sis by nt marrying her? This is whn u wil see d truth.plz leave arguement out 4rm dis
and say d truth.And u said for 2face 2 be seeing Pero till date dt it shows 2face luv her abi? Lolzz....

YES HE LOVE THEM. SOME PEOPLE MARRIED NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT THE PERSON BUT BECAUSE CULTURE OR PARENTS DEMAND SUCH. SO TO SATISFY THE PARENT THEY WILL DO WHAT THEY WOULDNT HAVE DONE AND YET CONTINUE THE ONE THAT PLEASE THEM.
IF THEY HAPPENS TO BE MY SIS, INASMUCH AS THEY ARE NOT COMPLAINING I CANT TEACH THEM HOW THEY SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIVES. I MAINTAINED, IF HE DIDNT SEE SOMETHING SPECIAL IN THEM HE WOULDNT HAVE CONTINUE SEEING THEM. MARRIAGE IS GOOD BUT NOT EVERYBODY CAN GET MARRIED.

IT IS NICE HAVING YOU ON THIS THREAD.
GOOD NITE AND SWEET DREAMS

rawlinsobas:
If u give igbo gurls an options they will go for yoruba men. They luv our way....

lol,who told you that??wake up bro nd stop decieving urself .

lordkrato:


You two dumbasses need each other..
Bingo! A match make of silly people on nairaland should do it...

BRO WHO TOOK YOUR BREAD

lordkrato:


Let me guess.. Yoruba right...

You guys should host a show called Ashewo: The originals

I can determine Wu u are from d two mentions u AV given me. .

U are not worth replying

Swerve away

Mhizizzy:
Yoruba guyz are generally cool

To yoruba girls like you,maybe...
but we igbo girls beg to defer...we dnt like yoruba boys abeg

jascon1:
To begin with, they love to marry Yoruba men so they can teach them how to spell correctly and avoid the kinda mistakes u make in Ur English n spellings as can be seen on Ur topic. Secondly, variety spices up life. thirdly, cos u r not smart n wise n u r easy to control. Thirdly, some of Dem have been used to living with Yoruba all their lives n they understand their cultures n they love the parties et all. Fourthly fifthly n sixthly the reasons go on so so and so so

see mumu, so u tink any lady would marry a guy with all these what u listed especially from another tribe?, u go scul at all?

Mhizizzy:


I can determine Wu u are from d two mentions u AV given me. .

U are not worth replying

Swerve away

Awww.. Did I hurt your feelings or are you to empty that you can't retort??

Empty upstairs, wide downstairs..

Shameless THOT from a baby mama making tribe..

mightycrown1:

BRO WHO TOOK YOUR BREAD

I just don't suffer idiots gladly...

rahazaqa:
see mumu, so u tink any lady would marry a guy with all these what u listed especially from another tribe?, u go scul at all?

Chai the thing pain u sha

utch girl can deny all she wants but truth of the matter is that IBO gals often have the hotts for Yoruba boys. it has happened to me twice and I've also witnessed it in many other places also.

lordkrato:


Montula, please who wants Yoruba ladies..??
Ladies that have been rejected by their men? !/!!
Forget P Square.. She's half caste and that sef was a war..

No one wants a THOT for a wife.. Abeg

it is uneducated pigs like u that give ur tribe a bad name. any body that goes to school and speaks like this simply wasted several years of his life. dazall

Stella damasus has married two yoruba men, steph nora married a yoruba man, adewale ayuba's wife is igbo, monalisa chinda married a yoruba man, clarion chuwkura. Married yoruba men, those are the known ones, igbo women love yoruba dongs(delta ibo and ikwerre are conclusive)

phazotron:







it is uneducated pigs like u that give ur tribe a bad name. any body that goes to school and speaks like this simply wasted several years of his life. dazall

And your signature says " what is life without money "

Ignorance my friend is your identity. If you claim to be educated and have such mission statement as the touts at iyanoba then I'm sorry for you.

I stand by my statement because it's the harsh truth. Most south westerners have broken homes, step this step that, children outside wedlock etc.. Instead of you soberly reflecting you're being who you are, and I can't fault you for that.

Sometimes I just wonder the kind of rubbish, mumuish, idiotic and senseless ops and topics that hit front page these days... What's the essence of this topic @op if your brother married an Ibo lady does it mean that all Ibo ladies are desperate for your men! Please get a life .. I don't know if its really a life time achievement for a Yoruba man to marry an Ibo lady honestly..

Sometimes I just wonder the kind of rubbish, mumuish, idiotic and senseless ops and topics these days... What's the essence of this topic @op if your brother married an Ibo lady does it mean that all Ibo ladies are desperate for your men! Please get a life .. I don't know if its really a life time achievement for a Yoruba man to marry an Ibo lady honestly..