Wow! This dude stole my mind.

I can only hope those girls will listen. I found one already and I thank God for that.

Op is sooooo on point. When I meet a girl whose standard is 'No Sex Before Marriage" I'm really really wowed! All my thoughts would be this is the Real Deal worth any price and sacrifice to be the proud owner. No right thinking guy is insane to EVER attempt to plan the rest of his life with a cheap commodity that he easily afforded for junk price and knows any other man can easily entice into infidelity by waving a couple of N10 bills or cheap promises or over-rehearsed compliments before her where solid gold is still available in the market. Who no like better thing??

No-Sex-Before-Marriage girls are the greatest and most sought after objects by men in need of a trustworthy life partner because they are very very very rare gems. Sadly, many don't know this and compromise their standards by following the steps of their already worthless girl friends maybe to feel important or wanted or loved - so opposite in direction to the path of worth, not knowing they are of much worth than all the seven wonders of the world, and all the gems this world can boast of are like rags compared to her.

Ladies, let me let you in on a secret you may find bizarre. Guys are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to skimpily dressed girls (especially bad girls), girls who bare their bosoms or assets in scanty dresses, promiscuous girls who love flirting, that is, girls with low standards because they only want to satisfy their greedy desires for PLEASURE, NOT LOVE. THAT ATTRACTION ALWAYS FADES INTO EXTINCTION WHEN THEY ARE ABLE TO SATISFY THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES. NO FEELINGS INVOLVED.

However, they are GENUINELY ATTRACTED to girls with high standards who make it their principle that they will not have sex until after marriage because they want to satisfy their deepest and strongest longing and desire for LOVE, NOT PLEASURE. THAT ATTRACTION GROWS STRONGER EACH DAY BEFORE AND AFTER HAVING HER AS A WIFE AND IT NEVER FADES.

Have you seen that girl who says no to premarital sex and sticks to it? SHE IS THE DREAM OF EVERY GUY.

See the way these ladies are praising the op. But I don't think I'd take any girl that says no sex before marriage especially if she is not a virgin serious. I just see it as trap.


But of a truth, you people make this sex sound one sided. Like its always all a bout the guy.

An2elect2:
Yea! but at the end of the day i am not settling for a man "with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility" in the world's sense. That's superficial for me. Hardworking and responsible men, i appreciate but what is foremost is that he must know The Lord that i know.

I appreciate your effort and time to put this out here for us. It only shows how concerned and well meaning you are.

I will also want to say that Christian ladies should in all our doings, not keep the focus of attraction on us but on Christ. Yes and very, important we should be neat, have good carriage, be principled, be good looking, have good dress sense,etc but if we affirm and teach in all honesty that we are only God's vessels then we should remain just that.

I am overjoyed when a guy sees Christ in me more than he sees me. LOL If all he cares for is me me me, i wouldn't want to have much dealings with him. Strange? yes to worldly women but not to Christians.

We cant get people saved by "pricing" ourselves but by pointing them to Christ if we say we are Christians and care for men's souls else, we are nothing but worldlings who are only seeking praises and glory for ourselves from men through rare means.

Just seyin

When you talk about a lady living for Christ, I hope you mean truly walking in Love and obeying the Word in thick and thin, not just going to Church and forming over commitment like many ladies do.

sirr:
@ Prettythicksme and Nickymezor. Thanks so much, God bless U
@ IAmLEGEND, is "sex" your priority? you know life is short, hope you also know there's a Judge who is justly angry? #LiveAWorthyLife bro

if u know there is an judge watching u in HD, den stop lying too.
shey e fit carry u go hell too

Shyna112:
The moment they open up their legs, they loose some respect, and values

That's a blatant lie, only boys will disrespect a lady because you've had sex with her, its a same same situation for both of you, if this happens to you, then they are two things involved

1 YOU NEVER RESPECTED HER B4 THE SEX

2 GIRL HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM

Some babes go sex you ehn, and you'd still want to lick their butts, basically because you don't wanna lose them, they are just too good in everything, even in the sex thingy. #maturemindonly

sirr:

My brov, its almost everywhere, I've lost 3 r-ships all because of same reason, but I know soon, we'll find our best companion. Thanks bro, and One love

Nothing do u bro. You're so on point. You'll find one someday. But the truth is that she may not come in an physically beautiful package - speaking from experience.

It took me a while to find her, she's too much of a priceless Sundance. I just tunned her up a lil bit. Now I see God intentionally hid her beauty -oother guys are now like "how come we didn't see this beauty?"

donmarshia:


When you talk about a lady living for Christ, I hope you mean truly walking in Love and obeying the Word in thick and thin, not just going to Church and forming over commitment like many ladies do.

As a human, she is expected to default sometimes but as long and as soon as she finds her way back, she should feel new again

wizard007:


That's a blatant lie, only boys will disrespect a lady because you've had sex with her, its a same same situation for both of you, if this happens to you, then they are two things involved

1 YOU NEVER RESPECTED HER B4 THE SEX

2 GIRL HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM

Some babes go sex you ehn, and you'd still want to lick their butts, basically because you don't wanna lose them, they are just too good in everything, even in the sex thingy. #maturemindonly

Would you be ready to take her as a wife knowing her superior bedmatics skills gained through years of experience with various guys?

The 'no to sex before marriage' standard is biblical and should be upheld. But ladies should also remember that staying chaste before marriage MAY never guarantee them a happy marriage. Even as we focus on no sex before marriage as a way of 'raising our value' in men's eyes, we must also not throw aside things such as truthfulness, honesty, reliability, calmness, godliness, forgiveness, humility ....and general character development. A lady with a good character is more pricely and will make a better companion than one without but just with the 'no sex .....' mentality. However, i advocate sexual purity until marriage - because God hates fornication and sin. As i strive to keep myself away from immorality and sin, through God's grace, I am also building my character through God's word, to be a better person. Proverbs 31 comes handy. Remain blessed everyone and live to please the Lord.

*yawns*

If we are in relationships and you tell me that no Sex nonsense..
E Don over be that.. Sefini..
After all, what is the point of having a relationship with you if not for Sex... We could have just become normal friends.. Then, there won't be any string attached and whatever we do won't be mandatory.

GlorifiedTunde:


Nothing do u bro. You're so on point. You'll find one someday. But the truth is that she may not come in an physically beautiful package - speaking from experience.

It took me a while to find her, she's too much of a priceless Sundance. I just tunned her up a lil bit. Now I see God intentionally hid her beauty -oother guys are now like "how come we didn't see this beauty?"

Wow, Thanks bro. Most grateful and encouraged. Thanks alot

Nt in dis our modern days OP, where parents urge their son/daughter 2 hv s*x with their intended spouse. Taste b4 u buy

misreal:
only the holy ghost can tame your natural self.belief me if it happened to me it can happen to anyone that believes.

If you can tam the 7 living characteristics which includes Reproduction (sex) then I can believe in your fable holy ghost , you can't tell me because you don't have natural sex you don't jack at times or except something is wrong with ur John Thomas. I choose not to believe all these man made believes to tam nature

kevinberry:
Someone will just sit down and start thinking of how to spoil market for his fellow men simply because he does not like what they indulge in..

@ op I need to lay you down and flog you thoroughly...


Anyway this will only bother guys who does not know what they want sha....

To me,own have always been(if you know it going to happen,let it happen now,because I might marry a no SEX lady and divorce her three days after the weeding..that me for you..to let you know that you are not smart enough

You're not man enough. Real men don't divorce their wives

all4naija:
I can see that all the girls that like the OP are ugly!

However, I don't subscribe to the action of disrespecting a girl on the basis of morality. I give respect to wayward and sincere girls but I draw a thick invisible line of association and interaction between them. Girls with class and principles are my taste. I might be attracted to the body of a promiscuous girl but she is of no real value to me beyond her looks (a pathetic way to be seen by others) and my attraction lasts as long as smoke in the air. My definition of beauty is the one that is skin deep. Only girls with class and standard have that.

all4naija:
I can see that all the girls that like the OP are ugly!

Does it mean all the girls in a sexual relationship with their boyfriends are beautiful?

CaptainJune:
Op is sooooo on point. When I meet a girl whose standard is 'No Sex Before Marriage" I'm really really wowed! All my thoughts would be this is the Real Deal worth any price and sacrifice to be the proud owner. No right thinking guy is insane to EVER attempt to plan the rest of his life with a cheap commodity that he easily afforded for junk price and knows any other man ...their bosoms or assets in scanty dresses, promiscuous girls who love flirting, that is, girls with low standards because they only want to satisfy their greedy desires for PLEASURE, NOT LOVE. THAT ATTRACTION ALWAYS FADES INTO EXTINCTION WHEN THEY ARE ABLE TO SATISFY THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES. NO FEELINGS INVOLVED.

However, they are GENUINELY ATTRACTED to girls with high standards who make it their principle that they will not have sex until after marriage because they want to satisfy their deepest and strongest longing and desire for LOVE, NOT PLEASURE. THAT ATTRACTION GROWS STRONGER EACH DAY BEFORE AND AFTER HAVING HER AS A WIFE AND IT NEVER FADES.

Have you seen that girl who says no to premarital sex and sticks to it? SHE IS THE DREAM OF EVERY GUY.

Bros, you just made a day, THANKS SO MUCH, really encouraged. God bless You plenty.

Assslayer:


If you can tam the 7 living characteristics which includes Reproduction (sex) then I can believe in your fable holy ghost , you can't tell me because you don't have natural sex you don't jack at times or except something is wrong with ur John Thomas. I choose not to believe all these man made believes to tam nature

man made beliefs??don't worry sir I am a living testimony.

CaptainJune:
However, I don't subscribe to the action of disrespecting a girl on the basis of morality. I give respect to wayward and sincere girls but I draw a thick invisible line of association and interaction between them. Girls with class and principles are my taste. I might be attracted to the body of a promiscuous girl but she is of no real value to me beyond her looks (a pathetic way to be seen by others) and my attraction lasts as long as smoke in the air. My definition of beauty is the one that is skin deep. Only girls with class and standard have that.

VERY WELL SAID BOSS, THANKS A LOT. GOD BLESS YOU BOSS

rman:


You have risen above the psychological bullshit ladies are preaching.

If do not want to have sex, stay away from having a boyfriend.

They want to eat their cake and still have it. You spend time and money then the Idris Elba look alike with money shows up and they dump your sorry ass. Also, girls apply different rules to this no sex policy. The same girl will Bleep and throw the virginity out of the window if she gets the opportunity to meet the alpha male.

Sex is a tool for control and manipulation for ladies and I will immediately drop a girl that tells me no sex as a condition for dating her.

Let's date and if sex doesn't happen because u bring a whole lot more then fine by me. You are intellectually lazy, a parasite, boring in social setting, u want me to entertain u and buy u girfs and still say, no sex, Mba!

I still wonder how some guys agree to such wicked arrangement from these manipulative people.

You want a relationship without sex but could you please keep your filthy hands off my wallet and stop making me your personal driver ?
Some of these girls are funny but what could be more funny than someone that agrees to rules and regulations that he is not comfortable with just to be seen as a gentleman.

Bro, I've been very close to girls a lot all my life and if you see how they perceive guys that are always at their beck and call you'll dare not give them am inch to use your head. Why would one be in a relationship where the very gift of the relationship is under lock and key because of some flimsy excuses.
Like you rightly said ,the moment they come across an alpha male all that stories won't hold water and unfortunately this same girl that is tying you down on that fake relationship could be getting it from one insignificant dude while you're there forming a good man. after all there is no technology to understand what that payzone has gone through.
My best advice is to get it or leave such wicked relationship.
Let her get herself another guinea pig.

eightsin:
See the way these ladies are praising the op. But I don't think I'd take any girl that says no sex before marriage especially if she is not a virgin serious. I just see it as trap.


But of a truth, you people make this sex sound one sided. Like its always all a bout the guy.

Don't mind them .
99% of these girls that preaches the no-sex before marriage thing are prolly very mature adults that has seen it all and understanding that her chances of getting married is winding down as each year passes now resorts to Miss sophisticated using all their experiences to follow you up and of course they will always see a willing mugu to scam.

Don't be fooled.Once I hear that no-sex talk, I quietly walk away because I'm not ready for that drama.

After God fear women my friend.

sirr:

Bros, you just made a day, THANKS SO MUCH, really encouraged. God bless You plenty.

sirr:

VERY WELL SAID BOSS, THANKS A LOT. GOD BLESS YOU BOSS

You're welcome Sirr.

Nice 1

sirr:
We can also tag this topic: "Saying NO to sex makes you more "Killing", or "More Valuable", or "More Classical". Etc. But that's by the way.
(Before you start, this write up is not for lazy people who can't read all through).
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I know many ladies are wondering what does this article hold or how possible this is, but let me start by letting you know that this is a "BOYS-THING", so you are not meant to understand fully, but believe me when I say, as a young man or should I say "boy" who has many friends, (the good, bad and handsome), I know things about boys and girls, and this is something about boys I think ladies don't know...
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And this is it; A "No-To-Sex" Lady is the only type of girl Guys Respect and Want the most. If I were talking to my sister, this is truth I will make her understand...
As a guy, as a man, whenever we hear a lady says "NO-to-sex" in a r-ship, we go 'GAGA' for that lady. I don't mean lesbians or girls who are forming hard to get, believe me, guys know all those tricks when ladies are forming "hard-to-get". I'm talking about single ladies hoping for a good future husband, or hoping to be appreciated more by their Bfs or guy friends. Now listen, When a guy hears a pretty and well endowed lady say "NO-to-sex till marriage", That lady only stepped up her game, and the first thing that comes to the guy's mind is "did I hear that correct?", and this is what attracts us to such ladies. (You mustn't know about this, because no Predator tells his Prey about his plans). To Reasonable guys with focus and ambition, the feeling of "SHE'S BIGGER THAN WHAT I THOUGHT" starts growing in the their minds. Mind you, 70% of guys are reasonable, they are only being greedy. (My Reason): When you portray yourself as a "Cheap" material, a guy will always want to take advantage of you, not because he wanted you totally, but because he sees another girl in you that he can make us of, maybe for the next couple of months.
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Now lemme tell you a short story about a lady friend of mine back then in the University. Her name was Susan. (BBM: The Virtuous lady)
Susan was not the most beautiful lady in campus, nor in the department, but when Susan walks, everyone stops and looks, When she comes around, everyone wants to know what she has to say, When she talks to a guy, the world sees that guy like "Obama" for the day, her composure makes most guys in the class want to say "Hi" to her, remember, she wasn't the most beautiful girl in campus, yet she was the most attractive to all of us guys, she was friendly, She was neat, when I say neat, I mean NEAT, she dressed very clean and CLASSIC, yet, guys were not able to approach her even for laughter. And why was this? She created a standard, she had a class, she made it so, and only the brains and gurus in the class could approach her for anything casual or crucial. The news alone about the neatest and highly esteemed susan with a "NO to sex" r-ship till marriage made her Queen Elizabeth of our dept.
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Now, I want to ask you ladies a question, #how many of you are using an "i-phone 6 now#, Few I guess, but tecno reaches your hand almost everyday, right?. Now that is what VALUE has caused. Ladies, its true that "Body No Be Wood", but that is why oneday, you'll get married. The truth still remains this way: A Girl is like a Product, you have to have a Class, Dignity, standard, Self respect, before you can be Attractive to EVERY GUY. Value yourself, and guys will value you.
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When you, as a lady regard yourself as someone above "Sex B4 marriage", you only place yourself above every other girl, other girls of "Boyfriend today---Fast food tomorrow----sex next tomorrow". (Believe me, boys are already used to this type of ladies and are tired of seeing them, they are only being greedy). You have to stand out from the crowd, beat the imagination of every guy about ladies and sex.
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You don't have be a "Reverend Sister" to make this happen. Be beautiful, Dress neatly, look amazing, bold and charming, you are a young lady I guess, and you'll see that "A Gold fish has no hiding Place". Look presentable and step up your life value by saying NO-to-Sex, you'll only make men fall in love with you the more. When I say "Men", I don't mean small boys with Big bodies who chase girls because of what's under the skirts. I mean "MEN", Guys with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility. Though Its unfortunate how many girls of today will throw away "CLASS for SWAG" all in the name of BIGGER BOYS IN TOWN, in 10 years time, watch where you'll be with those "Bigger boys in town".
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Now ladies, remember this, It takes a MAGNET to attract another MAGNET, you CANNOT attract a man of substance and value when you are VALUELESS. Among 100 girls, you cannot be ATTRACTIVE, or highly esteemed or regarded by Guys/Men when you are like every other girl out there, every other girl they've met before.
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To be Attractive/highly placed, you have to be different from others, matured in your dressing, clean and neat, principled, friendly, and to crown it all, be a VIRTEOUS LADY, (too classic to be slept with by any man), be ABOVE what others cannot control..."Premarital Sex". This alone makes you "Miss Independent", and nothing kills a guy FASTER than seeing a good-looking woman with Self Esteem and Regard.
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Forget what some boys will say or do when ladies are around, guys who pretend they don't care when a girl says "NO" always feel belittled by their actions, and its always worse when the lady is Good looking or very Presentable. (your dressing ALWAYS matters). Its just the fact. Guys can go crazy when they see a girl who thinks her body worth more than gold, and yes, who wouldn't want to own a "Valuable Asset", and this alone makes her more attractive, even without make ups.
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Ladies, to attract that guy or man who you think has a class beyond you, or is a king, or a "High Standard Gentleman", to make him fall on his knees wanting you to himself, OR to find a perfect R-ship where the man will value you totally, YOU MUST NOT POUT YOUR MOUTH, POUTING MAKES YOU LOOK "STUPID"(sorry to say, but this would be a topic for another day), you should be like Susan, you must be a VIRTEOUS WOMAN, good looking and principled, you must be the kind of woman every man wants.
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Now NOTE these 2 things..
1. Being ATTRACTIVE isn't about make-ups, you only look good with make ups, but when your personality is High, you become attractive. Guys will only come for you with rubbish reasons when all you have is Nice MakeUps. Your attraction catches a man's heart when you have a reputation and ego, and not your Marykay.
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2. Being a virtuous woman doesn't mean you should start dressing like -Mary Amaka, or carrying bibles left-and-right, NO, its not all that.
Being a Virtuous woman means being principled, Neat, Dressing fashionably, creating a standard, bigger than "what-any-boy-can-just-have", bigger than Sex, and believe me, NOT ONLY WILL GUYS GO 'GAGA', EVEN GOD GETS ATTRACTED TO YOU, And you know what that means!!!.
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Ladies, Make up your minds today, and step up your game,
Re-brand yourself, No guy is worth your body except your husband, except you want a ---"Time No Dey, Make We Just Marry" Husband. MAGNET ATTRACTS ONLY MAGNET and this alone has made you "More attractive",
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Too all the beautiful African Queens reading this, God bless you.

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I hope this would make front page for my other sisters to see too.

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Seun , lalasticlala

Thank you so much....So....
not all guys are corrupt

Very true @ op ...... It makes more sense and meaning , infact very attractive, MORE RESPECT TO THE GIRL when u pay the brideprice of a girl whose unclothedness uv never seen .

But i dont see the same thing happening when u pay the brideprice of a girl whose unclothedness uv seen . It doesnt add up .

Another maga. The supply of mumu guys in Nigeria is almost endless.

She is saying no to sex to you and yet another guy is banging her mercilessly while you are in one lonely corner wanking away in admiration. Mumu x 10.

sirr:

GOD BLESS YOU BRO. VERY HONOURED

Thank you so much.

This thread is a NYC one

An2elect2:
Yea! but at the end of the day i am not settling for a man "with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility" in the world's sense. That's superficial for me. Hardworking and responsible men, i appreciate but what is foremost is that he must know The Lord that i know.

I appreciate your effort and time to put this out here for us. It only shows how concerned and well meaning you are.

I will also want to say that Christian ladies should in all our doings, not keep the focus of attraction on us but on Christ. Yes and very, important we should be neat, have good carriage, be principled, be good looking, have good dress sense,etc but if we affirm and teach in all honesty that we are only God's vessels then we should remain just that.

I am overjoyed when a guy sees Christ in me more than he sees me. LOL If all he cares for is me me me, i wouldn't want to have much dealings with him. Strange? yes to worldly women but not to Christians.

We cant get people saved by "pricing" ourselves but by pointing them to Christ if we say we are Christians and care for men's souls else, we are nothing but worldlings who are only seeking praises and glory for ourselves from men through rare means.

Just seyin

Noted.....but that kind of man u are looking for is rare or does not exist, plz change that mentality of expectung that only see the christ u and not the u in u because a man can pretend to be good enough for u by exhibiting all the God fearing lifestyle u expected just to enter ur life, then at the end u will be the one saying "i never knew u were like this".


No matter how much u love Jesus christ, u can never marry Jesus christ but Man.

just saying




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