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How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Pinkieblue(f): 4:48pm On May 21, 2015
most men, who are willing to get married, just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values. Want a marriage proposal fast?

Then embrace these tips

1. You are not bossy

When a man first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk down the aisle with you. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his teacher, he will take a walk.

2. Don’t play games with his heart

Never ever think that being a game player will help you get a man. Though he might be intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straight-shooter.

3. Don’t want to change him

 Some women claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then, it’s his taste in music. Never attempt to change his friends and his hobbies either.

4. You don’t get jealous

 A jealous woman is on edge always because she is very distrusting. Just because you have been hurt in the past, don’t be on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets such a woman, he wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice but to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes. So, learn to trust.

5. You are not clingy

As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. Don’t be too difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by you.

6. You don’t see him as a father

Not all men like to be viewed as a father figure. Initially, he might like how you look to him for approval and the answer to all of your questions, but soon, he realises that he wants to be intimate with a real woman, not someone who is stuck in her teen years trying to get daddy to notice her.

7. Not tied to your mother’s apron strings

 A man is comfortable with you when he realises you don’t call on your mother always to make a decision on your affair with him. He gets scared the more when you cannot do without getting her opinion on everything.

8. You don’t talk about others always

Most guys are turned off when you always love to gossip and talk about other people. Not only that, when you love to hear things about other people as well. Initially, this could entertain him but eventually, he begins to wonder what you are saying when he is not around.

9. You are yourself

You don’t have to be everyone else! A  lady, who is constantly talking about what other people do and what they have, places a lot of undue pressure on her man.  Be yourself, live your size per time and shun pretences.

10. You appreciate his mother/siblings

Never make negative comments on mothers-in-law whenever you are around him. Let him know his mother is as special to you just as she is to him.  His siblings? Show love to even the nastiest of them all.
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by agarawu23(m): 4:50pm On May 21, 2015
the list is coming from a Lady and you forget your number 1 point undecided

You mustn't be materialistic

no guy is ready to propose to a girl who makes him spend lavishly all the time.

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Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Cutehector(m): 4:51pm On May 21, 2015
Beware of dogs
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 21, 2015
Ok
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Nobody: 4:53pm On May 21, 2015
Cutehector:
Beware of dogs
lol
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by justmag(m): 4:55pm On May 21, 2015
Well said op. grin
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by fnep2smooth(m): 4:56pm On May 21, 2015
3. Don’t want to change him

Some women claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then, it’s his taste in music. Never attempt to change his friends and his hobbies either.


I remember when she caught me blowing my kush cool

She said : if you don't change I will break up with you.

i was like WTF.......... you caught me with kush... way tin again I won hide from you. Na to de kush de go na
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Nobody: 5:01pm On May 21, 2015
Jst lost interest in a lady because of number 2. She bought me time to see all her flaws n someone else better.....
Pinkieblue:
most men, who are willing to get married, just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values. Want a marriage proposal fast?

Then embrace these tips

1. You are not bossy

When a man first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk down the aisle with you. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his teacher, he will take a walk.

2. Don’t play games with his heart

Never ever think that being a game player will help you get a man. Though he might be intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straight-shooter.

3. Don’t want to change him

 Some women claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then, it’s his taste in music. Never attempt to change his friends and his hobbies either.

4. You don’t get jealous

 A jealous woman is on edge always because she is very distrusting. Just because you have been hurt in the past, don’t be on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets such a woman, he wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice but to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes. So, learn to trust.

5. You are not clingy

As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. Don’t be too difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by you.

6. You don’t see him as a father

Not all men like to be viewed as a father figure. Initially, he might like how you look to him for approval and the answer to all of your questions, but soon, he realises that he wants to be intimate with a real woman, not someone who is stuck in her teen years trying to get daddy to notice her.

7. Not tied to your mother’s apron strings

 A man is comfortable with you when he realises you don’t call on your mother always to make a decision on your affair with him. He gets scared the more when you cannot do without getting her opinion on everything.

8. You don’t talk about others always

Most guys are turned off when you always love to gossip and talk about other people. Not only that, when you love to hear things about other people as well. Initially, this could entertain him but eventually, he begins to wonder what you are saying when he is not around.

9. You are yourself

You don’t have to be everyone else! A  lady, who is constantly talking about what other people do and what they have, places a lot of undue pressure on her man.  Be yourself, live your size per time and shun pretences.

10. You appreciate his mother/siblings

Never make negative comments on mothers-in-law whenever you are around him. Let him know his mother is as special to you just as she is to him.  His siblings? Show love to even the nastiest of them all.
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by write2obi(m): 5:16pm On May 21, 2015
Has the issue between isi.love and missclass.y being resolved yet
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Rapsodee(m): 5:32pm On May 21, 2015
Pinkieblue:
most men, who are willing to get married, just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values. Want a marriage proposal fast?

Then embrace these tips

1. You are not bossy

When a man first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk down the aisle with you. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his teacher, he will take a walk.

2. Don’t play games with his heart

Never ever think that being a game player will help you get a man. Though he might be intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straight-shooter.

3. Don’t want to change him

 Some women claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then, it’s his taste in music. Never attempt to change his friends and his hobbies either.

4. You don’t get jealous

 A jealous woman is on edge always because she is very distrusting. Just because you have been hurt in the past, don’t be on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets such a woman, he wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice but to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes. So, learn to trust.

5. You are not clingy

As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. Don’t be too difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by you.
All these five pisses me off especially that number 2,some don't undastand that playing hard to get has limit you can take it to,when you are getting to know each other or spending time together, your hard shell ought to be getting softer not harder unless you don't want the guy.
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Rapsodee(m): 5:37pm On May 21, 2015
code6:
Jst lost interest in a lady because of number 2. She bought me time to see all her flaws n someone else better.....
God bless u Bro....
Same here.
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by okabe(m): 6:04pm On May 21, 2015
Haven't read 2ru d thread buh I'm already lovin it

*Brb, make I read*
Re: How To Get A Man To Propose To You by Pinkieblue(f): 6:15pm On May 21, 2015
Ladies !!!! Where u @ ?

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