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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Noble11(m): 9:34am On May 06, 2015
21 phones from 27 footballers? lol
Heaven I need a hug.....

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by freshcvv(m): 9:35am On May 06, 2015
ooshinibos:
shameful family ..adebayor ..stop giving them free money ..it is human nature people squander money that they don't work for ...and close down your facebook instangram account ( that's where the trouble started from ) ...and stay away from the media ..change your address and phone numbers .... then peace will come to you

How possible is this for a public figure?

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by godoluwa(m): 9:35am On May 06, 2015
AndreRose:
To build a house for each family member and place them on monthly wage? Are they that lazy?
if its truth, they are not LAZY but CRAZY

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by buchiluchi(f): 9:38am On May 06, 2015
Household Enemies undecided

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Nazeeboy(m): 9:38am On May 06, 2015
kinibigdeal:

When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.


I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
https://facebook.com/1377345199160835/photos/a.1621454184749934.1073741830.1377345199160835/1650071258554893/?type=1&p=10
eyyyaahhh........... I was like reading this post in tears until I got to that "rotimi" part and I don't know when I bursted into laughter. Steal 21 phones out of 27 players? If he hadn't been caught maybe he could have still the remaining six players own plus the coach and staffs own too. What a wicked brother! And also building house for each member and giving them monthly wage makes me wonder what kind of lazy family be that? What of if adebayor earns as much as cristiano ronaldo or messi does? Them go talk say make him buy jet for everybody...........chaiiii Africans sha!

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by mbulela: 9:38am On May 06, 2015
AndreRose:
To build a house for each family member and place them on monthly wage? Are they that lazy?
Dem one use him destiny do runs.
Maga mode activated

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by IYANGBALI: 9:39am On May 06, 2015
If what yu wrote is true,you have really tried for your family. I will advice you to fashi dem jo

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by 9jatatafo(m): 9:41am On May 06, 2015
If what Ade wrote here is true and all that I have read are true then the family members are wicked. If I were him I will black out of their lives.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Redoil: 9:42am On May 06, 2015
AndreRose:
To build a house for each family member and place them on monthly wage? Are they that lazy?
have you forgotten where they came from?

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by KAYSANTOS: 9:44am On May 06, 2015
[color=#770077][/color]When I read the news,I was like; why would the family hate him that much after all he'd done for them
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by sendmeonly(m): 9:45am On May 06, 2015
Follow life as it is,be loving but don't be stupid...allow whatever your subconcious to be never minding whose ox is gored,Christ says as much as possible leave peaceably with all even at ur best living in peace you still have people criricise so should you be foolish,NO!!"
Take bold steps doing the right fin.....

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by prophetfire: 9:47am On May 06, 2015
He is from a family of confirmed witches n wizards. God has over-blessed him n he has been working hard but they want to pull him down by all means. Just give them very long rope,be reasonable in the help you render,dnt allow emotions to becloud your sence of reasoning n judgement.dnt be sentimental in dealing with them,if not they ll crash your life.be close to God in prayer and also invest n save for your retirement.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Nobody: 9:52am On May 06, 2015
Meanwhile in America there is one (black) American man whose son is a mega millionaire athlete. The man himself is a garbage collector. He is on good terms with his son, but has refused to allow his son give him money.....because as far as he is concerned, his life is okay. The man is due to retire in the next one to two years...and he has a generous pension waiting for him.

Some Africans would be calling him names.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by 83lagosroad(m): 9:52am On May 06, 2015
YUNGLURD:
u can't really blame him, the guy has been pushed to the wall.
Are you saying the guy should die in silence. Nop he should just fortify himself with prayer and dry fast. And send money to the mum only. All others should find their level. Send them out of the house and disconnect with them. Cos the best form of defence is attack.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Expsbterror(m): 9:53am On May 06, 2015
0nenaira6:
Ogun idile lo le ju


So no be only naija get Ogùn idílé (family battles) hmmmmmmm Oga oooo

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by 83lagosroad(m): 9:54am On May 06, 2015
YUNGLURD:
u can't really blame him, the guy has been pushed to the wall.
Are[color=#000099][/color] you saying the guy should die in silence. Nop he should just fortify himself with prayer and dry fast. And send money to the mum only. All others should find their level. Send them out of the house and disconnect with them. Cos the best form of defence is attack.
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Nobody: 9:54am On May 06, 2015
I can totally understand what he is going through. As a young female who made her first million at 17, my sister, brother and mother especially, thought I was indebted to them. They never in any way contributed to my life oo. I have been the one providing for them and taking all the hit and yet they remain ingrates. Currently unemployed, my mum expects me to give her 450k for rent and her debts... I am not even above 21 yet. Every penny I have today, I did not get from any boyfriend or any man... Purely investments. Now I am tagged wicked because My eyes have opened and I can see them for what they truly are. I know everyone says if all fails family would be there. It's 2015, that statement no longer holds value, infact family is the shitiest.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by ARKdiscloser7(m): 9:55am On May 06, 2015
I am not surprised at all, since the family are of the Yoruba Tribe...

Wickedness and Laziness runs in their blood.

I always see so many Yoruba boys at First Bank Ilupeju every morning collecting money paid by their siblings abroad.
and I heard that is what they live on.

What a people.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Edusouls(m): 9:55am On May 06, 2015
chai see the kind of witch mother and sister somebody has, adebayor is unfortunate you were born in the midst of greedy,bad hearted and ungreatful family, i know what u re going through, just know that God is with you,as he will give you the strength, heart and endurance to carry on in this ur family of wickedness, please u have tried ur best for them,find a way to keep urself happy and enjoy ur sweat,life is too short ma brother..chai see the kind of endtime family that exists in this world..kai black man is cursed to suffer and be discriminated in this life,due to their black hearts, wickedness,no love for each other,greed and selfishness darkened us deep from the heart to the skin..
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Leon2036(m): 9:56am On May 06, 2015
anigold:


if this is true, hmmm what a sad and pathetic family. Ade just put your before God Almighty...

Sometimes the way some African reason is ridiculously beyong human imagination...
you jux qoute everything at the end come type watin person no fit. Read, na wah for u oh!! @topic only God knows the true story!!
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by KMB: 9:58am On May 06, 2015
AndreRose:
To build a house for each family member and place them on monthly wage? Are they that lazy?

Just Greedy
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by blessin30289(f): 9:58am On May 06, 2015
Well, I feel the pain u ar going through but nevertheless take your burdens to the lord's table and leave it there he can handle it and again be thankful to God for giving u such a wonderful family and the good lord will see u thru. Amen.
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by generalissimo(m): 9:59am On May 06, 2015
Adebayoooor! Honestly, I don't mind ur kind of problem.....being the only one to feed my family and so on cheesy
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by CrazyMan(m): 10:00am On May 06, 2015
AndreRose:
To build a house for each family member and place them on monthly wage? Are they that lazy?
You took the words right out of my mouth...what's wrong with we africans?

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Precioussilas10: 10:00am On May 06, 2015
allanphash7:
I wonder why Africans get angry when they are been called Animal or Monkey








Put this to yourself can a right thinking human being who is not animal do this












Smhbfor we Africans
Shut up!..what do you think you're saying?why generalise?
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Johniyke2flex(m): 10:02am On May 06, 2015
With the names that are being mentioned, hmmm! Am not surprised! The laziness and stewpidity can actually be traced back to their blood line.

On a second thought, who are these Nigerians that comment on international forum? Read their comments and u'll think Nigerians were colonised by pips frm Republic of Bangladesh. Such horrible contribution. Those are the actual pple giving Nigeria a bad name!

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by KA24DETT(m): 10:02am On May 06, 2015

If all this is true, Adebayor had the messiah complex. First all,, you do not owe anybody abything in this world. Nothing . Absolutely nothing . The best you can do for anybody including your mom is to give them money ONCE to start something with their life and let them go. Continous maintenance is rubbish . You are on your own in this world. When you are down, they will leave you and latch onto the next one .
You have to be selfish to survive in this world. If Adebayor is gone tomorrow, all of them will find a way to survive ..

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by pyx: 10:03am On May 06, 2015
kinibigdeal:
SEA, I have kept these stories for a long time but I think today it is worth sharing some of them with you. It's true that family matters should be solved internally and not in public but I am doing this so that hopefully all families can learn from what happened in mine. Also keep in mind that none of this is about money.

At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I brought her to London for various medical check ups. When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so she could consult him in Nigeria. She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2 days into her stay, I received a call saying she left. Apart from all that l also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his family?

A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing. She also kicked Daniel out of that house. Note that the house had about 15 rooms. When I called her and asked for explanation, she took about 30 minutes to abuse and insult me over the phone. I called my mother to explain the situation and she did the same as my sister. This same sister says I am ungrateful. Ask her about the car she is driving or anything she is selling today?

My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?
When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories about our family to "The Sun" in other to take some money. They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.

When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.

I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.

My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.

I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?

I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.
For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.

If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my family members. I just want other African families to learn from this. Thank you.


https://facebook.com/1377345199160835/photos/a.1621454184749934.1073741830.1377345199160835/1650071258554893/?type=1&p=10
so painful, sorry bros
Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by brownlord: 10:04am On May 06, 2015
You don't owe your family anything, i repeat, you owe them nothing.

You were given birth to by the same parents, grew up in the same environment, had the same opportunity, if any bastard want to make ridiculous demand because you strive to become successful and think it's their right to turn you to NATIONAL TREASURY.

Hey look them in the eye, and tell them "Go and die"

I can go out of my way to make sacrifice for my family, because that is why i'm hustling, but you want to take me for a fool because of that? Dem no born you well


Thank God for my family sha, if i have such useless siblings and monster sorry mother, i wouldn't waste time disowning sorry disfamilying them.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by faray: 10:04am On May 06, 2015
plenty money plenty problem...may God help yu solve yur problem.

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by Petra23(f): 10:05am On May 06, 2015
Nawa o. He's rly going through hell.what a family

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Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by brownlord: 10:08am On May 06, 2015
crownprince102:
Earlier before this, I always blame Adebayor for neglecting his family most especially his mother but I never realise I was partial and bias, I 've never heard his own side of the story before I concluded my mind in judging.


We Africans are wicked, callous, greedy and barbaric. All because God has lift him, he should become an Automated Teller Machine for the whole family.


He should pay them monthly wages?
OMG, for doing what? For sitting down in Togo and watching him play come the hot summer and the cold winter? May be for getting him a club?


Imagine, he allows his sister to live in a house worth $1.2 million and the wretched bitch rent it out and was even insulted by the sister, so also his mother. He work for his money, why can't they work for theirs.


Hmmm...... Every man facing the storm of his own life all alone. He has the money and everything but his family wants to steal his happiness. Life is really unfair!!!

There is no point starting what you can't finish, in my opinion he gave them too much to start with and they felt, since their brother is now a millionaire they too automatically becomes millionaire.

We Africans are the most silly set of humans, why should anyone blame others for calling blacks monkeys?

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