Do you believe men have feelings? Should they express them openly?

Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

Hello, we are human beings remember. Honestly men don't care that much about their feelings. I mean we don't analyze things the way women do, we for the most part are simple creatures. It doesn't mean we don't care, it just means we react to things and then we are done, we don't need to rationalize everything. As you know, men express their emotions physically. People differs Tho.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

True talk but that "cry" part got me cracking

Most of them are more emotional than the ladies.

Even thugs cry.Tupac admitted to shedding tears upon hearing the death of his homeboy's parents.I think he was one of the truest niggas who ever graced the surface of this earth.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

Cry on a woman's shoulder when the reverse should be the case.So u go carryam play.God forbid!

Lemme tell you something, Men has feeling stronger than women.. but men will rather keep it, pretend to be angry, pretend not to care, a man can even cheat on you just to keep you in check, so that you won't megalize him or overly react to overly caring.. some guys even double-date to minimize heartbreak or guarantee insured emotional loss or out of fear that you might leave him.. i am a case study. Boys play cheap tricks on their women but real men don't, But also, beware of fake product of men, just like hoes, casanovas are real too.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

openness doesn't lead to good communication.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

Your head dey there jare.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

[size=15pt]you are kidding right?
An average naija man can only cry when you are alone with him and you've made his Moses rod rise few inches above the ground level then you now tell him you are leaving, without making him reach his promise land. [/size]

I've got feelings!

Men have feelings too.....expressed differently though.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

Like that guy that kissed the babe in public ba?

How are you dear?

Orijin101:

[size=15pt]you are kidding right?
An average naija man can only cry when you are alone with him and you've made his Moses rod rise few inches above the ground level then you now tell him you are leaving, without making him reach his promise land. [/size]

No wonder u cried that day!

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

I totally agree with this but the crying bit shouldn't be an everyday thing or it becomes draining lol. You don't want a big baby that cries at the drop of a hat. Awkward. It's very weird when a man cries. It puts you on the spot big time. You don't know whether to pat them on the head or offer them a tissue. Mostly I just stare or give them the privacy to ball their eyes to their heart's content because I become clueless on what to do in a situation like that.

Twaci:
No wonder u cried that day!

[size=15pt] no be you cause am?? [/size]

softysparky:

Like that guy that kissed the babe in public ba?

How are you dear?

Exactly!

Good morning sweedy! How's ur night?

PunkyOh:


I totally agree with this but the crying bit shouldn't be an everyday thing or it becomes draining lol. You don't want a big baby that cries at the drop of a hat. Awkward. It's very weird when a man cries. It puts you on the spot big time. You don't know whether to pat them on the head or offer them a tissue. Mostly I just stare or give them the privacy to ball their eyes to their heart's content because I become clueless on what to do in a situation like that.

That's true!

Twaci:
Exactly!
Good morning sweedy! How's ur night?

Lol, I am good. Wish you all the best.

Twaci:
Who doesn't?

As for showing their feelings, its entirely up to them. I like open guys, one that can laugh openly at a funny joke, one that can cry on ma shoulders without any "machoness"...

Openess lead to good communication, and communication, Trust

It is not bad to have such kind of a guy but is that what you also can offer to the said guy?

Orijin101:

[size=15pt] no be you cause am?? [/size]

What did u expect when u refused to change ma wardrobe?

Twaci:
What did u expect when u refused to change ma wardrobe?

[size=15pt] Ehn. Ehn. . so, you was expecting me to pay for my own kpomo again!

itz over! [/size]

To start with, men do have feelings. Majority of men are more emotional than the female folks. They just know how to bottle it up. #fact.

Should they express it? That's for the man to answer having this in view: the smallest act of kindness is far worth more than the greatest intention.

Don't know about men in general but I only know about myself and I will say clearly "I don't have feelings" and for the expression "You can't express what you don't possess"

Nobody should quote me

starlingslimnet:
Don't know about men in general but I only know about myself and I will say clearly "I don't have feelings" and for the expression "You can't express what you don't possess"

Nobody should quote me

but I only know about myself and I will say clearly "I don't have feelings" and for the expression "You can't express what you don't possess"

Does that mean you have a stone heart? Cos I am not sure I can buy into that.. Just saying

Men express their feelings differently.

You don't need a man to write you a love poem or cry on your shoulders 'fore you know he madly loves you. It just shows.

And that's what makes us different.

Any man that expresses his feelings like we do is a...well, woman.

Orijin101:

[size=15pt] Ehn. Ehn. . so, you was expecting me to pay for my own kpomo again!

itz over! [/size]

Haha, e don tay wey e happen na

Thank God I didn't sign that pre-nupital stuff

argon500:



It is not bad to have such kind of a guy but is that what you also can offer to the said guy?

Love and understanding . But if e no do am, he should go and drink garri

Twaci:
Haha, e don tay wey e happen na

Thank God I didn't sign that pre-nupital stuff

[size=15pt] twaci, you don't lof me [/size]

Orijin101:

[size=15pt] twaci, you don't lof me [/size]

Did u just notice? Bae, I was in it for the money